As a happily married and faithful man now of 8 years I will say that when my mind does occasionally wander to thoughts of dating past, it's the the wrong ones that I recall most fondly.NutterButter said:I like what you're saying here. I do think I'm overthinking it at this stage, but I needed someone else to tell me that. I have limited experience in the dating world. I do think I need to gather some more information though just to assuage my worst fears or hopefully at least come to some understanding. Part of me hates postponing what inevitably might be a challenging conversation, but I also just want to enjoy myself.