I didn't say party. Now there are a lot of people that choose to use college as little more than a big party. That's on them and it could end up having a longterm negative impact on their life (fail out of school, develop drinking/drug/sex problems, not getting positioned to gain employment, etc). There are people that do more than just party at college. They meet life long friends, make connections with future potential employers, do internships, join clubs, play sports, do charity, do research, etc.