***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (3 Viewers)

[Kraft...]

so should I call her and suggest changing our plans to Oscars or should I just leave it alone until she contacts me and see what happens???this sucks...

It may be open until midnight, but you want more than a 30 minute date, right?Why not Applebees or a restauarnt that is open later but serves dessert?

That was the original suggestion, but she wanted ice cream... lol which is how we got to me getting ice cream and meeting at a park...

Oscar's for the ice cream followed by a trip to Applebee's for a coke and getting to know you chit chat

So do I call her and let her know the change of plans??? lolif so... i gotta rush home after work and do that (no long distance call capability here) and then go do all the crap I have to do today (including finishing my stats final... stupid school... I can't wait 'til tomorow!)

You don't have cell phone?PM me her # and I'll cal and tell her...

my cell phone is ####ed up and I can't call any long distance numbers from here.. .thankfully my house is a block from work...and no... (no offense)

Why not just spring it on her when she call you after her meeting? As long as it's not a major commute change or anything I assume that would be fine

 

[larry_boy_44]

so should I call her and suggest changing our plans to Oscars or should I just leave it alone until she contacts me and see what happens???this sucks...

It may be open until midnight, but you want more than a 30 minute date, right?Why not Applebees or a restauarnt that is open later but serves dessert?

That was the original suggestion, but she wanted ice cream... lol which is how we got to me getting ice cream and meeting at a park...

Oscar's for the ice cream followed by a trip to Applebee's for a coke and getting to know you chit chat

So do I call her and let her know the change of plans??? lolif so... i gotta rush home after work and do that (no long distance call capability here) and then go do all the crap I have to do today (including finishing my stats final... stupid school... I can't wait 'til tomorow!)

You don't have cell phone?PM me her # and I'll cal and tell her...

my cell phone is ####ed up and I can't call any long distance numbers from here.. .thankfully my house is a block from work...and no... (no offense)

Why not just spring it on her when she call you after her meeting? As long as it's not a major commute change or anything I assume that would be fine

that's kinda what I was asking...:confused again:

 

[Tremendous Upside]

so should I call her and suggest changing our plans to Oscars or should I just leave it alone until she contacts me and see what happens???this sucks...

It may be open until midnight, but you want more than a 30 minute date, right?Why not Applebees or a restauarnt that is open later but serves dessert?

That was the original suggestion, but she wanted ice cream... lol which is how we got to me getting ice cream and meeting at a park...

Oscar's for the ice cream followed by a trip to Applebee's for a coke and getting to know you chit chat

So do I call her and let her know the change of plans??? lolif so... i gotta rush home after work and do that (no long distance call capability here) and then go do all the crap I have to do today (including finishing my stats final... stupid school... I can't wait 'til tomorow!)

You don't have cell phone?PM me her # and I'll cal and tell her...

my cell phone is ####ed up and I can't call any long distance numbers from here.. .thankfully my house is a block from work...and no... (no offense)

Why not just spring it on her when she call you after her meeting? As long as it's not a major commute change or anything I assume that would be fine

The only problem here is the park thing is still SOOOOO weird to me that it is within the realm of possibility that she doesn't call b/c it freaks her out...Calling and changing it normalizes the experience considerably...I would want to get away from that first idea so fast I'd be calling now...(Plus you will likely get voicemail if she is working, which is better anyway)

 

[larry_boy_44]

so should I call her and suggest changing our plans to Oscars or should I just leave it alone until she contacts me and see what happens???this sucks...

It may be open until midnight, but you want more than a 30 minute date, right?Why not Applebees or a restauarnt that is open later but serves dessert?

That was the original suggestion, but she wanted ice cream... lol which is how we got to me getting ice cream and meeting at a park...

Oscar's for the ice cream followed by a trip to Applebee's for a coke and getting to know you chit chat

So do I call her and let her know the change of plans??? lolif so... i gotta rush home after work and do that (no long distance call capability here) and then go do all the crap I have to do today (including finishing my stats final... stupid school... I can't wait 'til tomorow!)

You don't have cell phone?PM me her # and I'll cal and tell her...

my cell phone is ####ed up and I can't call any long distance numbers from here.. .thankfully my house is a block from work...and no... (no offense)

Why not just spring it on her when she call you after her meeting? As long as it's not a major commute change or anything I assume that would be fine

The only problem here is the park thing is still SOOOOO weird to me that it is within the realm of possibility that she doesn't call b/c it freaks her out...Calling and changing it normalizes the experience considerably...I would want to get away from that first idea so fast I'd be calling now...(Plus you will likely get voicemail if she is working, which is better anyway)

I don't think sh'es working now... only from like 5-11 tonight...i'm not 100% sure though...

 

[Disco Stu]

So furley what do you think about this message?ps. do you like any of these things? Pets, books, eyeglasses, wine, politics, long vacations, making dinner, blue hair, hot pink sheets, sound, friction, long walks, chaos into sense, lady into fox.

I like sound!

I totally just stole this.

how did it go?

Unread so far. Sent just before previous post.She sounded like someone who would enjoy it based on the start to her profile...

Not sure what one can expect from reading these personal ads, they all sound the same and seriously lack individuality. I guess that's to be determined upon meeting, but you get the picture. Like others on this site, I have a pulse and enjoy a variety of activities.

I modified your ps just slightly. Full message...

As luck would have it I also have a pulse and enjoy a variety of activities. But now you have me wondering if my profile sounds the same as the rest. I don't really feel like browsing male profiles to find out though. Can you take a look and let me know?Anxiously awaiting your reply,Stups. Do you like any of these things? Pets, books, eyeglasses, wine, movies, long vacations, making dinner, blue hair, hot pink sheets, sound, gravity, long walks, chaos into sense, lady into fox.

Still unread.

Update: Read. No reply. Hasn't deleted, but at this point a reply has to be considered a longshot. Oh well, I thought it was funny.

 

[mr. furley]

"That is what living is. The six inches in front of your face."

in light of recent FFA threads... errr

 

[Bankerguy]

2 first dates this weekend.

First one is an attractive lady, I shall call her "leggy". She is a couple of years older than me, interior degisner. We are going to a nice Hotel for Bunch. If it goes well we are going to then see each other again later that night to hit a club and go shake our ###.

Second date, caling her "Nice Gal" going bowling lol.. She sounds like fun and we both wanted to keep it light, we have great phone conversations and have a lot in common. She is an Indaian girl and this is my only question going into the date. Never dated long term inter-racially.

 

[larry_boy_44]

update:

due to my ####### stats class and finishing it, I didn't get home in time to call her...

so I'll have to wait 'til 11...

Should I insist on Oscar's or if she really really wants to do the park thing should I be ok going with that? (read: Should I be prepared with ice cream if she wants to do the park thing?)

 

[BassNBrew]

update:due to my ####### stats class and finishing it, I didn't get home in time to call her...so I'll have to wait 'til 11...Should I insist on Oscar's or if she really really wants to do the park thing should I be ok going with that? (read: Should I be prepared with ice cream if she wants to do the park thing?)

Larry, I wish you luck because I have a bad feeling about this

 

[larry_boy_44]

update:due to my ####### stats class and finishing it, I didn't get home in time to call her...so I'll have to wait 'til 11...Should I insist on Oscar's or if she really really wants to do the park thing should I be ok going with that? (read: Should I be prepared with ice cream if she wants to do the park thing?)

Larry, I wish you luck because I have a bad feeling about this

I think she'll call... it was too off-the-cuff to think anything is going to happen, so at worst she'll call and see if I wanted to do something else...I hope...

 

[BassNBrew]

Meeting the gal who moved to Charlotte tonite. This should be interesting.

 

[BassNBrew]

update:due to my ####### stats class and finishing it, I didn't get home in time to call her...so I'll have to wait 'til 11...Should I insist on Oscar's or if she really really wants to do the park thing should I be ok going with that? (read: Should I be prepared with ice cream if she wants to do the park thing?)

Larry, I wish you luck because I have a bad feeling about this

I think she'll call... it was too off-the-cuff to think anything is going to happen, so at worst she'll call and see if I wanted to do something else...I hope...

I just said 10 hail marys for you. Hope it helps.

 

[larry_boy_44]

2 hours to go...

:gulp:

 

[Woz]

debating on whether or not i should go out with hotornot chick again. not interested in actually being exclusive with her as i don't get the jumpy feelings around her, but she didn't annoy me. this is new for me, so how long is the point of no return with this chick? i really don't want to hurt her feelings.

Tough to give good advice without knowing the background here.

Hotornot idate. Girl really liked Woz. Woz learned from the FFA, practiced what he was taught, and the girl was ready, willing, and able to forego her morals. Woz liked the date with the girl, was moderately attracted to her, but doesn't have "the feeling" required to date her. This is a new situation for Woz and he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. Girls hasn't been weird about it or anything, but is planning some more dates. (third person, no doubt)

Did you enjoy yourself? Do you think you would enjoy your self on another date? If so, go ahead...If not, don't...It really is a s simple as that...I don't think you can expect to have that "feeling" immediately every time...

You're not marrying her, you are going on a date...

And you also need to separate the ideas of "going on a date" and "dating" her

To explain my background, I've never really been a casual dater so this is new to me. And like I said, I enjoyed myself but I'm 99.99 percent sure I'm not going to want a relationship with her. Ideally I'd be open to going on a few random dates with her and such. But, she's likely gonna want some commitment at some point.

This is the key part of the sentence...Don't worry about that right now...

If she wants commitment after one or two dates you don't want anything to do with her anyway...

I';m guessing that she would be weirded out by the fact that you are thinking about commitment at this point...

Go on a few dates...

You may find you develop deeper fellings for her and something might develop...

Or not...

You think end game way too much...

makes sense. I'm drunk and may have her come over later...

 

[mr. furley]

2 hours to go...:gulp:

bring a kinfe,s

 

[larry_boy_44]

2 hours to go...:gulp:

bring a kinfe,s

no, I want her to like me... that doesn't induce liking....

 

[mr. furley]

2 hours to go...:gulp:

bring a kinfe,s

no, I want her to like me... that doesn't induce liking....

you're not gonna like her a whole lot when her boyfriend jumps out of the bushes, hits you in the back of the head and takes your wallet, watch and tennis shoes

 

[larry_boy_44]

so she called at like 11:15... totally psyched about meeting at the park, so I went with it... WE went there, walked along the boardwalk (by Fox River Parkway) and stopped like 3/4 of the way in at a dead end that forms there... ate ice cream...

and talked 'til almost 2 am when an animal started making noise which prompted us to worry exactly how early in the morning it was which got us to start leaving...

I just got home, its 2:12.... this park is seriously 3 minuts from my house....

So it went very well, she's super cool and really fun to talk to... I'm looking forward to date #2 (hopefully there is one...)

 

[Sister Havana]

Yay! I'm glad it went well.

 

[BassNBrew]

Well done Larry.

 

[s_ezy]

so she called at like 11:15... totally psyched about meeting at the park, so I went with it... WE went there, walked along the boardwalk (by Fox River Parkway) and stopped like 3/4 of the way in at a dead end that forms there... ate ice cream...and talked 'til almost 2 am when an animal started making noise which prompted us to worry exactly how early in the morning it was which got us to start leaving...I just got home, its 2:12.... this park is seriously 3 minuts from my house....So it went very well, she's super cool and really fun to talk to... I'm looking forward to date #2 (hopefully there is one...)

Congrats Larrydoncha just love conversations that you get lost in and like 2 hours pass by in no time at all

 

[larry_boy_44]

so she called at like 11:15... totally psyched about meeting at the park, so I went with it... WE went there, walked along the boardwalk (by Fox River Parkway) and stopped like 3/4 of the way in at a dead end that forms there... ate ice cream...and talked 'til almost 2 am when an animal started making noise which prompted us to worry exactly how early in the morning it was which got us to start leaving...I just got home, its 2:12.... this park is seriously 3 minuts from my house....So it went very well, she's super cool and really fun to talk to... I'm looking forward to date #2 (hopefully there is one...)

Congrats Larrydoncha just love conversations that you get lost in and like 2 hours pass by in no time at all

 

[larry_boy_44]

so... what's the shark move on calling someone after date #1???

1 day? 2 days??? I have a draft today and some other stuff tonight, so I probably won't call her today... so I figure tomorow afternoon is the best bet... is that safe? Should I wait 'til monday??

Also I need date ideas that can preferable:

A) be done in the afternoon in the Waukesha Area

B) require absolutely no food/drink

because she can't eat this week and so if I wanna hang out with her, it will require no food lol... So WI guys (and non WI guys) any ideas???

(I'm thinking a movie would be cool, in our conversations it sounded like she was a movie buff, so that could be $$ and you don't have to buy soda/popcorn/candy at the theatre...)

 

[parasaurolophus]

so... what's the shark move on calling someone after date #1???1 day? 2 days??? I have a draft today and some other stuff tonight, so I probably won't call her today... so I figure tomorow afternoon is the best bet... is that safe? Should I wait 'til monday??Also I need date ideas that can preferable:A) be done in the afternoon in the Waukesha AreaB) require absolutely no food/drinkbecause she can't eat this week and so if I wanna hang out with her, it will require no food lol... So WI guys (and non WI guys) any ideas???(I'm thinking a movie would be cool, in our conversations it sounded like she was a movie buff, so that could be $$ and you don't have to buy soda/popcorn/candy at the theatre...)

cornhole is where its at.bring her.hilarity ensues.

 

[s_ezy]

call her tomorrow to set something up for sunday nigth or monday during the day, most people have monday off.

Movie is okay at best, i just dont like that you can't talk to each other

definately something outside, its suppose to be a nice weekend, take advantage

most of my good ideas would involve food or drink, sorry

 

[Keys Myaths]

so she called at like 11:15... totally psyched about meeting at the park, so I went with it... WE went there, walked along the boardwalk (by Fox River Parkway) and stopped like 3/4 of the way in at a dead end that forms there... ate ice cream...and talked 'til almost 2 am when an animal started making noise which prompted us to worry exactly how early in the morning it was which got us to start leaving...I just got home, its 2:12.... this park is seriously 3 minuts from my house....So it went very well, she's super cool and really fun to talk to... I'm looking forward to date #2 (hopefully there is one...)

Very happy for you, guy. I'll buy you a drink tonight to celebrate.

 

[Keys Myaths]

so... what's the shark move on calling someone after date #1???1 day? 2 days??? I have a draft today and some other stuff tonight, so I probably won't call her today... so I figure tomorow afternoon is the best bet... is that safe? Should I wait 'til monday??Also I need date ideas that can preferable:A) be done in the afternoon in the Waukesha AreaB) require absolutely no food/drinkbecause she can't eat this week and so if I wanna hang out with her, it will require no food lol... So WI guys (and non WI guys) any ideas???(I'm thinking a movie would be cool, in our conversations it sounded like she was a movie buff, so that could be $$ and you don't have to buy soda/popcorn/candy at the theatre...)

Call her Monday afternoon after work.She can't eat this week? Religious thing?What did you learn about her on the date that you didn't know already? Let's parlay that.

 

[Woz]

so... what's the shark move on calling someone after date #1???1 day? 2 days??? I have a draft today and some other stuff tonight, so I probably won't call her today... so I figure tomorow afternoon is the best bet... is that safe? Should I wait 'til monday??Also I need date ideas that can preferable:A) be done in the afternoon in the Waukesha AreaB) require absolutely no food/drinkbecause she can't eat this week and so if I wanna hang out with her, it will require no food lol... So WI guys (and non WI guys) any ideas???(I'm thinking a movie would be cool, in our conversations it sounded like she was a movie buff, so that could be $$ and you don't have to buy soda/popcorn/candy at the theatre...)

2-3 days. Call her with a plan in mind like a day or two you plan on going forward with said plan. Don't do movies - it's awkward to sit in forced silence besides someone you barely know. I did it for a first date once and while it worked out in the end, it was weird. Movies are great for like a 4-5 date. My ideas would be like bowling or mini golf - most people aren't good at those things and I doubt you are so it could be a fun little competition between the two of you. Then again, she may adbhore sports. If that's the case, zoos are money (seriously) or another walk is great. Honestly walks/zoos are like my favorite thing to do with a girl (well, besides that). GL buddy!

 

[mr. furley]

she wasn't hiding anyone in the bushes or packing a can of mace, LB?

 

[larry_boy_44]

so... what's the shark move on calling someone after date #1???1 day? 2 days??? I have a draft today and some other stuff tonight, so I probably won't call her today... so I figure tomorow afternoon is the best bet... is that safe? Should I wait 'til monday??Also I need date ideas that can preferable:A) be done in the afternoon in the Waukesha AreaB) require absolutely no food/drinkbecause she can't eat this week and so if I wanna hang out with her, it will require no food lol... So WI guys (and non WI guys) any ideas???(I'm thinking a movie would be cool, in our conversations it sounded like she was a movie buff, so that could be $$ and you don't have to buy soda/popcorn/candy at the theatre...)

Call her Monday afternoon after work.She can't eat this week? Religious thing?What did you learn about her on the date that you didn't know already? Let's parlay that.

uh...She likes movies...she comes from a small town (her parents owned a farm for a long time)... Her hometown actually just got hit pretty bad by a tornado...She likes Fargo (she told me about this movie for like 15-20 minutes lol... like pantomined stuff and told me all kinds of stuff and how it was actually really close to true.... lol)umm... I can't think of anything else that could be remotely related to a date...She doesn't know the area at all, so anything we do pretty much will be something new to her...

 

[larry_boy_44]

she wasn't hiding anyone in the bushes or packing a can of mace, LB?

no...and she didn't even give me a chance to suggest something other than meeting at the park... she seemed really psyched to meet me...and she hugged me twice... I didn't initiate either of them... (I wasn't quite sure how to take things on any level like that, so I figured not initiating any contact like that is probably best for this girl...)Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

 

[mr. furley]

wtf?

 

[Capella]

Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

 

[Disco Stu]

Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

This makes Baby Jesus sad.

 

[larry_boy_44]

Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

This makes Baby Jesus sad.

being the one with the most knowledge of what actually does/doesn't make baby Jesus happy/sad...Baby Jesus is not mad happy by sex outside of marriage... nor is he made sad by lack of sex outside of marriage... its actually the opposite...Seriously, though, this girl is awesome... And I could totally deal with no sex to be with her (assuming that eventually down the line sex became a regular thing...)... I have yet to see anything about her that I wasn't attracted to...

 

[Kraft...]

Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

This makes Baby Jesus sad.

being the one with the most knowledge of what actually does/doesn't make baby Jesus happy/sad...Baby Jesus is not mad happy by sex outside of marriage... nor is he made sad by lack of sex outside of marriage... its actually the opposite...Seriously, though, this girl is awesome... And I could totally deal with no sex to be with her (assuming that eventually down the line sex became a regular thing...)... I have yet to see anything about her that I wasn't attracted to...

Good for you LB I assume that means looks wise too? She was cute?

 

[larry_boy_44]

Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

This makes Baby Jesus sad.

being the one with the most knowledge of what actually does/doesn't make baby Jesus happy/sad...Baby Jesus is not mad happy by sex outside of marriage... nor is he made sad by lack of sex outside of marriage... its actually the opposite...Seriously, though, this girl is awesome... And I could totally deal with no sex to be with her (assuming that eventually down the line sex became a regular thing...)... I have yet to see anything about her that I wasn't attracted to...

Good for you LB I assume that means looks wise too? She was cute?

yeah... she's very, very cute... like "How in the world did I get matched with a girl that looks that good" cute...

 

[Woz]

she wasn't hiding anyone in the bushes or packing a can of mace, LB?

no...and she didn't even give me a chance to suggest something other than meeting at the park... she seemed really psyched to meet me...and she hugged me twice... I didn't initiate either of them... (I wasn't quite sure how to take things on any level like that, so I figured not initiating any contact like that is probably best for this girl...)Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

LB, probably to nobody's surprise I thought this way once. I thought I'd wait until marriage, #### would be a ####### fairytale, etc. Thing is, I missed the most obvious #### of it all - it is a ####### fairytale and never happens in reality. By the time I knew it, I had passed up good things and was left with girls who had long since passed me by. I'm never going to be anyone's first. And that's because I made the mistake of believing in a fairytale. For whatever reason, one you and I will never understand, girls like a guy who is sexually aggressive and doesn't approach sex with said girl as being to being some glorious end all. The guys who expect to sleep with girls do, and nice guys like me and you don't. Fact is man, sex is ####### amazing and worthwhile doing at our age where we're probably at our physical and sexual peaks. I hope you find some girl who thinks like you, but you gotta realize man the odds are vastly stacked against you. Don't count out sex - it's too good to do so. Also, remember, as much as you want this to be the case girls aren't angels and you aren't looked upon as some knight in shining armor for associating sex with marriage. Don't be the girl in Pan's Labyrinth - that #### isn't reality. Reality is that sex feels good, girls do it at young ages, and love ####### hurts and doesn't pan out like fairytales portray.

 

[Woz]

Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

This makes Baby Jesus sad.

being the one with the most knowledge of what actually does/doesn't make baby Jesus happy/sad...Baby Jesus is not mad happy by sex outside of marriage... nor is he made sad by lack of sex outside of marriage... its actually the opposite...Seriously, though, this girl is awesome... And I could totally deal with no sex to be with her (assuming that eventually down the line sex became a regular thing...)... I have yet to see anything about her that I wasn't attracted to...

Good for you LB I assume that means looks wise too? She was cute?

yeah... she's very, very cute... like "How in the world did I get matched with a girl that looks that good" cute...

Dude, that's a great thought and stupid thought all in the same. Yeah, you may have outkicked your coverage and such but you kick ### because you're bright and kind. Remember, she's fortunate to be with you as much as you're fortunate to be with her. Don't put her up on some pedestal or else that ####### pole will fall over on your ###.

 

[Disco Stu]

"blind date" - probably waiting for me to ask her out again but doesn't want to be pushy or come on too strong. Much more sane than any of the girls I've met online.

Last night I finally got around to a second date with this girl. The sanity comment still holds. She's also cuter than I remembered. I enjoyed her company, so I don't think it'll be another month until I see her again.

She just left. Cracks may be starting to form in my "no relationships" platform.

 

[larry_boy_44]

she wasn't hiding anyone in the bushes or packing a can of mace, LB?

no...and she didn't even give me a chance to suggest something other than meeting at the park... she seemed really psyched to meet me...and she hugged me twice... I didn't initiate either of them... (I wasn't quite sure how to take things on any level like that, so I figured not initiating any contact like that is probably best for this girl...)Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

LB, probably to nobody's surprise I thought this way once. I thought I'd wait until marriage, #### would be a ####### fairytale, etc. Thing is, I missed the most obvious #### of it all - it is a ####### fairytale and never happens in reality. By the time I knew it, I had passed up good things and was left with girls who had long since passed me by. I'm never going to be anyone's first. And that's because I made the mistake of believing in a fairytale. For whatever reason, one you and I will never understand, girls like a guy who is sexually aggressive and doesn't approach sex with said girl as being to being some glorious end all. The guys who expect to sleep with girls do, and nice guys like me and you don't. Fact is man, sex is ####### amazing and worthwhile doing at our age where we're probably at our physical and sexual peaks. I hope you find some girl who thinks like you, but you gotta realize man the odds are vastly stacked against you. Don't count out sex - it's too good to do so. Also, remember, as much as you want this to be the case girls aren't angels and you aren't looked upon as some knight in shining armor for associating sex with marriage. Don't be the girl in Pan's Labyrinth - that #### isn't reality. Reality is that sex feels good, girls do it at young ages, and love ####### hurts and doesn't pan out like fairytales portray.

trust me woz... the kind of girl this is, with the stuff she told me about last night... I'm not getting anything...Now, will I turn it down if its offered? No... Will I never ever try to do anything at all? No...But am I gonna push anything? No, I'm not... because I know that she doesn't want to (from her explicitly saying so) and so I'm not going to...and, no, I don't have any idea if she is a virgin or not, and I don't really care, that has no bearing on whether she wants to have sex or not... I"m not a virgin and I'd rather not have sex...It hink your problem was, Woz, that you look for the wrong kind of girls to do things with...You look for relationships with girls who just wanna #### and have fun... and you look to #### and have fun with girls who want to have relationships... and if you could ever get straight which girls want what, you'd be fine...

 

[Encyclopedia Brown]

I"m not a virgin

Lying is a sin--especially one as obvious and blatant as that.

 

[larry_boy_44]

I"m not a virgin

Lying is a sin--especially one as obvious and blatant as that.

its not a lie...You realize I was engaged to a whore of massive proportions, right?

 

[larry_boy_44]

~ 4 hours 'til I plan on calling her...

now I just need to figure out what I'm going to ask her to do....

 

[Woz]

she wasn't hiding anyone in the bushes or packing a can of mace, LB?

no...and she didn't even give me a chance to suggest something other than meeting at the park... she seemed really psyched to meet me...and she hugged me twice... I didn't initiate either of them... (I wasn't quite sure how to take things on any level like that, so I figured not initiating any contact like that is probably best for this girl...)Oh yeah... lol I'm absolutely positively not getting anything even resembling sex from this girl ever... unless we get married of course... but otherwise no chance...

LB, probably to nobody's surprise I thought this way once. I thought I'd wait until marriage, #### would be a ####### fairytale, etc. Thing is, I missed the most obvious #### of it all - it is a ####### fairytale and never happens in reality. By the time I knew it, I had passed up good things and was left with girls who had long since passed me by. I'm never going to be anyone's first. And that's because I made the mistake of believing in a fairytale. For whatever reason, one you and I will never understand, girls like a guy who is sexually aggressive and doesn't approach sex with said girl as being to being some glorious end all. The guys who expect to sleep with girls do, and nice guys like me and you don't. Fact is man, sex is ####### amazing and worthwhile doing at our age where we're probably at our physical and sexual peaks. I hope you find some girl who thinks like you, but you gotta realize man the odds are vastly stacked against you. Don't count out sex - it's too good to do so. Also, remember, as much as you want this to be the case girls aren't angels and you aren't looked upon as some knight in shining armor for associating sex with marriage. Don't be the girl in Pan's Labyrinth - that #### isn't reality. Reality is that sex feels good, girls do it at young ages, and love ####### hurts and doesn't pan out like fairytales portray.

drunk woz wisdom right here..

 

[Woz]

~ 4 hours 'til I plan on calling her...now I just need to figure out what I'm going to ask her to do....

zoo or mini golf - looks like a nice day

 

[Woz]

I"m not a virgin and I'd rather not have sex...It hink your problem was, Woz, that you look for the wrong kind of girls to do things with...You look for relationships with girls who just wanna #### and have fun... and you look to #### and have fun with girls who want to have relationships... and if you could ever get straight which girls want what, you'd be fine...

First off, if that's your thought on sex you've been going it wrong. With the right person in a caring setting it's THE GREATEST THING EVER (just don't tell them that). Second off, I know exactly what I want and I've had it before. It just doesn't last forever or work out like you wanted it too and those thing are mostly out of my control. So, my point is that we shouldn't bank on this perceived fairytale... I want it to happen again, but I'm not ignorant enough to think I'll immediately find again what I had and what I want so I may as well have some fun in the meantime.

 

[Woz]

LB, probably to nobody's surprise I thought this way once. I thought I'd wait until marriage, #### would be a ####### fairytale, etc. Thing is, I missed the most obvious #### of it all - it is a ####### fairytale and never happens in reality. By the time I knew it, I had passed up good things and was left with girls who had long since passed me by. I'm never going to be anyone's first. And that's because I made the mistake of believing in a fairytale. For whatever reason, one you and I will never understand, girls like a guy who is sexually aggressive and doesn't approach sex with said girl as being to being some glorious end all. The guys who expect to sleep with girls do, and nice guys like me and you don't. Fact is man, sex is ####### amazing and worthwhile doing at our age where we're probably at our physical and sexual peaks. I hope you find some girl who thinks like you, but you gotta realize man the odds are vastly stacked against you. Don't count out sex - it's too good to do so. Also, remember, as much as you want this to be the case girls aren't angels and you aren't looked upon as some knight in shining armor for associating sex with marriage. Don't be the girl in Pan's Labyrinth - that #### isn't reality. Reality is that sex feels good, girls do it at young ages, and love ####### hurts and doesn't pan out like fairytales portray.

I was my wife's first. She was mine. I think she's purty.

I concur that your wife is hot.

 

[larry_boy_44]

Keys...

how much did the polar bear weigh???

 

[larry_boy_44]

I"m not a virgin and I'd rather not have sex...It hink your problem was, Woz, that you look for the wrong kind of girls to do things with...You look for relationships with girls who just wanna #### and have fun... and you look to #### and have fun with girls who want to have relationships... and if you could ever get straight which girls want what, you'd be fine...

First off, if that's your thought on sex you've been going it wrong. With the right person in a caring setting it's THE GREATEST THING EVER (just don't tell them that). Second off, I know exactly what I want and I've had it before. It just doesn't last forever or work out like you wanted it too and those thing are mostly out of my control. So, my point is that we shouldn't bank on this perceived fairytale... I want it to happen again, but I'm not ignorant enough to think I'll immediately find again what I had and what I want so I may as well have some fun in the meantime.

I'm sorry you got hurt, bro...Sex is great, I know it is, its a ton of fun... but there are more important things than sex... I'd rather just sit and talk with someone I was in love with than have sex with a girl I didn't love....and, in the end, no matter how much it might hurt sometimes, I'm just not interested in meaningless sex or a realationship that is nothing more than a front to get myself laid... I wants something real...and if that means I never get it, then I guess I'll never get it...