I'm sorry but even if taken to the extremes of extremes, I think we'd all agree that it does not take every Tom, ****, and Harry to raise a family. However, on the flip side it does not take just two loving parents either. It does take extended family, neighbors, teachers, strangers, business owners, and the like... yes, even government policies and the like. And, before anyone scoffs at such a notion, ask yourselves who you knew growing up and how much of an influence others had on where you are today. Sure, a great foundation would be two loving parents at home but, sadly, this has never been the case for 100% of people. It is worse now because of the amount of people and lack of, not just fathers, but caring neighbors, caring communities, caring strangers and the like. To think otherwise is either being naive or just simply ignorant.