One of those rare times where I need to say I was wrong.
Saw it in a luxury theater with the leather recliners. Last movie we saw in 3D was Mad Max, I don't think 3D made the movie better in any particular way but I got caught up in this movie quick. 
When the mom places the necklace around the neck of the little girl and said trust the force, to me that was a signal to the audience and also the more hard core fans to just relax and enjoy. I'm sure folks will post spoilers in here but I want to highlight some great tips of the cap they had in the film.
1. The sets felt less blue screen and more real. I loved the way they intertwined the planet surfaces to space to cruiser ships, it was very seamless and never felt like a computer game. I was transported back to '77 I'm not gonna lie. 
2. The CGI allowing actors like Peter Cushing to live on, unreal. Nothing about their mannerisms threw me out of the moment, in fact their ability to put these characters into the film with other real actors and new characters opens up limitless possibilities. I thought all of the cameos were great.
3. When the low point of the film or the only thing that really made me blink was the cameo by our 2 fav droids and so if that's the case you know the movie was off the rails good IMO.
4. Loved all the winks at the hard core fan base. Example was a fellow they bump into with the Walrus Man in step with him, just a lot of that everywhere. I also like the C2 droid that had wonderful jokes throughout the movie. He was peppering them in a lot early and then they did a good job of not over doing it,
5. I welled up some tears a few times. The guy who played IP Man was just awesome and really carried the film for some of the older viewing audience. The dude who was with him with the big gun, terrific character.
-one and done, no trilogy but I'm guessing their might be room to slip in a film between IV and V?
-I noticed not everyone seemed to like this as much. I think this blew Force Awakens away. I never thought anything else in this series could find its way into the top 3 but this comes close.
-Ben Mendelson was awesome and I didn't even mention Vader...might be time to give James Eral Jones voice a rest, but seriously run to see this if you are even on the fence. I was cruel to this film from concept to release, had low expectations and it just stunned me how much I liked this movie. 
May the Force Be With All of You!