Quick Monumental update. TL;DR version is "I'm probably not coming to Indy, because life". My best shot at a short explanation below:
Most of you know that I work in DFW and commute to/from Calgary on the weekends. My wife is in Calgary full-time, for all intents and purposes. Mostly because of US Immigration reasons, but I won't bore you with the details.
When I took the job in DFW, it was supposed to be 8 months until my wife could get a green card and the ability to move to the US with me (insert 90-day fiance story here). Well, COVID, and we're now 19 months in, and no green card.
Anyways, my wife hasn't been thrilled with this situation (she only planned on 8 months of this commuting arrangement) and any time I can't come north for a weekend (work, whatever), she is disappointed.
I told her months ago that I signed-up for a marathon in Indy with my e-friends, and she kind of shrugged it off. She has since forgotten, and I've been waiting for the right moment to remind her. That was supposed to be this weekend, but I chickened-out (bawk bawk bawk).
The reason I'm reluctant to bring it up with her is because we recently got notification that we have an actual appointment in Montreal for her green card interview, preceded by a medical in Vancouver (yes the only two places each can be done, respectively).
While she's excited about both, she's also stressed about both. Because of the process and the travel. And each basically straddles the weekend in Indy (medical before, interview after). So there's very little chance she's going to want to go to Indy in-between those two, and even less she's going to want me to go without her, and miss another weekend north with her when she's stressed-out. Especially since I took a boys weekend to London for English & American football just 10 days ago.
So what I'm getting at here is that I'm going to bring it up with her, but I kind of know how she's going to react. If I was in peak fitness, and this was my one race to get a payoff, I would push it with her. But you guys know I'm nowhere near peak fitness, and was just planning to come to Indy for social reasons.
So while I haven't canceled the hotel yet, things aren't looking good. I'll take a shot with her later this week, but I've seen this movie before, and I know how it ends.