MikeIke
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Ugh... Our hands were forced today. We weren't going to say anything to Padme or our boys until things had been ironed out legally, but the grandfather that Padme is living with forced our hand. Last night he told her that she was going to come live with us. My wife and I were very upset that he had broached the subject this early. We decided to tell the boys tonight, before they saw something on Facebook or got a message from Padme.Getzlaf15 said:GL with all of this.
Have you talked to the boys yet about it?
To say they are excited would be an understatement. They can't wait until she comes to live with us. The only negative, in their minds, is that they will have to share a bedroom so that Padme can have her own room.
We also talked to Padme tonight on Facebook video chat. I think she was very worried because I don't know how her grandpa broke the news to her last night. He may very well have been a Richard and said "we don't want you anymore, MikeIke is gonna take you." Needless to say, that is not how I wanted her to hear about it.
My whole family spoke with her for almost an hour tonight, and I think we alleviated a lot of her fears. We told her that she is going to be part of our family. She could choose to decorate her room how she wanted. She would be included in our yearly summer vacation to North Carolina. She would go with my wife to visit Grandma (wife's mom) every other Sunday. Basically, all the family stuff we do, she would be doing with us.
Later, her grandma talked to my wife and said that after talking to us, Padme was no longer worried, and was actually excited about it.
We're not sure about the timing yet. At first we were thinking she would come to our house in mid-January after all needed paperwork had been filled out. But now, we just want her here as soon as possible. I'd love to have her celebrate Christmas with us.
Holy crap, this is actually going to happen. I'm going to have a 12 year old daughter.
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