@Ministry of Pain
Beyond money, mental health is so critical these days and I believe it leads to longer healthier lives.
A third (33%) of retirees end up going back to work. A bunch of others don't stay healthy and don't last very long in retirement. So says a book I'm reading. A lot of people struggle replacing the structure and more importantly the sense of self worth that having a job provided. I just don't think we're naturally wired for big changes like that for the most part. I imagine it could be just as difficult as not working your entire life and suddenly you had to go get a job when you're 60 years old.
I don't think that's me because I have a list of things to do that I probably won't finish before I die, but, I'm aware of it and will try to avoid the pitfall. I'm going to list out all the things I want to do, prioritized. Then wake up each day and attack them as if they are my job 5 days a week. Then join a country club and do other things 2 days a week like it's the weekend. At least in the beginning to kind of smooth the transition.
It’s funny, because I can’t wait. I probably don't have the long list you do, but I’ve got a bunch of series I want to watch and can’t wait until I can master cooking great meals every day. I can cook pretty well, especially on the grill but I save so many recipes. Our lake lot is in a golfing community so I am looking forward to playing more, especially since I’ll be paying for it lol. Just a handful of things without digging deep to the bucket list and some of those I kind of plan on starting once we move when no kids at home will open up free time even in semi-retirement. Heck, goal #1 is to make my wife my sugar daddy so I can quit at some point!
I love cooking, but at the end of the work day I don't really feel like doing it. I've added like 70 recipes to my folder on NYT Cooking, have probably made less than 5 of them.
I joined a gym recently and started strength training for the first time since my 20s, mostly to build the habit now and increase strength as I move further into my 50s. I squeeze in 2-4 times a week for 45-60 minutes, but I'd like to spend an hour or two there 5+ days a week - without checking my work email and Slack between sets or sitting on a conf call in the lounge for 20 minutes before I can started with my workout (which I did yesterday).
Since moving back to Oregon I've wanted to get back to fishing, like I did a ton as a kid. I've gone 5-6 times (in 3+ years) but I haven't had the time to develop a network/friends that do so to get me back into it and show me the local spots and methods. Hell we have an aluminum drift boat sitting in the garage at my family's cabin at the coast that hasn't been in the water in 30 years, would love to get it fixed up and learn how to work that.
Speaking of the cabin, it's only 2 1/2 hours away...and we've only been twice this year (for a week each).
Got a buddy who gave me a whole set of golf clubs when we moved here. I've never golfed but seems like a nice way to spend a few hours outdoors a couple of days a month. Those clubs have been sitting in a Home Depot bucket in my garage for 3 years now.
Yesterday I cancelled my PTO and flights to Hawaii for next month, as work is just too busy right now to take the time off.
The pile of books I want to read is growing way faster than I can read them.
Was listening to a podcast yesterday about some simple (and relatively conservative) options trading strategies. That sounds pretty interesting to me! But not sure when I'd have time to educate myself enough to feel comfortable doing it.
We do a lot already and I'm pretty active. I walk the dog 90+ minutes every day, regularly hike on weekends, have been camping with buddies a couple of times this year, have been to Mexico for a week each of the last 2 years, and last year we went to between 50 and 60 events between sports, concerts, and plays. But there is so much more I want to do.
So yeah, I'm not too worried about finding enough to do in retirement!