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The “I want to retire soon” thread (3 Viewers)

@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
 
I retired at the end of December. For reference I'm 62, not married, and have no kids - so my workable numbers are going to be different than most. I do have a manageable mortgage with about 2/3 of the home value being equity. I have no other debt.

A couple of things I went through or learned:

1. I just missed the open-market deadline for health insurance and took a COBRA plan that matches the plan I had when working. My problem was my company's EAP either explained COBRA to me incorrectly or I misunderstood. Many thanks to @matttyl here for helping my dumb *** understand how this works. So I'm carrying COBRA until November, then we'll see if I want to switch.

2. If you're gonna sign up to draw SS, leave yourself plenty of time. It'll be basically two months from the time you're submitted to start drawing.

3. Don't try to do this over the holidays :wall: The way the calendar fell this year, that basically blew two weeks of getting anything done. Then we had a major snowstorm right after New Year's that nuked another week of finding available the folks you need.

4. My company dragged their feet on letting the company that handles my 401K know that I didn't work there anymore, so I'm still in the process of getting that rolled over to another plan. I think the employer has a certain amount of time to do this and they waited until the last second they could (one of the many joys of working for a multi-billion $$ global company). Anyway, should be resolved by next week.
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now.
 
I retired at the end of December. For reference I'm 62, not married, and have no kids - so my workable numbers are going to be different than most. I do have a manageable mortgage with about 2/3 of the home value being equity. I have no other debt.

A couple of things I went through or learned:

1. I just missed the open-market deadline for health insurance and took a COBRA plan that matches the plan I had when working. My problem was my company's EAP either explained COBRA to me incorrectly or I misunderstood. Many thanks to @matttyl here for helping my dumb *** understand how this works. So I'm carrying COBRA until November, then we'll see if I want to switch.

2. If you're gonna sign up to draw SS, leave yourself plenty of time. It'll be basically two months from the time you're submitted to start drawing.

3. Don't try to do this over the holidays :wall: The way the calendar fell this year, that basically blew two weeks of getting anything done. Then we had a major snowstorm right after New Year's that nuked another week of finding available the folks you need.

4. My company dragged their feet on letting the company that handles my 401K know that I didn't work there anymore, so I'm still in the process of getting that rolled over to another plan. I think the employer has a certain amount of time to do this and they waited until the last second they could (one of the many joys of working for a multi-billion $$ global company). Anyway, should be resolved by next week.

Call anytime, neighbor.
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now.
We down sized ten years ago. Then my wife decided she wanted something with a water view. We can also now walk to the beach instead of drive. Plus she needed more room for her stuff. Much better neighborhood with lots of amenities.
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now.
We down sized ten years ago. Then my wife decided she wanted something with a water view. We can also now walk to the beach instead of drive. Plus she needed more room for her stuff. Much better neighborhood with lots of amenities.
Stuff is the worst. Get rid of it!!
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now.
We down sized ten years ago. Then my wife decided she wanted something with a water view. We can also now walk to the beach instead of drive. Plus she needed more room for her stuff. Much better neighborhood with lots of amenities.
Stuff is the worst. Get rid of it!!

“The things you own end up owning you.”
-Tyler Durden
 
I retired at the end of December. For reference I'm 62, not married, and have no kids - so my workable numbers are going to be different than most. I do have a manageable mortgage with about 2/3 of the home value being equity. I have no other debt.

A couple of things I went through or learned:

1. I just missed the open-market deadline for health insurance and took a COBRA plan that matches the plan I had when working. My problem was my company's EAP either explained COBRA to me incorrectly or I misunderstood. Many thanks to @matttyl here for helping my dumb *** understand how this works. So I'm carrying COBRA until November, then we'll see if I want to switch.

2. If you're gonna sign up to draw SS, leave yourself plenty of time. It'll be basically two months from the time you're submitted to start drawing.

3. Don't try to do this over the holidays :wall: The way the calendar fell this year, that basically blew two weeks of getting anything done. Then we had a major snowstorm right after New Year's that nuked another week of finding available the folks you need.

4. My company dragged their feet on letting the company that handles my 401K know that I didn't work there anymore, so I'm still in the process of getting that rolled over to another plan. I think the employer has a certain amount of time to do this and they waited until the last second they could (one of the many joys of working for a multi-billion $$ global company). Anyway, should be resolved by next week.
I think they do have to let the 401k know you are no longer an employee. But there isn't any reason and in most cases you don't have to move it to another plan if you are happy with it where it is.
 
I retired at the end of December. For reference I'm 62, not married, and have no kids - so my workable numbers are going to be different than most. I do have a manageable mortgage with about 2/3 of the home value being equity. I have no other debt.

A couple of things I went through or learned:

1. I just missed the open-market deadline for health insurance and took a COBRA plan that matches the plan I had when working. My problem was my company's EAP either explained COBRA to me incorrectly or I misunderstood. Many thanks to @matttyl here for helping my dumb *** understand how this works. So I'm carrying COBRA until November, then we'll see if I want to switch.

2. If you're gonna sign up to draw SS, leave yourself plenty of time. It'll be basically two months from the time you're submitted to start drawing.

3. Don't try to do this over the holidays :wall: The way the calendar fell this year, that basically blew two weeks of getting anything done. Then we had a major snowstorm right after New Year's that nuked another week of finding available the folks you need.

4. My company dragged their feet on letting the company that handles my 401K know that I didn't work there anymore, so I'm still in the process of getting that rolled over to another plan. I think the employer has a certain amount of time to do this and they waited until the last second they could (one of the many joys of working for a multi-billion $$ global company). Anyway, should be resolved by next week.
I think they do have to let the 401k know you are no longer an employee. But there isn't any reason and in most cases you don't have to move it to another plan if you are happy with it where it is.
I understand. I want it to be in a place that's more flexible according to my needs and I have one.
 
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now
We’ll “rightsize”. Probably a more expensive place but smaller. We love the neighborhood and location while we have kids in school but priorities change when circumstances change.
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now.
The thing that helped out the most was we bought a second home where we planned to retire in a resort community when the prices were down, then rented it out for several years which covered most of the cost of the house. Then we moved there after my wife was offered early retirement. After a few more years I retired and then home prices went up, so we were able to sell and get into a nicer community.
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now.
We down sized ten years ago. Then my wife decided she wanted something with a water view. We can also now walk to the beach instead of drive. Plus she needed more room for her stuff. Much better neighborhood with lots of amenities.
Stuff is the worst. Get rid of it!!
I'm afraid that the wife would go along with her stuff.
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now.
We down sized ten years ago. Then my wife decided she wanted something with a water view. We can also now walk to the beach instead of drive. Plus she needed more room for her stuff. Much better neighborhood with lots of amenities.
Stuff is the worst. Get rid of it!!
I'm afraid that the wife would go along with her stuff.
I did that once :bag:
 
@shuke

People I like on YouTube with regular videos where I feel like I've learned a lot:

Darryl Rosen (@TheRetirementGuyYT)
Rob Berger (@rob_berger)
James Conole (@RootFP)
Kevin Lum (@foundryfinancial)
Erin Talks Money (@ErinTalksMoney)
Bogleheads (@bogleheads3687)

Find stuff relevant to your situation. There's a lot out there. But you need to be careful who you listen to. I feel pretty good about this group. I've learned so much in past year, and I feel much, much more comfortable now that I have a handle on our situation and that we are very much on track. And now we're doing a few different things to position ourselves better. Everything from which assets in which type of account to tax strategy now and in early retirement and later retirement.

I also work in probate/estate planning at a law firm, so lots of overlap there.

One of the biggest takeaways is that many people who should be very comfortable with their retirement still just refuse to spend because they're afraid of running out. Within a certain target audience obviously, they say the biggest issue right now is people not spending enough in their 50s and 60s because of this.

My wife and I are early 50s. Now that we have a good handle on things, we're taking that lesson to heart. Traveling a lot now. Planning to do two weeks in Italy next year, etc. Enjoy it now while you're alive and while you still have your health.

Soon enough, you won't want to or won't be able to leave your house. You don't need much money then.
It's a tough deal. Under 3 months into retirement in my 50s and by all measures should have plenty of money but it still freaks me out. We have a lot of remodeling to do, land to landscape, can we afford the pool this year? Should but haven't planned a vacation yet. While working we did at least two per year.
I’m working to have all of that done before retiring, but I’m older than you. Just don’t want any debt or big upcoming expenses. Fully remodeled the inside of the house last year from the ground up including all new furniture throughout. Starting outside hardscape/landscape now. Last thing we’ll do is get Mrs Smails the car she wants with cash. I’m sure we’ll have surprises later on but taking care of what we know about now
You never know how things will change in retirement. Two years in we decided to buy a bigger house in a better neighborhood. It is 35 years old and could use a full remodel, but we love the neighborhood. We will do projects slowly to avoid paying taxes all at once on money taken out of investments to fund these projects. One great side effect is that the value of our new home has increased 50% according to Zillow. That is much more than our $$ would have increased in our other investments. This has not effected our other activities in retirement much at all.
I always thought downsizing in a house was the way to go in retirement. I'll do neither for now.
We down sized ten years ago. Then my wife decided she wanted something with a water view. We can also now walk to the beach instead of drive. Plus she needed more room for her stuff. Much better neighborhood with lots of amenities.
Stuff is the worst. Get rid of it!!
I'm afraid that the wife would go along with her stuff.
And half of yours.
 
Any thoughts on Invesco BulletShares ETFs?

I started using them to easily build bond ladders. In a taxable account so low cost ETFs and Municipal version.

BSMP - 2025
BSMQ - 2026
BSMR - 2027
Etc.
 
Any thoughts on Invesco BulletShares ETFs?

I started using them to easily build bond ladders. In a taxable account so low cost ETFs and Municipal version.

BSMP - 2025
BSMQ - 2026
BSMR - 2027
Etc.
Pretty low liquidity, but if you're holding to maturity that shouldn't matter. Does seem like a pretty easy way to build a muni ladder.
 
Thanks for the recommendation for How to Retire by Christine Benz. Great book! Really covers every aspect of retirement planning, not just financial. Learned a lot.

I’m on a paid break until June. Will be 63. Going to decide in the next few months if I’m fully ready to retire or whether I have one more 2-3 year run in me
 
Fed retirement news...

As I expected, the retirement pension contribution won't change. There was talk of changing everyone to 4.4% per paycheck, but that's not happening. So, that's good news.

It sounds like High 3 will change to High 5. I don't see that having a big impact on me.

But, I think most of us will be losing the FERS supplement. That's a big one. I've been estimating that as a $27k/year benefit for me from age 57 to 62. This was a big reason why I've been almost 100% sure that I would be retiring at 57. I've seen some unclear and conflicting info on who the exemptions apply to, but most are interpreting the legislation as only exempting certain people in law enforcement, firefighters, and air traffic controllers. I'm hoping the Senate either expands the exemptions or removes this change altogether. If not, my main hope here is that the change doesn't go into affect until 1/1/2028 so maybe there's time for another bill to overturn it.
 
Can you contribute to HSA when retired? Google says yes.

Just open an HSA and make contributions and deduct them at tax time?

You didn’t call your health insurance buddy to answer that for you? Yes, you can, so long as you have an HDHP and aren’t yet on Medicare. There are special and very specific rules for the year you turn 65, you’ll want to check on that.
 
I believe once you enroll in Medicare A/B you can no longer contribute to HSA. For any HSA contributions made once on Medicare, you can request a distribution that will count as income. Some/many companies require you to enroll in Medicare as secondary coverage, as soon as you are Medicare eligible, while you are still covered by the company plan. Not sure about situations if you are entrepreneur
 
It sounds like High 3 will change to High 5.
Bad: Will be a huge affect on Feds as many get promoted in their final 5 years or a change in location. Permanent loss of pay percentage.
Good: It can push a few extra out the door that probably should have retired already.

Short term: The Biden historical pay bump before and after would be quite a difference in the calculation. Luckily, the start date is being pushed out.

Good: The old 'go to DC for 3' for retirement purposes is definitely gone. Not that many really wanted to move to DC...
 
Can you contribute to HSA when retired? Google says yes.

Just open an HSA and make contributions and deduct them at tax time?

You didn’t call your health insurance buddy to answer that for you? Yes, you can, so long as you have an HDHP and aren’t yet on Medicare. There are special and very specific rules for the year you turn 65, you’ll want to check on that.
I knew you'd see it here lol.
For some reason I just assumed it ended when you don't have a payroll deduction any more. The big bill by you know who is supposed to double the max contribution. That's a nice chunk of change. Another decade of building up the HSA is a nice thing to realize.
 
Can you contribute to HSA when retired? Google says yes.

Just open an HSA and make contributions and deduct them at tax time?

You didn’t call your health insurance buddy to answer that for you? Yes, you can, so long as you have an HDHP and aren’t yet on Medicare. There are special and very specific rules for the year you turn 65, you’ll want to check on that.
I knew you'd see it here lol.
For some reason I just assumed it ended when you don't have a payroll deduction any more. The big bill by you know who is supposed to double the max contribution. That's a nice chunk of change. Another decade of building up the HSA is a nice thing to realize.
Wow. Didn't realize how much this bill supercharges HSAs. Letting you use them for gym memberships too? :lmao:
 
My company “blesses” us with unlimited PTO. How great! Or, every study shows people take less PTO with this structure, and the company doesn’t have to pay you for any “unused” PTO when you leave.
We switched to "unlimited" time off as well - I definitely have taken less vacation days the last two years this has been in effect.
x3

Used to take about 3.5 to 4 weeks out-of-5 under PTO.

Probably down to about 3.5 to 4 days out-of-"infinite" flex-time per year over the past two years, not counting holidays. I have compensated by cutting myself off much closer to an 8-hour work day. Good for the worst performance review of my life.
 
Can you contribute to HSA when retired? Google says yes.

Just open an HSA and make contributions and deduct them at tax time?

You didn’t call your health insurance buddy to answer that for you? Yes, you can, so long as you have an HDHP and aren’t yet on Medicare. There are special and very specific rules for the year you turn 65, you’ll want to check on that.
I knew you'd see it here lol.
For some reason I just assumed it ended when you don't have a payroll deduction any more. The big bill by you know who is supposed to double the max contribution. That's a nice chunk of change. Another decade of building up the HSA is a nice thing to realize.
Im seeing fairly low income limits on that increase but maybe high enough for a retiree You seeing differently?
 
Can you contribute to HSA when retired? Google says yes.

Just open an HSA and make contributions and deduct them at tax time?

You didn’t call your health insurance buddy to answer that for you? Yes, you can, so long as you have an HDHP and aren’t yet on Medicare. There are special and very specific rules for the year you turn 65, you’ll want to check on that.
I knew you'd see it here lol.
For some reason I just assumed it ended when you don't have a payroll deduction any more. The big bill by you know who is supposed to double the max contribution. That's a nice chunk of change. Another decade of building up the HSA is a nice thing to realize.
Im seeing fairly low income limits on that increase but maybe high enough for a retiree You seeing differently?
This doesn't really specify what the phase out is I guess: https://www.kff.org/tracking-the-health-savings-accounts-provisions-in-the-2025-budget-bill/
 
Fed retirement news...

As I expected, the retirement pension contribution won't change. There was talk of changing everyone to 4.4% per paycheck, but that's not happening. So, that's good news.

It sounds like High 3 will change to High 5. I don't see that having a big impact on me.

But, I think most of us will be losing the FERS supplement. That's a big one. I've been estimating that as a $27k/year benefit for me from age 57 to 62. This was a big reason why I've been almost 100% sure that I would be retiring at 57. I've seen some unclear and conflicting info on who the exemptions apply to, but most are interpreting the legislation as only exempting certain people in law enforcement, firefighters, and air traffic controllers. I'm hoping the Senate either expands the exemptions or removes this change altogether. If not, my main hope here is that the change doesn't go into affect until 1/1/2028 so maybe there's time for another bill to overturn it.

I had heard, apparently incorrectly that they were dropping the high 5 proposal. I don’t see that having a big effect on us, but it will for some while encouraging some people to stay a couple more years.

I understand the impact on the supplement being removed, and it sucks for those impacted. IMHO they should remove it but grandfather people in. Caveat - it will probably have no impact on me, as I’ll hit 20 years when I turn 60 and my youngest graduates college when I’m 62, so unless ages change, I probably won’t retire until 62 anyway.
 
Can you contribute to HSA when retired? Google says yes.

Just open an HSA and make contributions and deduct them at tax time?

You didn’t call your health insurance buddy to answer that for you? Yes, you can, so long as you have an HDHP and aren’t yet on Medicare. There are special and very specific rules for the year you turn 65, you’ll want to check on that.
I knew you'd see it here lol.
For some reason I just assumed it ended when you don't have a payroll deduction any more. The big bill by you know who is supposed to double the max contribution. That's a nice chunk of change. Another decade of building up the HSA is a nice thing to realize.
Im seeing fairly low income limits on that increase but maybe high enough for a retiree You seeing differently?
This doesn't really specify what the phase out is I guess: https://www.kff.org/tracking-the-health-savings-accounts-provisions-in-the-2025-budget-bill/
I just saw it in a yahoo article so take that for what its worth. said something like 75k-100k phaseout range for single and 150-200k naturally for couple.
 
Has anyone ever extended Bengen's 4% rule study past where he stopped? It's been 30 years since he came out with it.
 
Has anyone ever extended Bengen's 4% rule study past where he stopped? It's been 30 years since he came out with it.
He has been making the podcast rounds about a new book: https://finance.yahoo.com/news/the-...afe-retirement-withdrawal-rate-180042257.html

From what I've listened to it seems like he is as bullish on the 4% rule of thumb as ever.
Yeah. He’s updated it to be 4.7% now, but otherwise his core principles are largely unchanged.
 
Has anyone ever extended Bengen's 4% rule study past where he stopped? It's been 30 years since he came out with it.
He has been making the podcast rounds about a new book: https://finance.yahoo.com/news/the-...afe-retirement-withdrawal-rate-180042257.html

From what I've listened to it seems like he is as bullish on the 4% rule of thumb as ever.
Yeah. He’s updated it to be 4.7% now, but otherwise his core principles are largely unchanged.
Yes. But most people in the business acknowledge that you can go over that if you’re flexible. The guardrails might be the best plan. Set 5%, stay between 4-6%. Or use something like 3% for your basic / floor, 1% for extras each year, another 1% for big expenses in good times - big travel, a new vehicle or whatever.

After 5 months of 2025, we’re projected to be under 4%, probably 3.5% “would have withdrawn if retired” for the year, as we aren’t expecting any big purchases this year. (Knock on wood) But I don’t want to retire yet.
 
Started a pretty good podcast, "Retirement Planning Education" with Andy Panko.
Kind of a refresher if you're already knowledgeable but would be a good beginner course for those new to retirement planning. I'm guessing he'll get more in depth in later episodes.
Straight laid back talk, not too complex and episodes clearly labelled so you can pick what interests you. Recommended
 
I took the DoD DRP+VERA offer. My last day in the office was Tuesday. It was a wistful day. Nice going-away gathering.

I am on administrative leave until my September 30 retirement date. Full pay and benefits to sit around and annoy the wife!

I plan to go back as a contractor in October. Probably on an "as needed" basis. They are willing to go to full time but I'm not interested in that, and I don't think that will be warranted from their perspective. Just a little hand-holding that phases out over the next few years.
 
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I took the DoD DRP+VERA offer. My last day in the office was Tuesday. It was a wistful day. Nice going-away gathering.

I am on administrative leave until my September 30 retirement date. Full pay and benefits to sit around and annoy the wife!

I plan to go back as a contractor in October. Probably on an "as needed" basis. They are willing to go to full time but I'm not interested in that, and I don't think that will be warranted from their perspective. Just a little hand-holding that phases out over the next few years.
Congrats. You won't regret it.
 
I took the DoD DRP+VERA offer. My last day in the office was Tuesday. It was a wistful day. Nice going-away gathering.

I am on administrative leave until my September 30 retirement date. Full pay and benefits to sit around and annoy the wife!

I plan to go back as a contractor in October. Probably on an "as needed" basis. They are willing to go to full time but I'm not interested in that, and I don't think that will be warranted from their perspective. Just a little hand-holding that phases out over the next few years.
congrats.

I'm 45 and 22 years in. if they offer it when i have 25 i may take it.
 
I unofficially retired 5/16 and had right hip replacement. So that would be short-term disability until 6/30, then PTO out the month of July, with an official retirement date of 8/1. I'm now able to move around without a cane since surgery and have been off the prescription pain meds and only using over the counter pain meds now, so I haven't exactly been in retirement mode because of that. I'll probably sign on to work one last time in a few days and surprise them in the daily scrum before packing up my computer stuff and returning it. Maybe now I can actually get into retirement mode.
 
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I unofficially retired 5/16 and had right hip replacement. So that would be short-term disability until 6/30, then PTO out the month of July, with an official retirement date of 8/1. I'm now able to move around without a cane since surgery and have been off the prescription pain meds and only using over the counter pain meds now, so I haven't exactly been in retirement mode because of that. I'll probably sign on to work one last time in a few days and surprise them in the daily scrum before packing up my computer stuff and returning it. Maybe now I can actually get into retirement mode.
So 6 weeks from surgery? That's pretty good, wife is 8 weeks and pretty much 100%.
 

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