Yea... this isn't happening for me now.
Did something specific happen?
Yes, I know there are tons of cancer threads. I hope you guys will indulge me of one more as my wife is very private and I am the opposite. So, I can't verbally throw up on other people but feel like I need an outlet. She would not be happy if she knew about this thread but it is somewhat anonymous and I am not going to tell her about it. I need to vent.
My wife felt a lump on her breast. The frustrating thing for me right now is that this was a while ago. She had a hard time with Doctors and appointments for a while.... and I am pissed off at myself right now because I didn't push...
The two main things that have set me back is the cancer twice for the last 3+ years for my wife which is ongoing but looking forward to treatment ending and getting the all clear this spring.
The other thing was back in 2007 being unemployed/under employed for several years. That drained all my savings/investment accounts then and added debt. Then I started to make progress again and then the battle with cancer redrained the savings/investment accounts that I had built up a tad.
The good news is that through both situations- we did not raid our retirement accounts. I have not added to my retirement accounts much as mortgage broker shops aren't known for having great retirement plans but my wife has been consistent in adding to it.
So the bad news is I can't see retiring early. The good news is that we shouldn't be totally screwed and having to work as a greeter at Wal-Mart type thing. We are both about 50 now- I think 15 years is probably a stretch of time we will need to be in a spot we are comfortable enough to retire.
The other thing is I am kind of over doing mortgages... maybe it is just how I feel now and when things 'normalize' I would feel reinvigorated but as I feel now, I would love to do something else.... what that something else is... no idea.
Such is life. Things happen good and bad and we react to it.