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The “I want to retire soon” thread (2 Viewers)

So the rest of you don't have job stress so high that it sneaks into your dreams and interrupts your sleep most nights?
No. It's the opposite of that. I am very good at my job, to the point that it is no longer even remotely challenging. I have a new "boss" who just arrived a few months ago, so that is creating some novelty around here. Otherwise, I could really use something else to work on.

Obviously I would not trade this situation for a high-stress job, but it does tend to lead to counting down the days.
Same. I'm pretty bored in my job. I need to do something about that since I still have at least 8 years left until retirement. I don't want to be this bored for 8 years, but also not looking to fill up every minute of my workday and having work on my mind at night and on the weekends. I should be able to easily find that balance in my current organization.
 
Thanks for the thoughts/comments, gents.

1) I think last time my Monte Carlo number was 99% and it should be better now. And that was for retirement at 63 (5 years ago my target was to retire at 62). Outside of 18 months or so on a low, 2.75% mortgage we have zero debt. Paying final touches on a full house remodel now. Bought me a car a year ago for cash and just need to get my wife one (cash as well). But expenses will be low.
2) I have a fiduciary advisor so I can get him to run everything. It’s AUM now. Looking to go fee only or manage entirely on my own through Vanguard or Fidelity.
3) I can be picky. And don’t necessarily have to go for top comp packages since it’s not as important to me at this stage. Less interested in equity unless a sale is planned within 18-24 months as I would likely leave, forfeiting equity. So a decent salary, bonus, health benefits and a good company/culture/leadership will be top of list. Lifestyle and low stress.
4) Have a great network in the industry and relationships with top recruiters. No bridges burned so can reach out to all. Though it takes a lot of work to get a job. Tons of reach outs, umpteen interviews etc. Have to gear up for that.
5) Already started a management company including consulting mostly for tax benefits, but now I can go for it if desired. Also can do fractional Chief Revenue Officer type work if I want. Really, I’d prefer to get healthcare so option 1 is to get a gig outside of consulting.
6) I’m confident I’ll stay busy in some way. Consulting, another gig, hopefully board work, volunteer. More time for working out, golf, travel, grandkids etc
7) I’ve had a Widowmaker and don’t have great family history so it’s all about quality time for me, and want to put myself in the best position possible for good health to maximize my trips around the sun

What’s weird to me is so many of my friends 63-70 who could retire aren’t. Maybe expensive lifestyles, I dunno. The only ones who have retired are those with pensions. Firemen, Water and Power, etc. Everyone else is still working with no end in sight. Adding to my confusion re what’s the right move for me. Not sure which way I’m going to go. While I send out resumes I am going to “act retired” through the end of the year and see how it suits me
You seem like a prime candidate for a 20-30 hour/week job to start stepping back. Sounds like you're not ready to pull the ripcord fully. A progressive exit may be more your style.
 
So the rest of you don't have job stress so high that it sneaks into your dreams and interrupts your sleep most nights?
I email myself at 3 in the morning all the time. I am doing my best to try and turn the squelch on my give-a-****ter way down. Still working at it.
I had a job like this. I quit it this March because life is too short and we have enough savings for a good enough life. As much as I disliked the job, it was too difficult for me to turn down the care factor.
 
So the rest of you don't have job stress so high that it sneaks into your dreams and interrupts your sleep most nights?
I email myself at 3 in the morning all the time. I am doing my best to try and turn the squelch on my give-a-****ter way down. Still working at it.
I had a job like this. I quit it this March because life is too short and we have enough savings for a good enough life. As much as I disliked the job, it was too difficult for me to turn down the care factor.
Love most of my job and definitely love the people. It's just there is too much of it. Boss is wanting me to expand and grow. Frankly, I'm thinking about a 30 hour work week.

Random thought - dollars to donuts that millennials and Gen Zers haven't the foggiest idea what squelch is.
 
So the rest of you don't have job stress so high that it sneaks into your dreams and interrupts your sleep most nights?
I email myself at 3 in the morning all the time. I am doing my best to try and turn the squelch on my give-a-****ter way down. Still working at it.
I had a job like this. I quit it this March because life is too short and we have enough savings for a good enough life. As much as I disliked the job, it was too difficult for me to turn down the care factor.
Love most of my job and definitely love the people. It's just there is too much of it. Boss is wanting me to expand and grow. Frankly, I'm thinking about a 30 hour work week.
I understand and am not being critical. Just feel the need to nudge people sometimes.

Despite having a better and higher paid job than when I quit, I'm just not sure that I can really unring the Financial Independence bell. Pensions and other things can matter a lot though.
 
So the rest of you don't have job stress so high that it sneaks into your dreams and interrupts your sleep most nights?
I email myself at 3 in the morning all the time. I am doing my best to try and turn the squelch on my give-a-****ter way down. Still working at it.
I had a job like this. I quit it this March because life is too short and we have enough savings for a good enough life. As much as I disliked the job, it was too difficult for me to turn down the care factor.
Love most of my job and definitely love the people. It's just there is too much of it. Boss is wanting me to expand and grow. Frankly, I'm thinking about a 30 hour work week.
I understand and am not being critical. Just feel the need to nudge people sometimes.

Despite having a better and higher paid job than when I quit, I'm just not sure that I can really unring the Financial Independence bell. Pensions and other things can matter a lot though.
I can't unring the FI bell - I'm there and don't think I'm going to fall off of that readily, barring a huge market meltdown. But, then again, if I do something binary at work I don't think I can unring that bell, either. I'm going to angle for something incremental reasonably soon.
 
So the rest of you don't have job stress so high that it sneaks into your dreams and interrupts your sleep most nights?
I email myself at 3 in the morning all the time. I am doing my best to try and turn the squelch on my give-a-****ter way down. Still working at it.
I had a job like this. I quit it this March because life is too short and we have enough savings for a good enough life. As much as I disliked the job, it was too difficult for me to turn down the care factor.
Love most of my job and definitely love the people. It's just there is too much of it. Boss is wanting me to expand and grow. Frankly, I'm thinking about a 30 hour work week.
I understand and am not being critical. Just feel the need to nudge people sometimes.

Despite having a better and higher paid job than when I quit, I'm just not sure that I can really unring the Financial Independence bell. Pensions and other things can matter a lot though.
I can't unring the FI bell - I'm there and don't think I'm going to fall off of that readily, barring a huge market meltdown. But, then again, if I do something binary at work I don't think I can unring that bell, either. I'm going to angle for something incremental reasonably soon.
Hopefully you can find some type of transition that works for you. Part time is not really common at all in my industry.

After all the years on these boards with you I do like to nudge you more towards retirement when I can though. :wink:
 
I email myself at 3 in the morning all the time. I am doing my best to try and turn the squelch on my give-a-****ter way down. Still working at it.

Random thought - dollars to donuts that millennials and Gen Zers haven't the foggiest idea what squelch is.

Wow, that's a word I haven't heard in a long time. Used to have to mess with the squelch on our CB radio back in my commercial fishing days as a kid!

And your turn of phrase is unrivaled. Again.
 
I email myself at 3 in the morning all the time. I am doing my best to try and turn the squelch on my give-a-****ter way down. Still working at it.

Random thought - dollars to donuts that millennials and Gen Zers haven't the foggiest idea what squelch is.

Wow, that's a word I haven't heard in a long time. Used to have to mess with the squelch on our CB radio back in my commercial fishing days as a kid!

And your turn of phrase is unrivaled. Again.
I'm pretty solid Gen X and I have no idea what you are talking about. Is it a tuning knob?
 
I email myself at 3 in the morning all the time. I am doing my best to try and turn the squelch on my give-a-****ter way down. Still working at it.

Random thought - dollars to donuts that millennials and Gen Zers haven't the foggiest idea what squelch is.

Wow, that's a word I haven't heard in a long time. Used to have to mess with the squelch on our CB radio back in my commercial fishing days as a kid!

And your turn of phrase is unrivaled. Again.
I'm pretty solid Gen X and I have no idea what you are talking about. Is it a tuning knob?
Someone didn’t play with CB radios as a kid.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

I've been on Verizon forever so don't have much experience with other providers, but I know a lot of people talk about Mint Mobile as a cheap option.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

T-Mobile has an ages 55+ cellphone plan that is a good option if you don't want to go with a discount provider.

But all the major carriers get you one way or another if you want the latest and greatest phone. The monthly may be cheaper but they'll give you less on trade-in and vice versa.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.
I pay $37 for Verizon's prepaid monthly plan. Gives me 15gb per month. Service is fine. I feel that they throttle me if I'm in a sea of humanity like at a concert.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.
I pay $37 for Verizon's prepaid monthly plan. Gives me 15gb per month. Service is fine. I feel that they throttle me if I'm in a sea of humanity like at a concert.
👍 we pay $300 monthly for 6 phones and home internet with Verizon. This includes monthly payments on 3 new phones. Unlimited data.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

I've been on Verizon forever so don't have much experience with other providers, but I know a lot of people talk about Mint Mobile as a cheap option.

T-Mobile has an ages 55+ cellphone plan
Super interesting comparing coverage areas.

Mint: 5G-mid range at our house. And a lot of no coverage areas. Basically along the interstate and if we went for a hike we might as well leave the phones at home. Probably a good option for people in a big city that spend most of their time there.

T-Mobile: Ultra 5G at our house. Has "partner" 3G coverage for the areas for the mountains not covered by Mint (see Verizon below).

Verizon: 5G (not ultra though) at our house and 4G coverage in the mountain areas (they must sell out the 3G band to T-Mobile).

T-Mobile is the best as far as coverage and I think my wife is on the T-Mobile 55+ Choice plan $55 plus $18 a month insurance. I'm looking at Essentials that would be $30/month per phone plus taxes and fees. Have to explain to my wife what self insured means.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

I've been on Verizon forever so don't have much experience with other providers, but I know a lot of people talk about Mint Mobile as a cheap option.
Cricket. AT&T network. For 2 phones it's $80/month unlimited. For my family of four it's $100/mo.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

T-Mobile has an ages 55+ cellphone plan that is a good option if you don't want to go with a discount provider.

But all the major carriers get you one way or another if you want the latest and greatest phone. The monthly may be cheaper but they'll give you less on trade-in and vice versa.
before our move to italy, we switched to the 55+ 2 line plan, which is $110 a month, including taxes. key here is that for the most part, international texting and roaming are included. that alone on ATT would be $10 a day for 1 line and $5 for another.
 
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Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

We have Xfinity (Comcast) for everything. Super fast (just under gig speed) home internet is $60 a month. We don’t have any “cable” TV, but we do have a free streaming box from that internet package that gives us some channels as well as all the streaming services, though we almost never use it.

Having home internet with them gives us the ability to also use them for cell phones at a discount rate. It’s also $60 a month for two lines, unlimited data (throttled after like 25 gb per line). They use the Verizon towers out here, so it’s identical coverage. You can also buy phones with them, and they will allow interest free payment of those phones for 2 years.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

We have Xfinity (Comcast) for everything. Super fast (just under gig speed) home internet is $60 a month. We don’t have any “cable” TV, but we do have a free streaming box from that internet package that gives us some channels as well as all the streaming services, though we almost never use it.

Having home internet with them gives us the ability to also use them for cell phones at a discount rate. It’s also $60 a month for two lines, unlimited data (throttled after like 25 gb per line). They use the Verizon towers out here, so it’s identical coverage. You can also buy phones with them, and they will allow interest free payment of those phones for 2 years.

Word to the wise on that streaming box thing. We never used it and it got thrown in a box when we last moved and haven't been able to find it since (may have found its way into the trash by accident.) Xfinity hit us with a $55 fee for not turning it back in to them a few months later. 100% guarantee that their business model on these cheap little things is people forgetting to return them.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

We have Xfinity (Comcast) for everything. Super fast (just under gig speed) home internet is $60 a month. We don’t have any “cable” TV, but we do have a free streaming box from that internet package that gives us some channels as well as all the streaming services, though we almost never use it.

Having home internet with them gives us the ability to also use them for cell phones at a discount rate. It’s also $60 a month for two lines, unlimited data (throttled after like 25 gb per line). They use the Verizon towers out here, so it’s identical coverage. You can also buy phones with them, and they will allow interest free payment of those phones for 2 years.

Word to the wise on that streaming box thing. We never used it and it got thrown in a box when we last moved and haven't been able to find it since (may have found its way into the trash by accident.) Xfinity hit us with a $55 fee for not turning it back in to them a few months later. 100% guarantee that their business model on these cheap little things is people forgetting to return them.
One of the really good things about our relocation is never having to deal with Comcast ever again. The king of hidden frees and rate hikes. It was our only option for years. New home has fiber ran to it instead of cable. Glory be, that's 1000 Mbps UP and DOWN.

I was expecting a bunch of added costs to use their equipment for a few months until we got there and I could figure out what I needed to replace with my own, much like we had to do with Comcast years ago. Nope the $59 they quoted us is exactly $59, using all their latest equipment, no added fees.
 
Cell Phones!

Having not had to pay my own cell phone bill for decades I'm wondering what people are doing. I know some of the FIRE I've read they do some voice over internet and stuff that's basically free. My wife's phone has been $80/month forever. She'll change carriers every once in a while for promises of a cheaper bill...it always turns out to be $80. Is there a cheaper way?

Note: My wife has to have the best of the line Samsung with the fancy cameras. She uses her phone for everything, hardly ever even uses a computer. I wouldn't need more than an old flip phone that does calls and text messaging.

We have Xfinity (Comcast) for everything. Super fast (just under gig speed) home internet is $60 a month. We don’t have any “cable” TV, but we do have a free streaming box from that internet package that gives us some channels as well as all the streaming services, though we almost never use it.

Having home internet with them gives us the ability to also use them for cell phones at a discount rate. It’s also $60 a month for two lines, unlimited data (throttled after like 25 gb per line). They use the Verizon towers out here, so it’s identical coverage. You can also buy phones with them, and they will allow interest free payment of those phones for 2 years.

Word to the wise on that streaming box thing. We never used it and it got thrown in a box when we last moved and haven't been able to find it since (may have found its way into the trash by accident.) Xfinity hit us with a $55 fee for not turning it back in to them a few months later. 100% guarantee that their business model on these cheap little things is people forgetting to return them.

They are also the only option I have for high speed where I live, so it’s them or nothing, and we don’t plan to move.
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed
 
And for early retirees - the estimates you get from your SS statement assumes you keep paying tax up until the age you "retire" and start collecting SS. Instead you'll need to use their calculator and put zeros in for the years that you'll be retired early and not collecting SS.
 
Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night

Chapter 4 of "How to Retire"?

larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

To me this is the biggest factor to consider. It's tough to beat SS for longevity "insurance", especially with the COLA adjustment. And getting that starting amount as high as possible by delaying just compounds that affect.
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

Starting SS earlier means taking less from other investments early. Starting later puts more stress on those investments, but then lessens that stress by a larger amount when you do turn on SS. I’m too young to worry about it now, but my thought at this time would be to delay and get the higher amount later. I do have longevity in my family.
 
I visited someone in a retirement home a few days ago. It was an excellent facility. But, still ...those places can be depressing. If I get to the point of needing to be in a retirement home (and hopefully that's many, many years from now), I'll gladly take a slight inconvenience from delayed SS if it ensures that I can get into a top notch facility. [My wife dreads the thought of being in a home, as both her parents were due to dementia. We're only partially kidding when we agree that I'll instead just leave her in a snowbank somewhere. As for me, the runner, I'll probably have the good fortune of falling into a porta-potty while out for a run and drowning.]
 
Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night

Chapter 4 of "How to Retire"?

larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

To me this is the biggest factor to consider. It's tough to beat SS for longevity "insurance", especially with the COLA adjustment. And getting that starting amount as high as possible by delaying just compounds that affect.
Chapter 3 of How to Make Your Money Last, Jane Bryant Quinn
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

Starting SS earlier means taking less from other investments early. Starting later puts more stress on those investments, but then lessens that stress by a larger amount when you do turn on SS. I’m too young to worry about it now, but my thought at this time would be to delay and get the higher amount later. I do have longevity in my family.
Good points.

I'm still leaning towards wife collecting at 62, then as long as we have plenty of money pushing mine out to 67 or 70 (mostly just for her protection). She'd be collecting the smaller amount for 14 years before jumping to half of mine. The calculators say to push her's off too though, which I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around (need to print off the numbers so I can see it on paper).

I don't think there is any doubt though if the higher earner is older instead of younger, the younger lower earner should use theirs starting at 62 for as long as they can before the higher earner is maxed out and starts.
 
And for early retirees - the estimates you get from your SS statement assumes you keep paying tax up until the age you "retire" and start collecting SS. Instead you'll need to use their calculator and put zeros in for the years that you'll be retired early and not collecting SS.
Top 35 years. I’m 62 and maxed already so good there. Thinking 62 for my wife and 70 for me. She has longevity on her side so I want to make sure she’s good when I’m gone. I guess we both have longevity on our Mom’s side. Dad’s - not so much
 
I visited someone in a retirement home a few days ago. It was an excellent facility. But, still ...those places can be depressing. If I get to the point of needing to be in a retirement home (and hopefully that's many, many years from now), I'll gladly take a slight inconvenience from delayed SS if it ensures that I can get into a top notch facility. [My wife dreads the thought of being in a home, as both her parents were due to dementia. We're only partially kidding when we agree that I'll instead just leave her in a snowbank somewhere. As for me, the runner, I'll probably have the good fortune of falling into a porta-potty while out for a run and drowning.]
My parents are in a decent one in Indianapolis. It’s alright but not perfect by any stretch. Still, I’d much rather be there than a less well managed one. Thankfully dad was a teacher when Michigan had good plans.

There’s no doubt that I’ll wait until 67 or 70, or whatever the age is that maxes her survivor spouses share. It’s basically a bond / fixed income part of your portfolio. It makes sense to maximize when you’re 70+.
 
Appreciate all the good info in this thread and the many people who contribute and answer questions. My parents and my in-laws are both approaching retirement and have tasked me with helping them which I have been doing the best I can. he posts in here and the resources recommended (like books and websites) have been quite helpful.
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

Starting SS earlier means taking less from other investments early. Starting later puts more stress on those investments, but then lessens that stress by a larger amount when you do turn on SS. I’m too young to worry about it now, but my thought at this time would be to delay and get the higher amount later. I do have longevity in my family.
Good points.

I'm still leaning towards wife collecting at 62, then as long as we have plenty of money pushing mine out to 67 or 70 (mostly just for her protection). She'd be collecting the smaller amount for 14 years before jumping to half of mine. The calculators say to push her's off too though, which I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around (need to print off the numbers so I can see it on paper).

I don't think there is any doubt though if the higher earner is older instead of younger, the younger lower earner should use theirs starting at 62 for as long as they can before the higher earner is maxed out and starts.
I'm 100% planning on taking SS at 62 because I want the income during a period when I'll still be highly active. I understand the mathematical argument for delaying, and it's a sound argument. I just place more value on having the extra income during the go-go years, and if that means that my portfolio is under a little more pressure when I'm 85, that's totally fine.

There's also a psychological consideration here. I know that I am going to be one of those people who has a hard time spending from his portfolio in the early years of retirement. The sooner I start SS, the better I will feel about being able to leave my positions alone. That's a very poor mathematical argument, but I see it as a reasonable peace-of-mind argument.

And, this is kind of grim, but the fact is that if you end up in long-term care, you probably won't be there all that long. We're dealing with this with a family member right now, and it's really not all that bad. This is going to take my MIL and step-FIL to the felt, but that's just because they were under-financed for their lifestyle. My wife and I will not have that problem, and I just don't really expect many issues with self-insuring LTC. And if LTC doesn't come up as an issue, then I would definitely want to have taken SS as early as possible.
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

Starting SS earlier means taking less from other investments early. Starting later puts more stress on those investments, but then lessens that stress by a larger amount when you do turn on SS. I’m too young to worry about it now, but my thought at this time would be to delay and get the higher amount later. I do have longevity in my family.
Good points.

I'm still leaning towards wife collecting at 62, then as long as we have plenty of money pushing mine out to 67 or 70 (mostly just for her protection). She'd be collecting the smaller amount for 14 years before jumping to half of mine. The calculators say to push her's off too though, which I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around (need to print off the numbers so I can see it on paper).

I don't think there is any doubt though if the higher earner is older instead of younger, the younger lower earner should use theirs starting at 62 for as long as they can before the higher earner is maxed out and starts.
I'm 100% planning on taking SS at 62 because I want the income during a period when I'll still be highly active. I understand the mathematical argument for delaying, and it's a sound argument. I just place more value on having the extra income during the go-go years, and if that means that my portfolio is under a little more pressure when I'm 85, that's totally fine.

There's also a psychological consideration here. I know that I am going to be one of those people who has a hard time spending from his portfolio in the early years of retirement. The sooner I start SS, the better I will feel about being able to leave my positions alone. That's a very poor mathematical argument, but I see it as a reasonable peace-of-mind argument.

And, this is kind of grim, but the fact is that if you end up in long-term care, you probably won't be there all that long. We're dealing with this with a family member right now, and it's really not all that bad. This is going to take my MIL and step-FIL to the felt, but that's just because they were under-financed for their lifestyle. My wife and I will not have that problem, and I just don't really expect many issues with self-insuring LTC. And if LTC doesn't come up as an issue, then I would definitely want to have taken SS as early as possible.
I'm sure you already know this but your soc sec benefits is reduced $1 per $2 you earn over 23k and $1 per $3 over 59k. The 59k is the year you reach NRA

So be careful earning income while collecting
 
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Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed
I’ve said it for my situation and just using say $3k for my wife and me (both should have enough credits) gives you enough of a nest egg from 62-70 that a decent return of 6-8% each year would have us making up the 62 to 70 monthly difference and still be way ahead with that huge nest egg.

Part of the reason why many of these sites recommend 70 is because most people get SS at 62 because they need it not because they thought about investing the difference. Those sites A) don’t even mention the nest egg and B) if they have the nest egg they don’t mention that you are investing that nest egg amount over the 8 years. The average time each year of $$$s has is 4 years. 4 years at 6-8% return makes that nest egg a lot bigger at age 70.

For example, my nest egg above would be $72k * 8 years or $576k. Using just 6% return with simple math (average of 4 years of compounding) and that nest egg is $727k.

All that said, there are other factors like the reduction of SS due to income before full retirement age. If my wife or I are still working or if we are trying to do Roth rollovers, it won’t make sense to get SS early when you get half of it.
 
I swung by the town I've been researching as a possible semi-retirement spot right outside Austin (Marble Falls, TX) on my business trip this past week. I should have actually driven around a little more to get a better vibe of the town but I really just wanted to see just how close/far it was from Austin (only ended up being an hour) and a general vibe. Stopped downtown, walked to a little beer place that had a wonderful outdoor vibe. Definitely could see myself spending my final years there. Next time I'm in town I'll try and spend some more time... but for now it's at the top of my list (but still a ways out as my boy just started 6th grade and I'm not going anywhere until he's out of the house).
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

Starting SS earlier means taking less from other investments early. Starting later puts more stress on those investments, but then lessens that stress by a larger amount when you do turn on SS. I’m too young to worry about it now, but my thought at this time would be to delay and get the higher amount later. I do have longevity in my family.
Good points.

I'm still leaning towards wife collecting at 62, then as long as we have plenty of money pushing mine out to 67 or 70 (mostly just for her protection). She'd be collecting the smaller amount for 14 years before jumping to half of mine. The calculators say to push her's off too though, which I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around (need to print off the numbers so I can see it on paper).

I don't think there is any doubt though if the higher earner is older instead of younger, the younger lower earner should use theirs starting at 62 for as long as they can before the higher earner is maxed out and starts.
I'm 100% planning on taking SS at 62 because I want the income during a period when I'll still be highly active. I understand the mathematical argument for delaying, and it's a sound argument. I just place more value on having the extra income during the go-go years, and if that means that my portfolio is under a little more pressure when I'm 85, that's totally fine.

There's also a psychological consideration here. I know that I am going to be one of those people who has a hard time spending from his portfolio in the early years of retirement. The sooner I start SS, the better I will feel about being able to leave my positions alone. That's a very poor mathematical argument, but I see it as a reasonable peace-of-mind argument.

And, this is kind of grim, but the fact is that if you end up in long-term care, you probably won't be there all that long. We're dealing with this with a family member right now, and it's really not all that bad. This is going to take my MIL and step-FIL to the felt, but that's just because they were under-financed for their lifestyle. My wife and I will not have that problem, and I just don't really expect many issues with self-insuring LTC. And if LTC doesn't come up as an issue, then I would definitely want to have taken SS as early as possible.
I agree with ALL of that.
Especially when it's my wife taking it early first. She can use that as her spending and I don't touch any investments unless I have to. I'll see where I'm at later seven years from now, hopefully it wont matter to me if I take it early or not.
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

Starting SS earlier means taking less from other investments early. Starting later puts more stress on those investments, but then lessens that stress by a larger amount when you do turn on SS. I’m too young to worry about it now, but my thought at this time would be to delay and get the higher amount later. I do have longevity in my family.
Good points.

I'm still leaning towards wife collecting at 62, then as long as we have plenty of money pushing mine out to 67 or 70 (mostly just for her protection). She'd be collecting the smaller amount for 14 years before jumping to half of mine. The calculators say to push her's off too though, which I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around (need to print off the numbers so I can see it on paper).

I don't think there is any doubt though if the higher earner is older instead of younger, the younger lower earner should use theirs starting at 62 for as long as they can before the higher earner is maxed out and starts.
I'm 100% planning on taking SS at 62 because I want the income during a period when I'll still be highly active. I understand the mathematical argument for delaying, and it's a sound argument. I just place more value on having the extra income during the go-go years, and if that means that my portfolio is under a little more pressure when I'm 85, that's totally fine.

There's also a psychological consideration here. I know that I am going to be one of those people who has a hard time spending from his portfolio in the early years of retirement. The sooner I start SS, the better I will feel about being able to leave my positions alone. That's a very poor mathematical argument, but I see it as a reasonable peace-of-mind argument.

And, this is kind of grim, but the fact is that if you end up in long-term care, you probably won't be there all that long. We're dealing with this with a family member right now, and it's really not all that bad. This is going to take my MIL and step-FIL to the felt, but that's just because they were under-financed for their lifestyle. My wife and I will not have that problem, and I just don't really expect many issues with self-insuring LTC. And if LTC doesn't come up as an issue, then I would definitely want to have taken SS as early as possible.
I'm sure you already know this but your soc sec benefits is reduced $1 per $2 you earn over 23k and $1 per $3 over 59k. The 59k is the year you reach NRA

So be careful earning income while collecting
Yes, but it does go back into the pot and you'll get it later right? So in that sense you're still pushing it out if you happen to go over the income limits.
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed
I’ve said it for my situation and just using say $3k for my wife and me (both should have enough credits) gives you enough of a nest egg from 62-70 that a decent return of 6-8% each year would have us making up the 62 to 70 monthly difference and still be way ahead with that huge nest egg.

Part of the reason why many of these sites recommend 70 is because most people get SS at 62 because they need it not because they thought about investing the difference. Those sites A) don’t even mention the nest egg and B) if they have the nest egg they don’t mention that you are investing that nest egg amount over the 8 years. The average time each year of $$$s has is 4 years. 4 years at 6-8% return makes that nest egg a lot bigger at age 70.

For example, my nest egg above would be $72k * 8 years or $576k. Using just 6% return with simple math (average of 4 years of compounding) and that nest egg is $727k.

All that said, there are other factors like the reduction of SS due to income before full retirement age. If my wife or I are still working or if we are trying to do Roth rollovers, it won’t make sense to get SS early when you get half of it.
I think what you're saying is that SS is simple 8% interest, not compounded, and 6% compounded interest beats that with the unknown being inflation?
 
It's always interesting to read comments and retirement projections that go well past age 80.

'Go-Go' starting at 65? Early retirement might just be a larger consideration for those that can. All it takes is one partner to have a health issue and both stay near a hospital from that point on.
'Slow-Go' in the late 70's-early 80's might just be wishful thinking. 'No-Go' 85+ seems to be too late. How many 85 year olds are these retirement articles/books using as a reference? Hint: the ones that survived and still able to communicate well.

Just based on life expectancy of the USA, from birth. The longer one lasts, the longer they expect to keep going.

Social Security Administration: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/STATS/table4c6.html
Males 73.54 years; Females 79.30 years

CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/life-expectancy.htm
Males 74.8 years; Females 80.2 years

Obviously they can't calculate family history, current health issues, income advantages/disadvantages (better care or more elective surgeries), occupation/career (high stress or physically demanding or danger involved), location, or activity health on a personal level. Let alone just random acts of humans/environment.

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Wish I could find the link that I read awhile ago about the calculations are generally made twice. Once from birth, and then again at age 65. If one makes it to 65, it extended males to 82ish and women to 86ish (I think that's what it was, but could be wrong).

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Here's an article about retiring early vs normal and less life expectancy. https://www.elderguru.com/why-do-retirees-die-soon-after-retirement/
 
It's always interesting to read comments and retirement projections that go well past age 80.

'Go-Go' starting at 65? Early retirement might just be a larger consideration for those that can. All it takes is one partner to have a health issue and both stay near a hospital from that point on.
'Slow-Go' in the late 70's-early 80's might just be wishful thinking. 'No-Go' 85+ seems to be too late. How many 85 year olds are these retirement articles/books using as a reference? Hint: the ones that survived and still able to communicate well.

Just based on life expectancy of the USA, from birth. The longer one lasts, the longer they expect to keep going.

Social Security Administration: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/STATS/table4c6.html
Males 73.54 years; Females 79.30 years

CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/life-expectancy.htm
Males 74.8 years; Females 80.2 years

Obviously they can't calculate family history, current health issues, income advantages/disadvantages (better care or more elective surgeries), occupation/career (high stress or physically demanding or danger involved), location, or activity health on a personal level. Let alone just random acts of humans/environment.

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Wish I could find the link that I read awhile ago about the calculations are generally made twice. Once from birth, and then again at age 65. If one makes it to 65, it extended males to 82ish and women to 86ish (I think that's what it was, but could be wrong).

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Here's an article about retiring early vs normal and less life expectancy. https://www.elderguru.com/why-do-retirees-die-soon-after-retirement/


Just to add one anecdote, my uncle who had no history of heart disease or high blood pressure or anything woke up last Monday morning with chest pains. Had a full blown heart attack and passed away at 78. My stepfather had a mini-stroke at 70 and then developed dementia and we had to put him in a care facility this year as it rapidly progressed. I doubt he makes it another year or two. It's made me reexamine the whole idea of living well into my 80's or 90's as well as my health and eating habits. I am certainly leaning more into the enjoy things while I still can and retiring earlier if I can aspect of my own retirement planning.
 
It's always interesting to read comments and retirement projections that go well past age 80.

'Go-Go' starting at 65? Early retirement might just be a larger consideration for those that can. All it takes is one partner to have a health issue and both stay near a hospital from that point on.
'Slow-Go' in the late 70's-early 80's might just be wishful thinking. 'No-Go' 85+ seems to be too late. How many 85 year olds are these retirement articles/books using as a reference? Hint: the ones that survived and still able to communicate well.

Just based on life expectancy of the USA, from birth. The longer one lasts, the longer they expect to keep going.

Social Security Administration: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/STATS/table4c6.html
Males 73.54 years; Females 79.30 years

CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/life-expectancy.htm
Males 74.8 years; Females 80.2 years

Obviously they can't calculate family history, current health issues, income advantages/disadvantages (better care or more elective surgeries), occupation/career (high stress or physically demanding or danger involved), location, or activity health on a personal level. Let alone just random acts of humans/environment.

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Wish I could find the link that I read awhile ago about the calculations are generally made twice. Once from birth, and then again at age 65. If one makes it to 65, it extended males to 82ish and women to 86ish (I think that's what it was, but could be wrong).

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Here's an article about retiring early vs normal and less life expectancy. https://www.elderguru.com/why-do-retirees-die-soon-after-retirement/


Just to add one anecdote, my uncle who had no history of heart disease or high blood pressure or anything woke up last Monday morning with chest pains. Had a full blown heart attack and passed away at 78. My stepfather had a mini-stroke at 70 and then developed dementia and we had to put him in a care facility this year as it rapidly progressed. I doubt he makes it another year or two. It's made me reexamine the whole idea of living well into my 80's or 90's as well as my health and eating habits. I am certainly leaning more into the enjoy things while I still can and retiring earlier if I can aspect of my own retirement planning.
This is kind of where I'm landing. I've been saving (delaying gratification) my entire life. I don't know how many years I have left, but (a) I know I don't have more than about 40, at the very upper end, and (b) I know that many of those years -- if I even get them -- are going to be "low quality" years. I'm fortunate enough to be able to retire in my mid-50s. It seems foolish to keep putting off consumption. This is the period that I've been saving for. I don't want to get to this point, be frugal so that I'll have lots of money for the nicest nursing home down the road, and then drop dead of a massive heart attack at 75.
 
Just based on life expectancy of the USA, from birth. The longer one lasts, the longer they expect to keep going.

Social Security Administration: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/STATS/table4c6.html
Males 73.54 years; Females 79.30 years

CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/life-expectancy.htm
Males 74.8 years; Females 80.2 years

As has been mentioned here at least a few times I’m sure, I’m a life & health agent. I’m the fun guy who actually has life expectancy tables in his briefcase! I’m also the guy who still has a briefcase.

Anyway, one of the first phrases I learned in the business is “the longer you live, the longer you live.” CDC life tables (pre COVID, so a bit dated) had life expectancy for a male born in US as 76.3. But if that male were now 65, he has a remaining life expectancy of 17.8 years (so age 83 roughly, nearly 7 years longer). But that makes sense - as you didn’t die in your 20s in a car wreck or whatever.
 
It's always interesting to read comments and retirement projections that go well past age 80.

'Go-Go' starting at 65? Early retirement might just be a larger consideration for those that can. All it takes is one partner to have a health issue and both stay near a hospital from that point on.
'Slow-Go' in the late 70's-early 80's might just be wishful thinking. 'No-Go' 85+ seems to be too late. How many 85 year olds are these retirement articles/books using as a reference? Hint: the ones that survived and still able to communicate well.

Just based on life expectancy of the USA, from birth. The longer one lasts, the longer they expect to keep going.

Social Security Administration: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/STATS/table4c6.html
Males 73.54 years; Females 79.30 years

CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/life-expectancy.htm
Males 74.8 years; Females 80.2 years

Obviously they can't calculate family history, current health issues, income advantages/disadvantages (better care or more elective surgeries), occupation/career (high stress or physically demanding or danger involved), location, or activity health on a personal level. Let alone just random acts of humans/environment.

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Wish I could find the link that I read awhile ago about the calculations are generally made twice. Once from birth, and then again at age 65. If one makes it to 65, it extended males to 82ish and women to 86ish (I think that's what it was, but could be wrong).

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Here's an article about retiring early vs normal and less life expectancy. https://www.elderguru.com/why-do-retirees-die-soon-after-retirement/


Just to add one anecdote, my uncle who had no history of heart disease or high blood pressure or anything woke up last Monday morning with chest pains. Had a full blown heart attack and passed away at 78. My stepfather had a mini-stroke at 70 and then developed dementia and we had to put him in a care facility this year as it rapidly progressed. I doubt he makes it another year or two. It's made me reexamine the whole idea of living well into my 80's or 90's as well as my health and eating habits. I am certainly leaning more into the enjoy things while I still can and retiring earlier if I can aspect of my own retirement planning.
This is kind of where I'm landing. I've been saving (delaying gratification) my entire life. I don't know how many years I have left, but (a) I know I don't have more than about 40, at the very upper end, and (b) I know that many of those years -- if I even get them -- are going to be "low quality" years. I'm fortunate enough to be able to retire in my mid-50s. It seems foolish to keep putting off consumption. This is the period that I've been saving for. I don't want to get to this point, be frugal so that I'll have lots of money for the nicest nursing home down the road, and then drop dead of a massive heart attack at 75.
100%

100% the reason why I'm retiring in my mid 50s even though it's prime earnings years and trying not to look back.

However, my grandpa lived until he was 94, dad 90 and mom 91. Pretty much everyone was able to drive a car right up to the last year or two. Starting at age 80 though I can see spending way less money regardless.
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

Starting SS earlier means taking less from other investments early. Starting later puts more stress on those investments, but then lessens that stress by a larger amount when you do turn on SS. I’m too young to worry about it now, but my thought at this time would be to delay and get the higher amount later. I do have longevity in my family.
Good points.

I'm still leaning towards wife collecting at 62, then as long as we have plenty of money pushing mine out to 67 or 70 (mostly just for her protection). She'd be collecting the smaller amount for 14 years before jumping to half of mine. The calculators say to push her's off too though, which I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around (need to print off the numbers so I can see it on paper).

I don't think there is any doubt though if the higher earner is older instead of younger, the younger lower earner should use theirs starting at 62 for as long as they can before the higher earner is maxed out and starts.
I'm 100% planning on taking SS at 62 because I want the income during a period when I'll still be highly active. I understand the mathematical argument for delaying, and it's a sound argument. I just place more value on having the extra income during the go-go years, and if that means that my portfolio is under a little more pressure when I'm 85, that's totally fine.

There's also a psychological consideration here. I know that I am going to be one of those people who has a hard time spending from his portfolio in the early years of retirement. The sooner I start SS, the better I will feel about being able to leave my positions alone. That's a very poor mathematical argument, but I see it as a reasonable peace-of-mind argument.

And, this is kind of grim, but the fact is that if you end up in long-term care, you probably won't be there all that long. We're dealing with this with a family member right now, and it's really not all that bad. This is going to take my MIL and step-FIL to the felt, but that's just because they were under-financed for their lifestyle. My wife and I will not have that problem, and I just don't really expect many issues with self-insuring LTC. And if LTC doesn't come up as an issue, then I would definitely want to have taken SS as early as possible.
I'm sure you already know this but your soc sec benefits is reduced $1 per $2 you earn over 23k and $1 per $3 over 59k. The 59k is the year you reach NRA

So be careful earning income while collecting
Yes, but it does go back into the pot and you'll get it later right? So in that sense you're still pushing it out if you happen to go over the income limits.
Sure - I was just commenting on using it early as a supplement while still earning income. I could have misunderstood Ivan post but it was more of a generic hey I'm taking SS at 62 to supplement my income but if you plan on the 3K a month - it won't be 3K - thats all I was saying
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed

Starting SS earlier means taking less from other investments early. Starting later puts more stress on those investments, but then lessens that stress by a larger amount when you do turn on SS. I’m too young to worry about it now, but my thought at this time would be to delay and get the higher amount later. I do have longevity in my family.
Good points.

I'm still leaning towards wife collecting at 62, then as long as we have plenty of money pushing mine out to 67 or 70 (mostly just for her protection). She'd be collecting the smaller amount for 14 years before jumping to half of mine. The calculators say to push her's off too though, which I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around (need to print off the numbers so I can see it on paper).

I don't think there is any doubt though if the higher earner is older instead of younger, the younger lower earner should use theirs starting at 62 for as long as they can before the higher earner is maxed out and starts.
I'm 100% planning on taking SS at 62 because I want the income during a period when I'll still be highly active. I understand the mathematical argument for delaying, and it's a sound argument. I just place more value on having the extra income during the go-go years, and if that means that my portfolio is under a little more pressure when I'm 85, that's totally fine.

There's also a psychological consideration here. I know that I am going to be one of those people who has a hard time spending from his portfolio in the early years of retirement. The sooner I start SS, the better I will feel about being able to leave my positions alone. That's a very poor mathematical argument, but I see it as a reasonable peace-of-mind argument.

And, this is kind of grim, but the fact is that if you end up in long-term care, you probably won't be there all that long. We're dealing with this with a family member right now, and it's really not all that bad. This is going to take my MIL and step-FIL to the felt, but that's just because they were under-financed for their lifestyle. My wife and I will not have that problem, and I just don't really expect many issues with self-insuring LTC. And if LTC doesn't come up as an issue, then I would definitely want to have taken SS as early as possible.
I'm sure you already know this but your soc sec benefits is reduced $1 per $2 you earn over 23k and $1 per $3 over 59k. The 59k is the year you reach NRA

So be careful earning income while collecting
Yes, but it does go back into the pot and you'll get it later right? So in that sense you're still pushing it out if you happen to go over the income limits.
Sure - I was just commenting on using it early as a supplement while still earning income. I could have misunderstood Ivan post but it was more of a generic hey I'm taking SS at 62 to supplement my income but if you plan on the 3K a month - it won't be 3K - thats all I was saying
TBC, I was talking about supplementing pension and investment income, not labor income. I should have been more clear about that.
 
Found a pretty good SS calculator for married couples that take into account both of your ages. It will chart what they recommend versus what scenario you're thinking about doing for both spouses.


As some of you know I've been a proponent of taking SS early. I had posted before a bar napkin calculation for my break even point being at age 89, but, I made a mistake. I didn't take into account that SS gets adjusted for inflation. If inflation is high your SS payments can be substantially larger (of course stuff you buy cost substantially more too). But redoing my bar napkin math and double checking it with some of the online calculators with inflation at 2.5 or 3% my break even point is really at age 79.

Every book I've read, including a new chapter of a new one last night, says WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. And they are right, there probably isn't a better investment option than a guaranteed 8% that is protected and adjusted for inflation.

Using the calculator above the recommendation is for both of us to wait until 70. Depending on the exact numbers sometimes it's better for her to start her own at 67 then jump on my spousal at 70. But in all cases it's better to wait because at age 90 we net about $325,000 versus us both collecting starting at age 62.

BUT

Looking at the data the calculator spits out when taking the SS early at 62 - at age 70 (her 76) we are ahead $250,000. So, the question becomes is it be better to have an extra quarter million dollars in our 70s versus betting that we live past break even (ages 79/85) and eventually die at age 90 with an extra 325K?

:ponder:

- leaving an inheritance isn't really important to us
- having extra money in our 70s and being able to enjoy it versus in our 80s when less active
- larger payments in 80s and possibly 90s would be beneficial for health and long term care if needed
I’ve said it for my situation and just using say $3k for my wife and me (both should have enough credits) gives you enough of a nest egg from 62-70 that a decent return of 6-8% each year would have us making up the 62 to 70 monthly difference and still be way ahead with that huge nest egg.

Part of the reason why many of these sites recommend 70 is because most people get SS at 62 because they need it not because they thought about investing the difference. Those sites A) don’t even mention the nest egg and B) if they have the nest egg they don’t mention that you are investing that nest egg amount over the 8 years. The average time each year of $$$s has is 4 years. 4 years at 6-8% return makes that nest egg a lot bigger at age 70.

For example, my nest egg above would be $72k * 8 years or $576k. Using just 6% return with simple math (average of 4 years of compounding) and that nest egg is $727k.

All that said, there are other factors like the reduction of SS due to income before full retirement age. If my wife or I are still working or if we are trying to do Roth rollovers, it won’t make sense to get SS early when you get half of it.
I think what you're saying is that SS is simple 8% interest, not compounded, and 6% compounded interest beats that with the unknown being inflation?
No, I was just saying the extra 8% you get from waiting is based upon the government’s “nest egg” rather than getting less SS 8 years earlier where the nest egg is now in your pocket and it’s been growing in those 8 years as well. My argument was that if you invested the early SS or spent the early SS to avoid pulling invested money out, you can have a rather large nest egg that could get you more per month than you lose out by getting the SS early and that nest egg making up the difference is your money.

I think a lot of the calculation web sites don’t take that nest egg into consideration and certainly don’t acknowledge that the nest egg can grow in those 8 years.
 
Social Security Administration: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/STATS/table4c6.html
Males 73.54 years; Females 79.30 years
This isn't quite right - this is from birth. A 65 year old dude, on average, lives to 82. A woman to 84.

No, I was just saying the extra 8% you get from waiting is based upon the government’s “nest egg” rather than getting less SS 8 years earlier where the nest egg is now in your pocket and it’s been growing in those 8 years as well. My argument was that if you invested the early SS or spent the early SS to avoid pulling invested money out, you can have a rather large nest egg that could get you more per month than you lose out by getting the SS early and that nest egg making up the difference is your money.

I think a lot of the calculation web sites don’t take that nest egg into consideration and certainly don’t acknowledge that the nest egg can grow in those 8 years.
The vast, vast majority of people who take SS early spend it so that calculation usually isn't part of it. I'm sure you can find a calculator out there that handles this. If you're single these are pretty easy calcs to make. Married is much more complex. At least for my situation I look at SS as longevity insurance for my wife, who I'm 99% sure will outlive me. So we'll probably do the "she claims early, I claim late" strategy to get her the best survivor benefits possible.
 

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