Our local family law system is corrupt and broken. I've been helping a friend navigate through some issues for the last couple years. Most of this is caused by a single local lawyer who creates custody battles in every case in which he's involved; the incestuous family law community of bottom-feeding lawyers around here love it, because they make a ton of money in every case he's in. He has commissioners and guardian ad litems on his payroll. The actual judges hate him, but the way this system works he can get ridiculous orders written by commissioners and then it takes a judge to unwind them, but he creates momentum. Anyway, here's the summary:
Divorce was final 2 years ago. Custody 50/50, all community property divided--he keeps the house and everything in it, they divide up cars, retirement accounts, boat, rv, marital debt, etc. All done through mediation, reduced to a final decree. Before the divorce, my friend was on disability and had raised these kids basically himself...home every day, volunteered at the school, etc. She was a flight attendant and spent all of her time travelling and having affairs. She's literally the worst mother I've ever known. Once saw her not know that her kids needed lunch for school, so she put froot loops in a ziploc bag and called it good.
She is unhappy with the result of the divorce, so hires lawyer described above. He immediately creates a custody battle with accusations that my friend's daughter was molested by the son of a woman he was dating. Absolute lies (in fact, I was there at the time of the "incident", as was my daughter). Lawyer knew through previous divorce proceedings that this kid had emotional/developmental issues and was an easy target. They now claim that my friend should lose custody and that his home is unsafe.
They go through a full bench trial, where the judge finds there is absolutely no evidence to support the accusations, strikes the testimony of the counselor and GAL since both wrote reports without interviewing anyone except the ex-wife, and both were caught with false entries on their billing records. Judge admonishes ex-wife, tells her that if he had decided the divorce originally he would have awarded full custody to the father, and tells her he never wants to see her in his courtroom again.
Not satisfied, they then try to go after his house because he didn't pay her the share of equity she was awarded on time--he used the money to pay for lawyers in the custody trial. They try to evict him and force a sale; the judge again tells ex-wife she has no regard for the interests of the kids and he stays the eviction. He gets the money together, he pays her, house is now resolved.
Now, they say there is a dispute about community property and that she was supposed to get half. Bad attorney's commissioner buddy issues an order that it has to go to arbitration, despite the final decree. It's supposed to go to the original mediator, but they claim he won't take it, so it will be arbitrated by another guy on this attorney's payroll.
We contact the original mediator; he says he never said he wouldn't take it. They're now forced to arbitrate with him--he wrote the original settlement that became the decree. They try a bunch of different ways to get him out and substitute their hand-picked guy in, none work. Yesterday he wrote an order saying there was no controversy to be determined through arbitration since the final decree unequivocally stated that all property had been divided.
It took him 29 court hearings after his divorce was final to simply maintain 50/50 custody of his kids and keep the house and property he was awarded in the final decree. Cost him over $70,000 in attorney's fees, and his daughters had to go to counseling and one was subjected to a rape kit based on false accusations.
I don't know how any of you practice family law. It's disgusting.
tl; dr : family law sucks.