#57 - Sometimes You Can’t Make it on Your Own (2004) Highest-42 Lowest-109 HTDAAB
Vulture-39/218 - There is so much love, regret, & gratitude in this song, written about Bono’s father. In the last verse, Bono’s voice soars w just the tiniest crack of sadness: “Can you hear me when I sing / You’re the reason I sing / You’re the reason why the opera is in me.”
Comment - Another obvious single that isnt on my wavelentgh. U2 seem to have 1 an album. I could list them all, but that would be boring. To me it feels awfully similar to Stuck in a Moment You Can’t get out of
Songfact:
The lyric was written by Bono as a tribute to his father, Bob Hewson, who died in 2001. Bono sang this at his funeral & it reflects on their tense relationship until just before his death, when Bono claims they became closer than ever before.
The song shares similar fatherly sentiments with Kite from All That You Can't Leave Behind.
In the video for the song it was prefaced with the following from Bono:
"My father worked in the post office by day & sang opera by night. We lived on the north side of Dublin in a place called Cedarwood Road. He had a lot of attitude. He gave some to me - & a voice. I wish I'd known him better."
We fight all the time
You and I, that's alright
We're the same soul
I don't need, I don't need to hear you say
That if we weren't so alike
You'd like me a whole lot more
Bono: "His whole thing was, Don't dream - to dream is to be disappointed. That was really what I think was his advice to me. He didn't speak it in those words, but that's what he meant, & of course that's really a recipe for megalomania isn't it? I mean I was only ever interested in big ideas, & not so much dreaming but putting dreams into action, doing the things that you have in your head has become an important thing for me. The song was dedicated to him & it's a portrait of him - he was a great singer, a tenor, a working class Dublin guy who listened to the opera & conducted the stereo w my mother's knitting needles. He just loved Opera, so in the song, I hit one of those big tenor notes that he would have loved so much. I think he would have loved it, I hope so."
As a tribute to his father, Bono usually removes his large sunglasses during this song. His dad used to say to him, "Bono, why don't you ever take off those f--king glasses?"
The Edge: "It's very hard when people refer to one of our old songs & say, 'Can you write another song as good as Where The Streets Have No Name or One? These are the kind of songs people refer to, but I think on this record, we may have a couple of songs which are equally as good, maybe even better. In some ways I am still too close to really say for sure if I even believe it myself - & in the end what I believe is not that important, it's what everyone else thinks that will decide if the songs on this record are as good as our best work, so I am happy to just see what people think."
The song debuted at #1 on the UK charts, the same place as Vertigo, making it the 1st time a U2 album, HTDAAB, had 2 #1's in the UK. This was released as a single in every other part of the world except the US, where "All Because of You" was released in its place.
In 2006, this won a Grammy for Song Of The Year.
Been played live 140 times.................10 times on the HTDAAB Promo Tour & the rest on the '05/06 Vertigo Tour