For the total point voters, I believe you miss the point and I would venture to guess many of you haven't played competitive sports:
Why would you even play H2H if you believe in that? You're going against someone each week not just collecting points. The "better" team is the one who wins in that moment of time, whether it's 1-0 or 150-149. In what world do you think scoring X amount of points against someone else means you're better than me? I don't give a fk how you did against team X. You play me when you play me and what you do at that point in time dictates who is better. Don't run away from this. Adapt to your environment. Plannning for byes, injuries, matchups, etc. is where the skill, uncertainty, and randomness lies in a H2H league. Those who can weave around these obstacles and still beat their opponents is a much better gauge on who the better performer is. Total points is just lazy. "That's why they play the game." If we have the same record and I beat you then I'm better period.
The idea that the team that wins is always the better team is dubious even in actual sports where teams compete directly. Were the 9-7 1984 Pittsburgh Steelers better than the 15-1 1984 San Francisco 49ers because they happened to win their only matchup 20-17? Were the 4-12 2004 Miami Dolphins as good as the 14-2 2004 New England Patriots because they managed a split?
The worse team wins *all the time* in sports, where undefeated teams are rare. Hell, in baseball, winning 62% of your games means you're phenomenal. You can say "they were better that day", but what does that mean? "They were better that day" is just another way of saying "they won the game", so it's a tautology with no predictive, (and little descriptive), value.
And again, this is in sports where teams directly compete against each other. The 2004 New England Patriots had a chance to stop the 2004 Miami Dolphins from scoring points. I don't have a chance to do anything to Jim in accounting.
There's a guy in one of my leagues who I've outscored in 11 out of 12 weeks so far. So you're saying that if he faced an easy schedule and we happened to play each other in his one good week, that he'd be a better team? Whereas if the schedulemaker had set our matchup on literally any other week, I'd be the better team?
Head-to-Head is my favorite fantasy format. It's fun, it's exciting, it creates the most dramatic tension, it furnishes the most compelling storylines. What it doesn't do a very good job of is showing which team is "better". Which is fine. I don't need fantasy to be fair, I need it to be fun. Which is why I like head-to-head as a means of determining record but hate it as a means of determining tiebreaker. It locks the outcome early in the year. It eliminates the chase. It makes the playoff race less fun.