dickey, I'm sorry. At the risk of being untoward, I remember hearing about this from Tanner/insert funny alias in the GMTAN thread what seems like ages ago. Always felt weird saying something because you'd never brought it up, but I did anyway once. Glad you can write about it now.
What was his name, your son, if you're at all inclined to say it?
If not, I'll pause to think of DT and him. This time on earth is so fleeting, as you remind us. It's precious in untold ways and those of us left behind at times are not as rich for the absence, but we try and get along anyway, hoping to come to an understanding that makes it bearable.
RIP