The Commish
Footballguy
Another thought to throw out there....it's unproductive for one to generalize the motives, abilities to control one's self etc to the entire board as if they have some sort of significant insight into what each individual poster is thinking. Several from both sides do this constantly and as best I can tell it's usually a baseless and clueless claim that isn't reflected in the entirety of the forum rather their personal experiences (which are usually twisted to fit their negative view of posters and this forum). We choose what our experiences are going to be here. We choose them by how we respond to others and how we craft our thoughts in our original posts as well as what posts we choose to respond to at all. It goes back to the comment I made a while back about asking people to do things that you aren't doing yourself. If you aren't willing to do those things yourself, it's pretty unreasonable to expect others do them.