To update the Ime situation, the Daily Mail came out and identified who the women in question was (basically confirming the rumors that were circulating). The woman apparently went to college with Danny Ainge's daughter and then Ainge hired her. Information has been getting leaked out from the Ainge camp. They are said to be very disappointed by the turn of events, as the Ainge family is good friends with the woman who Ime hooked up with (part of the same family and religious values as Ainge).
They discussed this on the radio last night, and the affair was already over by the time the Celtics found out about it over the summer. Sounds like they were fine with it and were going to ignore it when additional info came to light. The official story is that Ime used disparaging language to other Celtics staff about the woman (who then entered into an affair AFTER being called derogatory names). The C's hired a law firm, launched an investigation, and interviewed a ton of people, and ultimately Udoka got suspended for the year (but still will get half his salary).
Dissecting that a little more, there still has to be more to the story and another shoe to drop. The investigation was focused on the affair with that individual, and apparently, they noted that was all they questioned people about (READ AS: who knows what else Ime was doing and with whom). It's clear the Celtics didn't really care that Udoka had an affair (they didn't do anything about it initially) and then some of this other stuff came out.
As things stand now (ie, without any additional information), Boston effectively suspended Udoka for the season over using inappropriate language (and most likely will release him at some point)? That sounds draconian. Celtics brass insists they were justified in suspending Udoka for the season because what he did was really, really egregious. It mind be nice if they actually provided some additional details, because as of now, they look like they went way overboard.