timschochet said:
Mr. Roboto, your objection represents the evolution of our culture, which has not taken hold all the way.
If the pizza place refused to cater an interracial marriage, you would regard that as bigotry. But 40 years ago you might not have; you might have regarded it as a perfectly legitimate point of view, even if you didn't agree with it.
40 years from now, probably much less, anyone who objects to gay marriage will be regarded as expressing a backwards, bigoted view. But right now we're still in flux, and some people still think such a view is legitimate- mostly older people.
Mr. Roboto, in 2012, timschtrotner had the same position as you do now, but see how he has evolved in only 3 years. Tim argued endlessly with me that supporting politicians who want to pass legislation banning gay marriages isnt supporting bigots and bigoted legislation....when it obviously is to anyone with any sense or logic.
Luckily, Tim gave up his bigotry support, it seems. You should consider it.
You don't know anything about my political beliefs regarding gay marriage. I'm sorry to tell you this but you jump to conclusions inappropriately here. I believe that in our constitutional democracy gay people should be allowed to legally join and call it a marriage under the laws of our country. As a Christian, I would not adopt the policy that this pizza restaurant has adopted. I am in equity investor and full-time employee of a small company who has employees and licensed partners who are gay. The founder and CEO of our company is also a Christian man and has no problem hiring or licensing the rights to our business to gay people.But my personal religious beliefs on human sexuality do not define me as a bigot. I also do not believe that from what I've read, this pizza restaurant in Indiana has proven to us that they are in fact a bigoted couple. They may very well be bigots and they very well may be embarrassingly prejudiced against gay people.
My concern however is that we are fighting strongly for the rights of gay people to be equals and to be married and to be given all of the legal and consumer protections that any other group has under the law yet we seek to restrict private business owners from conscientiously objecting to something that is against their religious believes that does not demonstrably discriminate or cause harm to anybody else.
I will continue to be open-minded on this topic because I am conflicted on this issue. But I am absolutely certain that I'm embarrassed by the collateral damage that this business and others have suffered for trying to be reasonable and attempting to be honest about their own religious beliefs and how they would interact with providing services to those who they may have a strong disagreement with. My final comment is that I think this pizza restaurant is taking the brunt of a conversation and there are plenty of true bigots that should be lambasted and embarrassed far more than this couple has been.
I am happy to lambast those "true bigots" if you point me at them. In the meantime, idiots like these pizza parlor owners, who stupidly think the teachings of Jesus have something to do with who people have sex with or marry, should bear the brunt of their own moronic comments.
I dont know you. I just know you were sort of, kind of, ambiguously, and passively, defending some dumb bigots who are deservedly getting mocked mercilessly. No sympathy here for them, or you, to the extent you want to defend them.
I'm pointing out that the penalty they've siffered is excessive in both scope and accusation. But whatever makes you feel better I suppose.
What penalty? Being made fun of for being bigots on the internets? Maybe people wont be so comfortable being bigots and calling their bigotry "religious beliefs" in the future if more people call them bigots to their faces publicly and contemptuously, like what is happening to these people.
Just something to think about. In 1959 a Virginia judge felt very comfortable upholding Virginia's anti-miscegenation laws because it was God's law, writing
Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And but for the interference with his arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix.
and he sentenced a man and his wife to prison terms for being married, sentences suspended if they left the state of Virginia. It took the US Supreme Court and years and years of litigation to finally get those types of laws thrown out. Maybe if everyone in the town had gone over to the Judge's street and called him a scumbag racist bigot hiding his racism and bigotry behind his "religious beliefs", things might have happened a little faster.
Like I said, no nuance, grey area or sympathy here.