I was just at the mall and 2 cops were directing pedestrians in the pouring rain across a main street. Some dopey kid, recording on his phone of course, walks past them (towards me) and says "cops suck" The look on their faces was painful to see. I said "thank you guys, Merry Christmas" They both said "thank you sir" at the same time.
So sad where we've come here in NYC since 9/11.
I wouldn't put much stock in anything young teens do or say. They live to get a rise out of teachers, parents, police, etc. Teens aren't a very respectful group in general. I know I hated cops when I was 13 or so. I just wanted free reign to do whatever I wanted.
Yeah but that was one brief moment. I'm sure they're hearing #### all day, just standing there trying to direct traffic on Christmas Eve in the pouring rain.
Sickening.
I was just at the mall and 2 cops were directing pedestrians in the pouring rain across a main street. Some dopey kid, recording on his phone of course, walks past them (towards me) and says "cops suck" The look on their faces was painful to see. I said "thank you guys, Merry Christmas" They both said "thank you sir" at the same time.
So sad where we've come here in NYC since 9/11.
I wouldn't put much stock in anything young teens do or say. They live to get a rise out of teachers, parents, police, etc. Teens aren't a very respectful group in general. I know I hated cops when I was 13 or so. I just wanted free reign to do whatever I wanted.
Seems very sad to me. The police are being portrayed as bad guys in the media and on social media because of events that are being portrayed badly and also as somehow reflecting on all cops everywhere. This is teh kind of thing that can leave lasting impressions and things have gotten way, way out of hand.
That must really suck knowing that every day there are people that look at you funny, make comments and judge you based on others’ actions. Watching you when you enter stores, making assumptions about you when applying for jobs or housing. Stopping and frisking you when your mixing your own business. Assuming you are a criminal when you are far from it. Oh were we talking about cops of black people?
The crux of the biscuit is: how do we as a people get this #### turned around?
We need to get the best minds available on this...
sadly, i dont think this is something that can happen quickly. Well, i think it could. However, i dont think people would be willing to do what it takes to make it happen quickly. In fact people resisted programs that at the root were put in place to solve these issues. I think i wrote this before but i will write it again.
In the end alot of this can be solved by people of different backgrounds, races, socioeconomic levels, religions interacting on a regular basis. That means where they live, at work, at school, etc. The problem is this doesnt happen that often. As a result, people are pre judged based on what they see on tv, the news, entertainment, etc. And as a result, incidents like the one we are discussing in this thread are what we end up with: Officers that police communities where they fear all of the people irrationally and/or Communities that irrationally fear all cops based on what little they have seen in their neighborhoods(stop and frisk, harassment, violence) and as a result you end up with a very toxic situation. This isnt just about cops and minorities however.
These preconceived notions affect us everywhere. Think how that might impact a jury for example. Hiring managers. And even how it impacts us and how we react to these recent incidents. So my theory is that the more interaction there is, and i mean
meaningful interaction, the less we rely on TV, news, movies, rap videos for our judgements and the more we base them on actual experiences. Over time i think this helps the issues that affect our institutions. Because legally, police are allowed to kill if they are in fear. And in many of these incidents, i believe they really do fear for their lives(i believe Darren Wilson feared for his life). But if an officer fears one race more than another, even on a subconscious level, think about how that affects your decisions, without you realizing it. You may profile them more, stop and frisk them more, be more aggressive when restraining them, and maybe, just maybe you reach for your gun and pull that trigger a split second faster.
So going back to the more recent cases, people are upset at the institutions that seem to allow this stuff to happen over and over. And maybe im way off here with my theory. But i think if we focus on why this stuff is occurring and how we can fix it, it will be a much more beneficial discussion as opposed to who is at fault or who said what during a protest.
/rant.