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Do you answer the door if someone knocks/rings the bell? (3 Viewers)

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  • Yes

    Votes: 42 54.5%
  • No

    Votes: 35 45.5%

  • Total voters
    77
Only for neighbors. Too many solicitors and they can all go screw themselves.

I want to know who out there actually buys stuff from door to door solicitors. There must be people buying because its obviously a viable sales tactic considering how many we get on a weekly basis.

The one and only time we got roped into this, they offered us a brand new $16,000 gutter system. By the time I had said no about 10 times, he had come down in price to $6,000. Still told him to pound sand. So their initial offer was to scam us with an outrageously expensive price.

So no. I don't open the door anymore.
 
I work from home so a break to have actual human interaction is often welcome.

Most of the time it's someone trying to sell either tree trimming, landscaping or pest control services. A few political door-knockers. One was a guy asking if I would sell my 1977 Toyota Landcruiser parked in the driveway. Occasionally it's the Mormons. They're always really polite and I usually offer them a bottle of water. Once in a while it's a neighbor for one reason or another.

Why are you people afraid to answer the door? At worst you say, "sorry, not interested" and close the door.
Not afraid, but just like answering a phone call from a number you don't recognize, 99% of the time for me it's an annoying waste of time, so I don't bother.
 
Working from home (2 days per week for me now, 5 for my wife) is great but I do notice a lot of peddlers (mostly alarm systems, pest control, potential political posers, etc.) so I generally communicate via the ring doorbell. However, a few years ago, when we were both full time from home, I noticed a huge amount of people that flat out REFUSED to communicate with me through the doorbell and they would just hammer on the door until I answered it.

I hate to admit this but that jack hammering on my glass storm door sent me through the roof so I ordered a tasteful metal yard sign and a clear sticker for the storm door that both read "NO SOLICITORS" and, honestly, I did not think it would work but it has been amazingly effective. I know that has a full "get off my lawn vibe" about it, but at the same time, I don't carry cash, I'm not swiping my card on a stranger's device so I'm not going to buy anything from a peddler w/out researching it first.

Take that to the bank bromigos in my best (or worst) SWC impersonation possible. :)
 
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I don't.
And I was in door-to-door sales for 8 years.

I will on the very rare occasion that it's somebody from my old company, but generally no.

But I'm an introvert that works 75 hours a week. When I'm home, I'm exhausted, and the last thing I want to do is talk to a sales person. And I'm doing them a favor. They need to be getting on to go find some potential buyers, not wasting time with a non-buying curmudgeon like me.
 
My phone has a "lockscreen widget" that shows the view from the doorbell camera. So I don't even have to unlock the phone, it's there when the screen turns on.

So unless I recognize the person, I don't answer the door.

The doorbell itself has a default message that it plays if I don't respond through the app in 30 seconds, works for all unknown persons.
 
I work from home so a break to have actual human interaction is often welcome.

Most of the time it's someone trying to sell either tree trimming, landscaping or pest control services. A few political door-knockers. One was a guy asking if I would sell my 1977 Toyota Landcruiser parked in the driveway. Occasionally it's the Mormons. They're always really polite and I usually offer them a bottle of water. Once in a while it's a neighbor for one reason or another.

Why are you people afraid to answer the door? At worst you say, "sorry, not interested" and close the door.
Not afraid, but just like answering a phone call from a number you don't recognize, 99% of the time for me it's an annoying waste of time, so I don't bother.

I see this as slightly different. I never answer a phone call that isn’t in my contacts.
 
I don't.
And I was in door-to-door sales for 8 years.

I will on the very rare occasion that it's somebody from my old company, but generally no.

But I'm an introvert that works 75 hours a week. When I'm home, I'm exhausted, and the last thing I want to do is talk to a sales person. And I'm doing them a favor. They need to be getting on to go find some potential buyers, not wasting time with a non-buying curmudgeon like me.
I did it for a summer once when I was in college. Not the most fun experience at the time but something I'm glad I did because it gave me the learned skill of being able to talk to somebody who clearly didn't want to talk to me. Despite the short stint of doing it, I had many doors slammed in my face, got cursed out, and even had the cops called on me once (my boss sent me into a neighborhood/jurisdiction that apparently had some sort of no soliciting ordinance or something - I do credit the responding officer for immediately realizing I was merely following directions and he chewed out my boss instead of me).

For this reason above, I'll generally be kind to salesmen when they knock and they can tell somebody is home. But, like you, I usually keep it short and say something like, "I've been where you are and it's a tough job so I'll just be up front and tell you that I am not interested. But, I do wish you the best of luck today. Would you like a water?" That usually drops their guard and they oftentimes will accept the water and we'll chat for a couple of minutes about how nasty some people can be and they get on their way. My hope is that the two minutes and 75 cents it took me brightened their day a bit. Occasionally, one or two of them will get pushy and I just shut that down then and tell me I'm watching a game (usually true).
 
I work from home so a break to have actual human interaction is often welcome.

Most of the time it's someone trying to sell either tree trimming, landscaping or pest control services. A few political door-knockers. One was a guy asking if I would sell my 1977 Toyota Landcruiser parked in the driveway. Occasionally it's the Mormons. They're always really polite and I usually offer them a bottle of water. Once in a while it's a neighbor for one reason or another.

Why are you people afraid to answer the door? At worst you say, "sorry, not interested" and close the door.
Not afraid, but just like answering a phone call from a number you don't recognize, 99% of the time for me it's an annoying waste of time, so I don't bother.

I see this as slightly different. I never answer a phone call that isn’t in my contacts.
Same. But, the benefit is that with a call my assumption is that if it's somebody who really needs to speak with me, they can and will leave me a voicemail. I get a lot of prospective clients who are given my personal number by a friend so lots of those will leave voicemails and I'm incentivized to call them back. I really appreciate as well the relatively new feature where I can just read the transcript of the call and know within a second if the voicemail is worth listening to or deleting.

Unless you have a notepad posted on your friend door, this isn't really possible when an unknown person knocks on your door. So, yeah, I view it as different and as such provided the person looks reasonably harmless I will answer as opposed to just always not answering an unknown call.
 
I work from home so a break to have actual human interaction is often welcome.

Most of the time it's someone trying to sell either tree trimming, landscaping or pest control services. A few political door-knockers. One was a guy asking if I would sell my 1977 Toyota Landcruiser parked in the driveway. Occasionally it's the Mormons. They're always really polite and I usually offer them a bottle of water. Once in a while it's a neighbor for one reason or another.

Why are you people afraid to answer the door? At worst you say, "sorry, not interested" and close the door.
Not afraid, but just like answering a phone call from a number you don't recognize, 99% of the time for me it's an annoying waste of time, so I don't bother.

I see this as slightly different. I never answer a phone call that isn’t in my contacts.
Agreed it's slightly different. In my own experience, it's not different enough to treat differently. It's basically been the same path for me as it was from answering all calls to answering only calls I recognize.

Phone rings and you just answer -> phone rings and you look at the number/see if caller id tells you who it is, but likely answer anyway -> phone rings and you only answer if you recognize or if it's a local number -> not answering unless it's recognized or you're expecting a call, and sometimes you don't even answer anyway if the timing isn't great and you figure the person can leave a voicemail or send a text.

Doorbell rings and you just open the door -> doorbell rings and you look out the window to see what to expect, but likely answer anyway -> doorbell rings, you look out and are more selective over answering based on what you see -> not answering doorbell (may or may not even peek out the window) unless you're expecting a visit/package that might need signing/etc. And just about anyone knocking on my door that I'd end up wanting to answer also has my number, so would/could probably call or text as a first option anyway.

That transition happened because of the ratio of calls/knocks you'd get that were annoying wastes of time vs worth answering changed over time and you gradually learn your lesson. And when you go against your instincts and just answer, you almost always regret it afterwards. The main difference is the frequency of phone calls vs doorbells (and the fact that it's easier & less awkard to hang up vs close the door in someone's face) but the ratio is pretty similar.

I realize by "you" in everything above, I mean "I/me" and other people have different real life experiences, but it's almost completely the same situation in a practical sense for me.
 
I normally look out the window because my office is on the second story and I can see who is at the door.

Funny side note, my daughter answered the door once while waiting for a friend to come over and it was a salesman trying to see if we wanted new vinyl siding. From upstairs I heard her say "Are you serious, did you not look at our house when you walked up? The siding is brand new." Before I could even go downstairs to say thanks, but we weren't interested he was already at the end of the driveway.
 
The amount of soliciting we used to get made me this way. Before no problem, now not a chance. Signs have seemed to stop 90% of people now
 
also our delivery people always ring the doorbell and lean whatever we ordered up against our screen door so then we have to out the back and walk around becuase you cant open the door without tipping over whatever it was and hey it might be a leglamp from italy fragile or something like that take that to the bank bromigos
If it is, get ready to pay the $50 tariff.

No joke, we had the UPS guy at our house last night and he wanted the tariff paid for my wife's like ten dollar lawn ornament or something.
What? The delivery guy is trying to collect the tariff? I would think that's just tacked onto the price when buying
Yep. We thought the same thing. UPS guy said that UPS fronts it and we don't get the package without paying it.

Fortunately, I am married to a sane woman and she just declined to accept her package which, again, was some $10 item from China or something.
Out here, DHL fronts your customs/taxes and tacks on like 6,50eu for doing so
 
I voted yes but it’s really more like 60/40. It really depends on what I’m doing. Also sometimes I’ll peak or have seen who was going door to door and that influences me choice. If it’s someone sellljg something like estimates for a new roof or whatever I usually just cut them off and say I’m not interested and don’t want to waste their time. Once it was actually a really good deal for UVerse that was just being installed in the neighborhood and we got signed up, saved a boatload of money for a couple years. Another time it was a confused old woman whio was lost so we were able to help her, had the police come and get her back the senior home she wandered out from so I felt good about that since it was so late at night.
 
Hilarious thread. I didn't realize so many people just don't answer door when someone knocks. Yes, I answer my door when someone knocks. Takes me minute with my three dogs, but I will always answer. Maybe i won't anymore after reading responses. Ha ha
 

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