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Because they suck.Why do people not want kids at their wedding?
I love these threads.It's funny when the poster asks a question that he is certain will curry sympathy only to do exactly the opposite.
Bring your kids too. That'll learn 'em.I received an invitation to a black tie event at the White House. Thinking of saying 'to hell with them' and wearing shorts. How dare they tell me what to wear?
This. We offered child care at our wedding and reception, but I don't think anyone took us up on it. They were smart enough to leave the kids at home.This is common practice nowadays. I don't think it's anything personal as much as it is to make it an adult-only celebration.
We have a kid under 3 and have been to two weddings at the extremes of these: No kids at the reception, though the couple paid for babysitters to watch the children and a wedding like the one you were invited to. We took it as a night for mom and dad out where we could leave our son with grandma and have fun with friends and booze it up that night.
I would like some clarification on a couple things. You say that one of the families affected is yours, then you ask if you should take your grandson anyway. So you're picking a fight for your son/daughter? WTF gramps mind your business and let them decide what to do, they're grown ups now. And why is your SIL being a jerk? Is she in charge of her daughter's wedding? And what color do you you have to wear?!My niece is getting married. In her invitations, it is written "We ask that children under 12 do not attend." In my wife's immediate family, that rule only affects two families (one is mine). While it's not a personal exclusion to those two kids, it's hard not to consider it personal. One family has already RSVP'd with ZERO. So what do you think? Is this perfectly okay? Is my SIL being a jerk? Should I bring my grandson to the reception anyways?
Message?I understand people want to have the perfect wedding with no disruption. But I think it sends a bad message to start off a new family (getting married) by excluding others just because some little punk might be a nuissance. At some point, maybe they have kids and go through the same thing. That's a selfish thing for them to do but if I were you I'd still accomodate. Not a beach worth dying on (at least not yet).
It's not even his kid!I just can't wrap my head around why you would even WANT to bring a young child to a wedding. They won't have any fun and they could stop you from having fun in the process. Not a parent, so maybe I just don't get it, but isn't this pretty much the perfect occasion to ditch the kids for a night and have some adult time?
They also said something about not peeing in the sink. We'll see how that goes.Bring your kids too. That'll learn 'em.I received an invitation to a black tie event at the White House. Thinking of saying 'to hell with them' and wearing shorts. How dare they tell me what to wear?
I see people say this on this site. If you don't want to go, then don't go. If that's the way you feel, then it's pretty likely that nobody will care if you don't show up.Wow I would use this as a golden ticket to stay home with the kids. Or better yet get baby sitter and go out and have fun. If anyone asked why I wasn't there I would lie and say I couldn't find a sitter. I will say I am a bit of a jerk so maybe don't do what I would.
Kids have a blast at the reception. They like to get out on the dance floor and act goofy. That being said, personally I would find a sitter for my kids so I could get loaded and act goofy on the dance floor.I just can't wrap my head around why you would even WANT to bring a young child to a wedding. They won't have any fun and they could stop you from having fun in the process. Not a parent, so maybe I just don't get it, but isn't this pretty much the perfect occasion to ditch the kids for a night and have some adult time?
Nobody thinks this but a few folks in here who struggle with reading.Unless this is a very small wedding with immediate family only, I don't see how anyone could think only two families with kids are invited.
Especially with divorce rates now a days, why would anyone pay this much for a party? I know I am a cheapskate and different parts of the country cost different amounts, but WTF?shadyridr said:no im saying the place charges less per child. Catering hall i got married in charged $100 per adult and $50 per child.proninja said:Right, and if it's catered at a price per plate they still get charged for a full plateshadyridr said:kids are usually much cheaper cuz they get chicken fingers and cant drink alcoholNutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts. And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old? There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
One of my closest friends got married and the bride's parents spent in the neighborhood of $350k on the wedding. I was in the wedding party, and it was quite the affair. Nine months later, the bride was having an affair and they separated. Divorce was finalized shortly after the one year mark, I believe.Especially with divorce rates now a days, why would anyone pay this much for a party? I know I am a cheapskate and different parts of the country cost different amounts, but WTF?shadyridr said:no im saying the place charges less per child. Catering hall i got married in charged $100 per adult and $50 per child.proninja said:Right, and if it's catered at a price per plate they still get charged for a full plateshadyridr said:kids are usually much cheaper cuz they get chicken fingers and cant drink alcoholNutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts. And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old? There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
Ou to the muthaficng CHOne of my closest friends got married and the bride's parents spent in the neighborhood of $350k on the wedding. I was in the wedding party, and it was quite the affair. Nine months later, the bride was having an affair and they separated. Divorce was finalized shortly after the one year mark, I believe.Especially with divorce rates now a days, why would anyone pay this much for a party? I know I am a cheapskate and different parts of the country cost different amounts, but WTF?shadyridr said:no im saying the place charges less per child. Catering hall i got married in charged $100 per adult and $50 per child.proninja said:Right, and if it's catered at a price per plate they still get charged for a full plateshadyridr said:kids are usually much cheaper cuz they get chicken fingers and cant drink alcoholNutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts. And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old? There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
Edit: And it's not like the family was filthy rich. They were well off, sure, but I think the wedding tapped out much of their savings. This was their only daughter, and they gave her anything and everything she wanted.
Itemize the 350k for me as best you can.One of my closest friends got married and the bride's parents spent in the neighborhood of $350k on the wedding. I was in the wedding party, and it was quite the affair. Nine months later, the bride was having an affair and they separated. Divorce was finalized shortly after the one year mark, I believe.Especially with divorce rates now a days, why would anyone pay this much for a party? I know I am a cheapskate and different parts of the country cost different amounts, but WTF?shadyridr said:no im saying the place charges less per child. Catering hall i got married in charged $100 per adult and $50 per child.proninja said:Right, and if it's catered at a price per plate they still get charged for a full plateshadyridr said:kids are usually much cheaper cuz they get chicken fingers and cant drink alcoholNutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts. And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old? There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
Edit: And it's not like the family was filthy rich. They were well off, sure, but I think the wedding tapped out much of their savings. This was their only daughter, and they gave her anything and everything she wanted.
I paid for the beverages for my son's wedding three years ago at a fancy country club. I can't speak for the food but the cost for the drinks was $50 per person for every person, including children so imagine the food was the same. I thought it was ridiculous but there wasn't a whole lot I could do about it. I encouraged all of the kids in attendance to drink soda until they barfed.NutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts.
And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old?
There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
Total shot in the dark:Itemize the 350k for me as best you can.One of my closest friends got married and the bride's parents spent in the neighborhood of $350k on the wedding. I was in the wedding party, and it was quite the affair. Nine months later, the bride was having an affair and they separated. Divorce was finalized shortly after the one year mark, I believe.Especially with divorce rates now a days, why would anyone pay this much for a party? I know I am a cheapskate and different parts of the country cost different amounts, but WTF?shadyridr said:no im saying the place charges less per child. Catering hall i got married in charged $100 per adult and $50 per child.proninja said:Right, and if it's catered at a price per plate they still get charged for a full plateshadyridr said:kids are usually much cheaper cuz they get chicken fingers and cant drink alcoholNutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts. And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old? There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
Edit: And it's not like the family was filthy rich. They were well off, sure, but I think the wedding tapped out much of their savings. This was their only daughter, and they gave her anything and everything she wanted.
An attorney I know threw his daughter a wedding like this recently.Itemize the 350k for me as best you can.One of my closest friends got married and the bride's parents spent in the neighborhood of $350k on the wedding. I was in the wedding party, and it was quite the affair. Nine months later, the bride was having an affair and they separated. Divorce was finalized shortly after the one year mark, I believe.Especially with divorce rates now a days, why would anyone pay this much for a party? I know I am a cheapskate and different parts of the country cost different amounts, but WTF?shadyridr said:no im saying the place charges less per child. Catering hall i got married in charged $100 per adult and $50 per child.proninja said:Right, and if it's catered at a price per plate they still get charged for a full plateshadyridr said:kids are usually much cheaper cuz they get chicken fingers and cant drink alcoholNutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts. And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old? There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
Edit: And it's not like the family was filthy rich. They were well off, sure, but I think the wedding tapped out much of their savings. This was their only daughter, and they gave her anything and everything she wanted.
Stupid is as stupid does. I would have to be a billionaire to spend 350K on a wedding. That is beyond stupid.Total shot in the dark:Itemize the 350k for me as best you can.One of my closest friends got married and the bride's parents spent in the neighborhood of $350k on the wedding. I was in the wedding party, and it was quite the affair. Nine months later, the bride was having an affair and they separated. Divorce was finalized shortly after the one year mark, I believe.Especially with divorce rates now a days, why would anyone pay this much for a party? I know I am a cheapskate and different parts of the country cost different amounts, but WTF?shadyridr said:no im saying the place charges less per child. Catering hall i got married in charged $100 per adult and $50 per child.proninja said:Right, and if it's catered at a price per plate they still get charged for a full plateshadyridr said:kids are usually much cheaper cuz they get chicken fingers and cant drink alcoholNutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts. And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old? There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
Edit: And it's not like the family was filthy rich. They were well off, sure, but I think the wedding tapped out much of their savings. This was their only daughter, and they gave her anything and everything she wanted.
Catering and open bar: $87,500 (500 guests at $175 per)
Assembly of giant tent for the reception: $75,000
Flowers: $25,000
Entertainment: $20,000
Wedding dress: $20,000
Cigar bar: $5,000
Decorations and other rentals: $30,000
Other staff expense: $15,000
Tons of other crap: the balance
Good times.I have been to a million dollar wedding and two that cost in the mid six figures. The million dollar wedding was at the Bacara resort in Santa Monica and featured a 7 course meal that included two different wine pairings per course, two bands and a dj, and four different wedding cakes to go with an open bar and open wine cellar for 8 hours.
Sounds like my aunt and uncle. Their son had a ridiculously lavish wedding and the wife was broke so they paid for the whole thing. They weren't rich but the wedding had to be first class all of the way and spent way over their heads.One of my closest friends got married and the bride's parents spent in the neighborhood of $350k on the wedding. I was in the wedding party, and it was quite the affair. Nine months later, the bride was having an affair and they separated. Divorce was finalized shortly after the one year mark, I believe.
Edit: And it's not like the family was filthy rich. They were well off, sure, but I think the wedding tapped out much of their savings. This was their only daughter, and they gave her anything and everything she wanted.
;goodposting:Apple Jack said:Message?Pick said:I understand people want to have the perfect wedding with no disruption. But I think it sends a bad message to start off a new family (getting married) by excluding others just because some little punk might be a nuissance. At some point, maybe they have kids and go through the same thing. That's a selfish thing for them to do but if I were you I'd still accomodate. Not a beach worth dying on (at least not yet).
If you got the dough go for it. Spending your life savings in a day is beyond words dumb.I have been to a million dollar wedding and two that cost in the mid six figures. The million dollar wedding was at the Bacara resort in Santa Monica and featured a 7 course meal that included two different wine pairings per course, two bands and a dj, and four different wedding cakes to go with an open bar and open wine cellar for 8 hours.
That's actually a pretty awesome idea. Never thought of or heard of that.bentley said:This. We offered child care at our wedding and reception, but I don't think anyone took us up on it. They were smart enough to leave the kids at home.Jayded said:This is common practice nowadays. I don't think it's anything personal as much as it is to make it an adult-only celebration.
We have a kid under 3 and have been to two weddings at the extremes of these: No kids at the reception, though the couple paid for babysitters to watch the children and a wedding like the one you were invited to. We took it as a night for mom and dad out where we could leave our son with grandma and have fun with friends and booze it up that night.
Somebody get Dentist in here ASAP.Total shot in the dark: Catering and open bar: $87,500 (500 guests at $175 per)Assembly of giant tent for the reception: $75,000Flowers: $25,000Entertainment: $20,000Wedding dress: $20,000Cigar bar: $5,000Decorations and other rentals: $30,000Other staff expense: $15,000Tons of other crap: the balanceItemize the 350k for me as best you can.One of my closest friends got married and the bride's parents spent in the neighborhood of $350k on the wedding. I was in the wedding party, and it was quite the affair. Nine months later, the bride was having an affair and they separated. Divorce was finalized shortly after the one year mark, I believe. Edit: And it's not like the family was filthy rich. They were well off, sure, but I think the wedding tapped out much of their savings. This was their only daughter, and they gave her anything and everything she wanted.Especially with divorce rates now a days, why would anyone pay this much for a party? I know I am a cheapskate and different parts of the country cost different amounts, but WTF?shadyridr said:no im saying the place charges less per child. Catering hall i got married in charged $100 per adult and $50 per child.proninja said:Right, and if it's catered at a price per plate they still get charged for a full plateshadyridr said:kids are usually much cheaper cuz they get chicken fingers and cant drink alcoholNutterButter said:Cost? At over $100+/plate I wouldn't want them either.the moops said:Why do people not want kids at their wedding? I never really understood this. Families that bring kids don't stay around long anyway. They go to the ceremony, eat some food at the reception, and are mostly out of there before the good stuff starts. And why is a 12 year old OK, but not an 11 year old? There has got to be some dooshy 11 year old in your family or something?
Grandson? So you're not even talking about one of your children?The Dude said:My niece is getting married. In her invitations, it is written "We ask that children under 12 do not attend." In my wife's immediate family, that rule only affects two families (one is mine). While it's not a personal exclusion to those two kids, it's hard not to consider it personal. One family has already RSVP'd with ZERO. So what do you think? Is this perfectly okay? Is my SIL being a jerk? Should I bring my grandson to the reception anyways?