Congrats to everyone that had kids smarter and/or more dedicated than us slackers.
On the flip side I have a 20 year old living with us who also never got a "B" at University of Oregon. Got plenty of other letters, tho......
I know this isn't a contest, but believe me, buddy, I got you beat there. We're at our wits end. Just seems like such a hopeless situation. Feel like the worst parents in the world.
Well, I've talked about him in here a few times - a year ago at this time, I was maneuvering behind his back with his roommate to find another student to take over his very expensive lease down in Eugene. My son was just planning on living in Eugene without a well-paying job, without going to school and just coming home in Sept after failing out in spectacular fashion. It was very stressful and he didn't take it very well when I told him I found his replacement and that he was coming home in mid-June but it had to be done. I wasn't paying $900 a month for him to live down there after the stunt he pulled.
But to his credit, we hugged it out, told him he had a place to live - HIS HOME - as long as he needed, we don't need to re-litigate the past, let's just get to work, save some money and pay back the money owed to Oregon. And that's precisely what he's done. On X-mas even, he was promoted to manager, given a salary, benefits, 401K....a REAL job. He's paid back more than half of what he owes Oregon, got himself a 2020 Toyota Camry with financing, DJs on the side and has his smile back.
If he wants to continue his education - and I hope he does, but it's up to him - he'll have to do it through CC and over time, but that's okay. I think he'll be fine if he does or doesn't because he's proved to himself that if he works hard, puts his nose to the grindstone, does the right things, he'll be rewarded. Especially working for the company he's with now as they promote from within. Confidence needs a foundation and he built himself a firm one after messing the bed in college.