If you have done so so far, stay out of the Ham thread. His longer update just now is the worst thing I've ever read.
Every update he posts with details runs my head through the Rolodex of clients I've had with deceased children suing just to get some kind of peace. I really wish I were a better human being in the moments, but it makes me so angry I just want blood for his family's sake.
I believe I just felt a twinge of empathy for lawyers. It was fleeting so I can't be sure.
I couldn't eat dinner tonight thinking about Chad and his family.
My daily routine is to leave for work around dawn. I have a nanny/cook who arrives at 6 to cook Chloe breakfast - invariably, pancakes - and I cut out around 4 or 5 to pick up my daughter from Afterschool. Left early today. Her teacher was there organizing - I rarely see her since I don't do drop off and dismissal is a few hours before I normally pick up - so I took pictures of her and my daughter. Pretty terrific K teacher, really lucky. Instead of heading straight home I let her play in the sprinklers in the park for 90 minutes. Threw off the nightly routine but I didn't care. She got to bed later than normal. Instead of me reading, she wanted to read aloud (she's moved up several levels and she's pretty proud she can read beyond sight words now). Such a sweet girl.
Called my 15 y.o. son and talked WC for 45 minutes.
Then I cried. A lot.