Married/engaged guys> how much input did your ladyfriend have on her ring?
(and yes, Tanner, I know the whole ring thing is an atrocity that the diamond industry has thrust upon us)
I think the guy should always have an idea on what the girl likes in a ring. Some girls might like a plain, princess cut solitaire (which looks the best, imo) but other girls like all the little diamonds along side a slightly bigger, middle diamond, for example.It's an expensive purchase. The girl should be happy with what she's getting.
I wholeheartedly agree with your last point, but I'm finding it a little difficult due to my involvement in this process. I want him to do it mostly on his own, as does he. However, we have very different tastes in most everything so a while back he asked me to pick out a couple of settings, etc. that I liked.I cooled my heels on it for a while but yesterday we went looking together. I liked two settings/looks and I know he'll pick the one he likes better.
At this point, I want to leave it in his hands completely, but there's a teeny, tiny part of me that wants to see it through since
it's what I'll be wearing forever.
And BTW, this is the part where I am really shallow and hate myself for it, so flame away.