Next month is 10 years since I last had to wear a tux, but as luck would have it I need to wear one again. I have a charity dinner for work and the dress is "black tie", so I know that means a tux, but does it matter if I wear a bow tie or the regular style black? I really want to avoid a bow tie if I can.
Yes, it matters.
A little more help GB?
yes, you should always wear a bow tie with a dinner jacket/tuxedo. Should be a black bow tie.Not sure what other help to offer?
Wiki explains it very well:
Unlike white tie, which is very strictly regulated, black-tie ensembles can display more variation. In brief, the traditional components are:
A jacket with ribbed silk facings (usually grosgrain) on a shawl collar or peaked lapel (while a notched lapel is a popular modern choice, it is traditionally considered less formal)[8]
Trousers with a single silk or satin braid covering the outer seams
A black cummerbund or a low-cut waistcoat
A white dress shirt (a marcella front is traditional, but other styles are also accepted) with shirt studs (never buttons), French cuffs and cufflinks, and a turn-down or detachable wing collar (the latter now more commonly worn for white tie, but generally considered acceptable for black tie as well)[9]
A black ribbed silk bow tie matching the lapel facings
Shirt studs (optional, depending on the type of shirt) and cufflinks
Black dress socks, usually of silk or fine wool
Black shoes—highly polished or patent leather Oxfords, or patent leather court shoes
Personally I would pass on the cummerbund, and not a fan of shirt studs.