I can understand someone who is not a bigot being opposed to gay marriage. Even though I disagree, I give most people the benefit of the doubt on that one- there ARE other reasons to be against gay marriage other than a dislike of homosexuals, and I have argued that point many times in this forum.
But this is a different matter. If you are against Michael Sam because he came out, if you don't want him to succeed, then I can only conclude you are bigoted against gay people. What other reason could there possibly be? Now I'm sure that many, like Rambling Wreck, will simply claim indifference. I have trouble believing that anyone who cares enough to read this discussion is truly indifferent, but I'll grant its a possible reaction. Not probable though. I would guess that at least some of those who claim indifference are attempting to hide their true reaction. Indifference is, of course, the ultimate goal for those of us who would like to see gays achieve equality in this country. But not indifference over the first guy ever to come out who is about to play in the NFL. That would be absurd.