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My life with ADHD (1 Viewer)

I tried Adderall once, on a friend's recommendation, when I told him I had a crapload of work to do and couldn't seem to get over the hump. Within a half hour of taking the pill, I was nowhere near the stack of work and couldn't focus one bit. It was worse. Pretty much blew off everything I had to do and went out for beers. I'm amazed how people actually improve focus on that stuff.
The doctors we talked to all said adhd drugs work the opposite on people that don't have it. Congrats!
A little misnomer there. Stimulants in general improve focus as it is speeding things up. College students "fake" ADHD for the temporary "focus." Now with all things medication wise-drug wise there is a wide spectrum of impact. In JB's case it appears to have sped up to point where no longer able to maintain impulse control. Some folks who have ADHD get tired and slowed down with caffiene but it is not all.

 
when did you ####ers change it from add to adhd?

that kind of pisses me off.
That is a matter of the Psychiatric Association and what they decide to call the set of symptoms. ADD in DSM became ADHD inattentive type. Research now shows that there is not much of real inattentive subtype, just presentation of symptoms. The one real subset would be Sluggish Cogntivite Tempo which is being research but is not included in the new DSM 5 Criterion.

 
I'm pretty sure I'm about to join the ADHD ranks. Trying to pick out a shrink now to see me. My dad and bro both have it, but I always thought I couldn't as I can hyperfocus. Turns out thats a symptom of it and I never knew it. I've done a fair amount of looking into it the past week and I'm pretty sure I have it.

One question for the OP: How much did the Adderall change you / how you operate / etc? Trying to determine if I want to be on a pill for the rest of my life or not.

PS: GB my poor wife, I had no idea so much of our problems were stemming from this until I started looking at stuff on ADHD in marriages. I'm a bit of a nightmare I guess.
Missed this post.

So my question to you is, is the noise in your head lots of stuff happening at same time (ADHD type) or is shifting to one thing to another rapidly (anxious, quick processing brain).

 
Bob - have the meds helped with your sense of time? What tricks have you tried to help you? I have yet to try medication but the only trick that has even slightly worked is having an alarm beep at me every 5 minutes.
Meds haven't really helped with sense of time. I use my iPhone for an audible reminder of To Dos. But the problem is that I start to overlook them because they're the same reminders day after day.Also, I stopped taking Adderall XR Sept 20 to see if there would be a difference. And there wasn't. I didn't tell my wife until a week later, because I didn't want her to be aware of me stopping, and she didn't notice a difference either. So, I informed my psychiatrist, and he said I should consider starting Concerta. Anyone else have experience with Concerta?
.Concerta is usually considered not as intensive drug as the other stimulants. i work with a lot of people who take a lot of meds, and i can't remember hearing a bad experience with concerta. give it a try. one reason why they prescribe these meds so frequently is because a lot of the ADHD meds go in and go right out of your body. so if you don't like the med it us easy to go past it.and that does say something that neither you nor your wife noticed a difference with and without the meds. i have a ton of "tells" thateverybody i have lived with can usually tell if I am on meds or not (e.g. one of the funniest i never realized until an old roommate told me about it is whenever i am off my ADHD med I literally run up and down the stairs. When i am on it i am more normal and walk, but when i a off this particular roommate said it was a guarantee i would run up and down the stairs. pretty funny stuff i think).good luck
actually concerta is a straight up stimulant with a time delay release formulation that makes it near impossible to abuse. There is way to abuse it though. But it is a straight up amphetamine.

 
I'm pretty sure I'm about to join the ADHD ranks. Trying to pick out a shrink now to see me. My dad and bro both have it, but I always thought I couldn't as I can hyperfocus. Turns out thats a symptom of it and I never knew it. I've done a fair amount of looking into it the past week and I'm pretty sure I have it. One question for the OP: How much did the Adderall change you / how you operate / etc? Trying to determine if I want to be on a pill for the rest of my life or not. PS: GB my poor wife, I had no idea so much of our problems were stemming from this until I started looking at stuff on ADHD in marriages. I'm a bit of a nightmare I guess.
Missed this post.So my question to you is, is the noise in your head lots of stuff happening at same time (ADHD type) or is shifting to one thing to another rapidly (anxious, quick processing brain).
I guess the answer is it depends. On work tasks I can shift, but in conversations lots of things come into and out of my conscious thoughts frequently. I also have terrible memory and a few other symptoms.
 
I'm pretty sure I'm about to join the ADHD ranks. Trying to pick out a shrink now to see me. My dad and bro both have it, but I always thought I couldn't as I can hyperfocus. Turns out thats a symptom of it and I never knew it. I've done a fair amount of looking into it the past week and I'm pretty sure I have it. One question for the OP: How much did the Adderall change you / how you operate / etc? Trying to determine if I want to be on a pill for the rest of my life or not. PS: GB my poor wife, I had no idea so much of our problems were stemming from this until I started looking at stuff on ADHD in marriages. I'm a bit of a nightmare I guess.
Missed this post.So my question to you is, is the noise in your head lots of stuff happening at same time (ADHD type) or is shifting to one thing to another rapidly (anxious, quick processing brain).
I guess the answer is it depends. On work tasks I can shift, but in conversations lots of things come into and out of my conscious thoughts frequently. I also have terrible memory and a few other symptoms.
Okay, but is what you experience in your head happening at the same time, like looking at 10 pictures at the same time, or do things move quickly in your mind, like shuffling through a pile of pictures really quick.

 
also please note, ethically my comments are for educational purposes and would point folks in a direction whether worthwhile to seek help or not.

Anyone who wants to bounce off ADHD questions can certainly PM me...

 
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I'm pretty sure I'm about to join the ADHD ranks. Trying to pick out a shrink now to see me. My dad and bro both have it, but I always thought I couldn't as I can hyperfocus. Turns out thats a symptom of it and I never knew it. I've done a fair amount of looking into it the past week and I'm pretty sure I have it. One question for the OP: How much did the Adderall change you / how you operate / etc? Trying to determine if I want to be on a pill for the rest of my life or not. PS: GB my poor wife, I had no idea so much of our problems were stemming from this until I started looking at stuff on ADHD in marriages. I'm a bit of a nightmare I guess.
Missed this post.So my question to you is, is the noise in your head lots of stuff happening at same time (ADHD type) or is shifting to one thing to another rapidly (anxious, quick processing brain).
I guess the answer is it depends. On work tasks I can shift, but in conversations lots of things come into and out of my conscious thoughts frequently. I also have terrible memory and a few other symptoms.
Okay, but is what you experience in your head happening at the same time, like looking at 10 pictures at the same time, or do things move quickly in your mind, like shuffling through a pile of pictures really quick.
It happens at the same time in conversations. But I can only hold so many thoughts at once, and one inevitibly drives the other out. Like I was describing above in conversation with my wife. I know I can't keep concentrating on whatever she is saying without losing the thought I have in my mind.

 
I'm pretty sure I'm about to join the ADHD ranks. Trying to pick out a shrink now to see me. My dad and bro both have it, but I always thought I couldn't as I can hyperfocus. Turns out thats a symptom of it and I never knew it. I've done a fair amount of looking into it the past week and I'm pretty sure I have it. One question for the OP: How much did the Adderall change you / how you operate / etc? Trying to determine if I want to be on a pill for the rest of my life or not. PS: GB my poor wife, I had no idea so much of our problems were stemming from this until I started looking at stuff on ADHD in marriages. I'm a bit of a nightmare I guess.
Missed this post.So my question to you is, is the noise in your head lots of stuff happening at same time (ADHD type) or is shifting to one thing to another rapidly (anxious, quick processing brain).
I guess the answer is it depends. On work tasks I can shift, but in conversations lots of things come into and out of my conscious thoughts frequently. I also have terrible memory and a few other symptoms.
Okay, but is what you experience in your head happening at the same time, like looking at 10 pictures at the same time, or do things move quickly in your mind, like shuffling through a pile of pictures really quick.
It happens at the same time in conversations. But I can only hold so many thoughts at once, and one inevitibly drives the other out. Like I was describing above in conversation with my wife. I know I can't keep concentrating on whatever she is saying without losing the thought I have in my mind.
certainly sounds like there might be some mild issues... worth testing but your other strengths compensate. With your family history likely but the quick processing and other strengths (3 standard deviations IQ) make the impact minimal perhaps.

 
Whoda Sinkitis said:
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Whoda Sinkitis said:
(HULK) said:
Whoda Sinkitis said:
I'm pretty sure I'm about to join the ADHD ranks. Trying to pick out a shrink now to see me. My dad and bro both have it, but I always thought I couldn't as I can hyperfocus. Turns out thats a symptom of it and I never knew it. I've done a fair amount of looking into it the past week and I'm pretty sure I have it. One question for the OP: How much did the Adderall change you / how you operate / etc? Trying to determine if I want to be on a pill for the rest of my life or not. PS: GB my poor wife, I had no idea so much of our problems were stemming from this until I started looking at stuff on ADHD in marriages. I'm a bit of a nightmare I guess.
Missed this post.So my question to you is, is the noise in your head lots of stuff happening at same time (ADHD type) or is shifting to one thing to another rapidly (anxious, quick processing brain).
I guess the answer is it depends. On work tasks I can shift, but in conversations lots of things come into and out of my conscious thoughts frequently. I also have terrible memory and a few other symptoms.
Okay, but is what you experience in your head happening at the same time, like looking at 10 pictures at the same time, or do things move quickly in your mind, like shuffling through a pile of pictures really quick.
It happens at the same time in conversations. But I can only hold so many thoughts at once, and one inevitibly drives the other out. Like I was describing above in conversation with my wife. I know I can't keep concentrating on whatever she is saying without losing the thought I have in my mind.
certainly sounds like there might be some mild issues... worth testing but your other strengths compensate. With your family history likely but the quick processing and other strengths (3 standard deviations IQ) make the impact minimal perhaps.
I managed to get through school fine. Undergrad was the only time I had issues (had a 2.6), but I managed a 3.6 during my MBA from U of Maryland. In HS I had a 4.3 GPA. I think a lot of that was the structure my parents built to ensure I did my schoolwork... that was gone in undergrad and I procrastinated everything to the point it was harmful. For my MBA, because I had 2 small kids, I set up a very specific schedule to keep school work from colliding with home life as much as possible, and I think that ended up compensating for other issues a lot.

At work, I often have problems remembering mundane details. I switched to my current job about a year ago, and we source our data from a ton of various sources (I'm on the Joint Staff for the Capital Medical Region), and I get lost sometimes when trying to remember what comes from where. My Outlook calendar is literally my savior, I couldn't function without it. I put a ton in there, to remind me of what I need to do and when.

I've never built the skills/cheats/hints for myself at home though. I've been married 5 years and this has been causing issue after issue. My thought is, if I do indeed have ADHD, I need to get on meds and then take some time with cognitive behavioral therapy to develop the work arounds at home like I have elsewhere. And then maybe drop the meds, if possible.

 
Whoda Sinkitis said:
(HULK) said:
Whoda Sinkitis said:
(HULK) said:
Whoda Sinkitis said:
I'm pretty sure I'm about to join the ADHD ranks. Trying to pick out a shrink now to see me. My dad and bro both have it, but I always thought I couldn't as I can hyperfocus. Turns out thats a symptom of it and I never knew it. I've done a fair amount of looking into it the past week and I'm pretty sure I have it. One question for the OP: How much did the Adderall change you / how you operate / etc? Trying to determine if I want to be on a pill for the rest of my life or not. PS: GB my poor wife, I had no idea so much of our problems were stemming from this until I started looking at stuff on ADHD in marriages. I'm a bit of a nightmare I guess.
Missed this post.So my question to you is, is the noise in your head lots of stuff happening at same time (ADHD type) or is shifting to one thing to another rapidly (anxious, quick processing brain).
I guess the answer is it depends. On work tasks I can shift, but in conversations lots of things come into and out of my conscious thoughts frequently. I also have terrible memory and a few other symptoms.
Okay, but is what you experience in your head happening at the same time, like looking at 10 pictures at the same time, or do things move quickly in your mind, like shuffling through a pile of pictures really quick.
It happens at the same time in conversations. But I can only hold so many thoughts at once, and one inevitibly drives the other out. Like I was describing above in conversation with my wife. I know I can't keep concentrating on whatever she is saying without losing the thought I have in my mind.
certainly sounds like there might be some mild issues... worth testing but your other strengths compensate. With your family history likely but the quick processing and other strengths (3 standard deviations IQ) make the impact minimal perhaps.
I managed to get through school fine. Undergrad was the only time I had issues (had a 2.6), but I managed a 3.6 during my MBA from U of Maryland. In HS I had a 4.3 GPA. I think a lot of that was the structure my parents built to ensure I did my schoolwork... that was gone in undergrad and I procrastinated everything to the point it was harmful. For my MBA, because I had 2 small kids, I set up a very specific schedule to keep school work from colliding with home life as much as possible, and I think that ended up compensating for other issues a lot.

At work, I often have problems remembering mundane details. I switched to my current job about a year ago, and we source our data from a ton of various sources (I'm on the Joint Staff for the Capital Medical Region), and I get lost sometimes when trying to remember what comes from where. My Outlook calendar is literally my savior, I couldn't function without it. I put a ton in there, to remind me of what I need to do and when.

I've never built the skills/cheats/hints for myself at home though. I've been married 5 years and this has been causing issue after issue. My thought is, if I do indeed have ADHD, I need to get on meds and then take some time with cognitive behavioral therapy to develop the work arounds at home like I have elsewhere. And then maybe drop the meds, if possible.
Yup, worth your while to get things sorted furher as that all does sound consistent. (Now don't go around telling folks that some mental health professional, pyschologist dude on internet said sounds like I got it).

Here is something that I find interesting and reminds me of the ADHD brain. I know a guy who worked as a "monitor/analyst" in Germany that listened to Russian stuff for the Govt. He would listen to lots of stuff. At some point he had to listen focused to one thing in one ear and then monitor other stuff in other ear. However, only could give one thing focused attention. This stick with me when I think of ADHD...

 
Update:

Diagnosed with ADHD- Inattentive Subtype.

Doc prescribed Strattera since I want to improve my home self and not just work/school. Been on it 5 days so far.

Anyone have any experience with Strattera.

 
Update:

Diagnosed with ADHD- Inattentive Subtype.

Doc prescribed Strattera since I want to improve my home self and not just work/school. Been on it 5 days so far.

Anyone have any experience with Strattera.
Didn't work for me. But each drug works different for different people. I take Ritalin LA 40mg and it's been doing the trick for a while. I was diagnosed a little over 10 years ago. My life has changed for the better in so many ways since starting the medication. Good luck!

 
In Feb/March 2012, I was diagnosed with Adult ADHD. I was prescribed Adderall XR (started at 5 mg, now at 15 mg). I am married with 3 kids, and my ADHD is seriously affecting my marriage in a negative way.

I don't want to get into the minutiae of my issues just yet. But I am interested to hear how others have successfully managed their ADHD.

I have troubles with time management, conflict resolution, follow-through, and focus. Also, I don't mean to be self-centered, but I tend to consider myself before others. Even if it's something that I am already doing for someone else, I subconsciously think about how it's affecting me (i.e. when changing my daughter's diaper, I think "why do I always have to change it? my wife should be doing it too"). Some instances I am right, most I'm wrong, but in every instance, my first thought is me. Even if it's for half a second, it's still me.

I've read Orlov and Hallowell's The ADHD Effect on Marriage, attended classes thru Kaiser on ADHD, read a ton of other literature on the subject, but I just can't seem to put it all together.

Any help/suggestions is/are greatly appreciated.
no sarcasm here. is that ADHD defined? crap, i think i have it too. im self centered as can be. i think thats human nature. we want what we want when we want it. and we want it how we want it. thats how daddy likes it.

the one saving grace i have is in real i am very shy, almost to nervousness. especially in crowds or around people i dont know. maybe that helps me keep my ADHD in check.

 
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Have you ever thought that being different is not necessarily a bad thing? This "condition" allows you to function differently than other people and probably means you are above average intelligence with a lot of other "good" traits as well. You may not deal with people as well as others around you may like but who cares?? Embrace yourself and your differences. Discuss them openly with your wife and you will see that this does not need to be treated as a negative condition. There are both positive and negative attributes associated with ADHD that make you who you are. Drugging yourself to be more socially acceptable seems :confused: to me.
I don't think it's a matter of being more socially acceptable. I have no doubt that my ability to pick things up quickly and be a bit of a polymath are probably the flip side of the coin. The fact remains that there are very few jobs that really compensate you very well for the ability to engage with something pretty well for 20 minutes at a time. There are times when I need to write a 30 page brief. And I do that better when I'm treated. Maybe I'm better suited to the controlled chaos of trial work, but the better paying jobs don't let you start out trying cases.
Are you my twin?

 
Just got diagnosed with 'ADD induced depression' according to the psychiatrist I met with.

Only been two days and can't say anything bad about Adderall. Less irritable, easier to get things done, more sociable with people, don't even mind jonmx posts.

Taking 10mg but might need to make that 20 since it starts to wear off about 2pm or so.

 
I managed to get through school fine. Undergrad was the only time I had issues (had a 2.6), but I managed a 3.6 during my MBA from U of Maryland. In HS I had a 4.3 GPA. I think a lot of that was the structure my parents built to ensure I did my schoolwork... that was gone in undergrad and I procrastinated everything to the point it was harmful. For my MBA, because I had 2 small kids, I set up a very specific schedule to keep school work from colliding with home life as much as possible, and I think that ended up compensating for other issues a lot.

At work, I often have problems remembering mundane details. I switched to my current job about a year ago, and we source our data from a ton of various sources (I'm on the Joint Staff for the Capital Medical Region), and I get lost sometimes when trying to remember what comes from where. My Outlook calendar is literally my savior, I couldn't function without it. I put a ton in there, to remind me of what I need to do and when.

I've never built the skills/cheats/hints for myself at home though. I've been married 5 years and this has been causing issue after issue. My thought is, if I do indeed have ADHD, I need to get on meds and then take some time with cognitive behavioral therapy to develop the work arounds at home like I have elsewhere. And then maybe drop the meds, if possible.
Other than having the family structure to help in high school, that's me. Never realized I had a real problem since I always found a way to get things done. Did well in college after I started using ephedra to work out. It never clicked in my head that ephedra is like OTC Adderall and that I was self-medicating. Funny how all things went downhill after ephedra was banned in 2004.

 
Just got diagnosed with 'ADD induced depression' according to the psychiatrist I met with.

Only been two days and can't say anything bad about Adderall. Less irritable, easier to get things done, more sociable with people, don't even mind jonmx posts.

Taking 10mg but might need to make that 20 since it starts to wear off about 2pm or so.
Sounds like I may need to step things up a bit. Or maybe just do more posting after 2.

 
I have lived with ADD (not physically hyper) for my whole life w/o meds mostly. I took meds in college. I tried every kind they offered. The meds changed my personality, and I also lost my creativity, so I stopped after a year or so.

I do well with it now but trying to keep a routine in my daily life is key. I wake up and do the same exact things in order every morning. I wind down the end if the day after dinner the same way. I'm a bit like Sheldon ("Saturday is laundry night") but its worth it for piece of mind. Weekends are tough for me because its almost impossible to find a routine as a coach with children.

This way is better then meds for me. Good luck.

 
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You guys should look into Straterra. It's the only non stimulant treatment out there. I've been on it a year and find it helpful.

ETA: It works 24/7.

 
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cstu said:
Just got diagnosed with 'ADD induced depression' according to the psychiatrist I met with.

Only been two days and can't say anything bad about Adderall. Less irritable, easier to get things done, more sociable with people, don't even mind jonmx posts.

Taking 10mg but might need to make that 20 since it starts to wear off about 2pm or so.
there's an XR version (extended release) that is supposed to last longer in the day. Ask your Doc.

 
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I have lived with ADD (not physically hyper) for my whole life w/o meds mostly. I took meds in college. I tried every kind they offered. The meds changed my personality, and I also lost my creativity, so I stopped after a year or so.

I do well with it now but trying to keep a routine in my daily life is key. I wake up and do the same exact things in order every morning. I wind down the end if the day after dinner the same way. I'm a bit like Sheldon ("Saturday is laundry night") but its worth it for piece of mind. Weekends are tough for me because its almost impossible to find a routine as a coach with children.

This way is better then meds for me. Good luck.
You sound super fun.

 
PIK95 said:
I have lived with ADD (not physically hyper) for my whole life w/o meds mostly. I took meds in college. I tried every kind they offered. The meds changed my personality, and I also lost my creativity, so I stopped after a year or so.

I do well with it now but trying to keep a routine in my daily life is key. I wake up and do the same exact things in order every morning. I wind down the end if the day after dinner the same way. I'm a bit like Sheldon ("Saturday is laundry night") but its worth it for piece of mind. Weekends are tough for me because its almost impossible to find a routine as a coach with children.

This way is better then meds for me. Good luck.
You sound super fun.
What kinda ####### makes comments like this about a fellow FBG sharing his struggles with his mental health?

Pretty classless , Richard.

 
In Feb/March 2012, I was diagnosed with Adult ADHD. I was prescribed Adderall XR (started at 5 mg, now at 15 mg). I am married with 3 kids, and my ADHD is seriously affecting my marriage in a negative way.

I don't want to get into the minutiae of my issues just yet. But I am interested to hear how others have successfully managed their ADHD.

I have troubles with time management, conflict resolution, follow-through, and focus. Also, I don't mean to be self-centered, but I tend to consider myself before others. Even if it's something that I am already doing for someone else, I subconsciously think about how it's affecting me (i.e. when changing my daughter's diaper, I think "why do I always have to change it? my wife should be doing it too"). Some instances I am right, most I'm wrong, but in every instance, my first thought is me. Even if it's for half a second, it's still me.

I've read Orlov and Hallowell's The ADHD Effect on Marriage, attended classes thru Kaiser on ADHD, read a ton of other literature on the subject, but I just can't seem to put it all together.

Any help/suggestions is/are greatly appreciated.
Start hiding money.

You sound like a normal guy to me that has been convinced he has ADHD by his wife.

My advice is to stop taking Adderall before you have a premature heart attack.

 
Just got diagnosed with 'ADD induced depression' according to the psychiatrist I met with.

Only been two days and can't say anything bad about Adderall. Less irritable, easier to get things done, more sociable with people, don't even mind jonmx posts.

Taking 10mg but might need to make that 20 since it starts to wear off about 2pm or so.
By no means would I recommend doubling your current dose. That sounds extremely irresponsible & dangerous. What you should be doing is sticking with the recommended does, but crushing them up and snorting them so they hit you harder & faster.

 
Just got diagnosed with 'ADD induced depression' according to the psychiatrist I met with.

Only been two days and can't say anything bad about Adderall. Less irritable, easier to get things done, more sociable with people, don't even mind jonmx posts.

Taking 10mg but might need to make that 20 since it starts to wear off about 2pm or so.
By no means would I recommend doubling your current dose. That sounds extremely irresponsible & dangerous. What you should be doing is sticking with the recommended does, but crushing them up and snorting them so they hit you harder & faster.
:lol:

Taking two a day was recommended to me by the doctor.

Went today and she switched me to Focalin (5mg 2x day) after I told her I didn't like the side effects. Also gave me 5 Vysanse to try.

 
I have lived with ADD (not physically hyper) for my whole life w/o meds mostly. I took meds in college. I tried every kind they offered. The meds changed my personality, and I also lost my creativity, so I stopped after a year or so.

I do well with it now but trying to keep a routine in my daily life is key. I wake up and do the same exact things in order every morning. I wind down the end if the day after dinner the same way. I'm a bit like Sheldon ("Saturday is laundry night") but its worth it for piece of mind. Weekends are tough for me because its almost impossible to find a routine as a coach with children.

This way is better then meds for me. Good luck.
You sound super fun.
What kinda ####### makes comments like this about a fellow FBG sharing his struggles with his mental health? Pretty classless , Richard.
In his defense I deserved it. At least if he actually thought I do laundry on Saturday nights which I don't. This storm has my routine all messed up BTW and I probably won't sleep much tonight.
 
I forgot to take my meds today. I have so much work to get done and I can't seem to concentrate. I'll post here then think, "What was I doing?" Then I post here some more.

 
I have lived with ADD (not physically hyper) for my whole life w/o meds mostly. I took meds in college. I tried every kind they offered. The meds changed my personality, and I also lost my creativity, so I stopped after a year or so.

I do well with it now but trying to keep a routine in my daily life is key. I wake up and do the same exact things in order every morning. I wind down the end if the day after dinner the same way. I'm a bit like Sheldon ("Saturday is laundry night") but its worth it for piece of mind. Weekends are tough for me because its almost impossible to find a routine as a coach with children.

This way is better then meds for me. Good luck.
You sound super fun.
What kinda ####### makes comments like this about a fellow FBG sharing his struggles with his mental health?Pretty classless , Richard.
In his defense I deserved it. At least if he actually thought I do laundry on Saturday nights which I don't. This storm has my routine all messed up BTW and I probably won't sleep much tonight.
Just saw this. Glad you took it as intended PIK. My son struggles with ADHD pretty badly and he is 18. Having a tough time with school though we hope he graduates. Not sure about what's next school-wise, he really hates school at this point.

 
I only have A D D ....no hyperactivity ...i cant focus and forget everything...while it sux sometimes its also nice because i dont stay angry about things because i forget what i was angry about lol....so i tend to let a lot of things slide when others might not

 
Couple of noob questions....

I'm positive I have some form of ADD or ADHD or HHDDRVDVD but even if I get tested, what's the solution, get on pills for life?

Everyone has symptoms of one or another, how do I know if I really should get tested?

Who performs said tests?

Would I get stigmatized or get "lunatic ADDHDD guy" put on my "permanent record"?

 
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In some states, it could be grounds for denying gun ownership. (not trying to turn this into another gun argument thread)

 
Couple of noob questions....

I'm positive I have some form of ADD or ADHD or HHDDRVDVD but even if I get tested, what's the solution, get on pills for life?

Everyone has symptoms of one or another, how do I know if I really should get tested?

Who performs said tests?

Would I get stigmatized or get "lunatic ADDHDD guy" put on my "permanent record"?
No comment on testing, but just wanted to say I knew a woman in undergrad who had an acute case. She was on daily prescription, and only took morning classes because she could only be in class or study during the window when her drugs kicked in and she could concentrate.

She was the valedictorian of our University, and went on to law school. She has a GS-15 job, and barely paused to have/raise twins along the way.

Bottom line is if it helps you achieve peak proficiency, WGAF about what being "stigmatized"? I'm not even sure what that is supposed to mean, but its not like employer's are not open minded about people who are proactively address a genuine issue through medication.

 
Couple of noob questions....

I'm positive I have some form of ADD or ADHD or HHDDRVDVD but even if I get tested, what's the solution, get on pills for life?

Everyone has symptoms of one or another, how do I know if I really should get tested?

Who performs said tests?

Would I get stigmatized or get "lunatic ADDHDD guy" put on my "permanent record"?
No comment on testing, but just wanted to say I knew a woman in undergrad who had an acute case. She was on daily prescription, and only took morning classes because she could only be in class or study during the window when her drugs kicked in and she could concentrate.

She was the valedictorian of our University, and went on to law school. She has a GS-15 job, and barely paused to have/raise twins along the way.

Bottom line is if it helps you achieve peak proficiency, WGAF about what being "stigmatized"? I'm not even sure what that is supposed to mean, but its not like employer's are not open minded about people who are proactively address a genuine issue through medication.
:goodposting: unless you're trying to work for scientologists.

my brother and I both went through "are we/aren't we ADD"... there's a test on the internet somewhere that has like 14 questions- answer enough of them Yes, you probably are. at that point we both (we did this around the same time, not knowing the other was doing it) went to see a psychologist/psychiatrist to get evaluated. if you are, from there, they send you to somebody else (unless they're a licensed MD, or can prescribe the drugs) to determine the best course of drugs and issue a presription. There's a back and forth with that person to get the dosage and drug just right, and wala. crazy pills that will make the world turn against you.

eta: I should add that my brother and I are both what outwardly would seem like the least likely to be add... but there's a type that produces hyper/myopic focus that makes it difficult to focus or produce on other things. I was on the edge of warranting a prescription- tried adderall and something else, but both had the opposite affect: made me hyper/caffeinated. so I go without and just do my best to figure out work-arounds when I feel the state taking over.

 
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Took an online quiz:

Results of Your Adult

Attention Deficit Disorder Quiz

You scored a total of 47

Inattention Subscale: 23

Hyperactivity/Impulsivity Subscale: 24

Based upon your responses to this adult ADD/ADHD screening quiz, you have replied in a way similar to people who have symptoms of moderate to severe attention deficit disorder. People who have answered similarly to you typically qualify for a diagnosis of ADHD or ADD, and have sought professional treatment for this mental health concern.

If you were diagnosed with ADHD, it would likely be of the Combined presentation, as you indicated significant symptoms of inattention and hyperactivity/impulsivity.

You indicated that several of the symptoms were present before age 12.

You indicated that the symptoms occur in two or more settings.

For ADD or ADHD to be diagnosed by a mental health professional, usually the symptoms must occur in at least two different settings (like school and home, or work and home), and they must have lasted at least 6 months. Symptoms typically worsen in situations that require sustained attention or mental effort, or that are boring.

You should not take this as a diagnosis of any sort, or a recommendation for treatment. However, it may be likely beneficial for you to seek further clarification about a possible diagnosis of ADHD or ADD from a physician or a trained mental health professional soon.
 
Took an online quiz:

Results of Your Adult

Attention Deficit Disorder Quiz

You scored a total of 47

Inattention Subscale: 23

Hyperactivity/Impulsivity Subscale: 24

Based upon your responses to this adult ADD/ADHD screening quiz, you have replied in a way similar to people who have symptoms of moderate to severe attention deficit disorder. People who have answered similarly to you typically qualify for a diagnosis of ADHD or ADD, and have sought professional treatment for this mental health concern.

If you were diagnosed with ADHD, it would likely be of the Combined presentation, as you indicated significant symptoms of inattention and hyperactivity/impulsivity.

You indicated that several of the symptoms were present before age 12.

You indicated that the symptoms occur in two or more settings.

For ADD or ADHD to be diagnosed by a mental health professional, usually the symptoms must occur in at least two different settings (like school and home, or work and home), and they must have lasted at least 6 months. Symptoms typically worsen in situations that require sustained attention or mental effort, or that are boring.

You should not take this as a diagnosis of any sort, or a recommendation for treatment. However, it may be likely beneficial for you to seek further clarification about a possible diagnosis of ADHD or ADD from a physician or a trained mental health professional soon.
see a shrink for a proper evaluation. if you really are, particularly with the H component, my friends with it have had their lives changed for the absolute better with proper medication. I can think of 3 good friends (one very close) who all "suffered" with it- but were fairly successful. with the drugs, their lives improved a ton- better work and better relationships.

 
Took an online quiz:

Results of Your Adult

Attention Deficit Disorder Quiz

You scored a total of 47

Inattention Subscale: 23

Hyperactivity/Impulsivity Subscale: 24

Based upon your responses to this adult ADD/ADHD screening quiz, you have replied in a way similar to people who have symptoms of moderate to severe attention deficit disorder. People who have answered similarly to you typically qualify for a diagnosis of ADHD or ADD, and have sought professional treatment for this mental health concern.

If you were diagnosed with ADHD, it would likely be of the Combined presentation, as you indicated significant symptoms of inattention and hyperactivity/impulsivity.

You indicated that several of the symptoms were present before age 12.

You indicated that the symptoms occur in two or more settings.

For ADD or ADHD to be diagnosed by a mental health professional, usually the symptoms must occur in at least two different settings (like school and home, or work and home), and they must have lasted at least 6 months. Symptoms typically worsen in situations that require sustained attention or mental effort, or that are boring.

You should not take this as a diagnosis of any sort, or a recommendation for treatment. However, it may be likely beneficial for you to seek further clarification about a possible diagnosis of ADHD or ADD from a physician or a trained mental health professional soon.
see a shrink for a proper evaluation. if you really are, particularly with the H component, my friends with it have had their lives changed for the absolute better with proper medication. I can think of 3 good friends (one very close) who all "suffered" with it- but were fairly successful. with the drugs, their lives improved a ton- better work and better relationships.
I'm really considering this more and more. I can do some pretty fantastic feats but know I'm not reaching my full potential by self medicating with weed.
 
Couple of noob questions....

I'm positive I have some form of ADD or ADHD or HHDDRVDVD but even if I get tested, what's the solution, get on pills for life?

Everyone has symptoms of one or another, how do I know if I really should get tested?

Who performs said tests?

Would I get stigmatized or get "lunatic ADDHDD guy" put on my "permanent record"?
No comment on testing, but just wanted to say I knew a woman in undergrad who had an acute case. She was on daily prescription, and only took morning classes because she could only be in class or study during the window when her drugs kicked in and she could concentrate.

She was the valedictorian of our University, and went on to law school. She has a GS-15 job, and barely paused to have/raise twins along the way.

Bottom line is if it helps you achieve peak proficiency, WGAF about what being "stigmatized"? I'm not even sure what that is supposed to mean, but its not like employer's are not open minded about people who are proactively address a genuine issue through medication.
Almost everyone I knew who did any post grad study was using adderal. The smartest kids figured out it made them smarter, and would just pop them and have study marathons preparing for the bar, med exams, etc.

I wouldn't worry so much about being stigmatized as the possible long term heart problems. Occasionally using one probably isn't a big deal, but taking them everyday can't be good long term.

 
Just took the quiz. Total score was 31, with a 14 inattention, and 17 hyperactivity. Conclusion = Similar to people with symptoms of moderate ADD. One problem, there are only four possible answers for each question. Never, Rarely, Sometimes and Often. All but one of my answers fell in the rarely or sometimes category. Never is an absolute and probably can be thrown out as a possible answer for every question.

Also question why the other end of the spectrum is "Often", and not "Always"

Either way, the test seems like it's skewed and most will fall under the category of similar to symptoms of moderate ADD. See a doctor.

 
Couple of noob questions....

I'm positive I have some form of ADD or ADHD or HHDDRVDVD but even if I get tested, what's the solution, get on pills for life?

Everyone has symptoms of one or another, how do I know if I really should get tested?

Who performs said tests?

Would I get stigmatized or get "lunatic ADDHDD guy" put on my "permanent record"?
No comment on testing, but just wanted to say I knew a woman in undergrad who had an acute case. She was on daily prescription, and only took morning classes because she could only be in class or study during the window when her drugs kicked in and she could concentrate.

She was the valedictorian of our University, and went on to law school. She has a GS-15 job, and barely paused to have/raise twins along the way.

Bottom line is if it helps you achieve peak proficiency, WGAF about what being "stigmatized"? I'm not even sure what that is supposed to mean, but its not like employer's are not open minded about people who are proactively address a genuine issue through medication.
Almost everyone I knew who did any post grad study was using adderal. The smartest kids figured out it made them smarter, and would just pop them and have study marathons preparing for the bar, med exams, etc.

I wouldn't worry so much about being stigmatized as the possible long term heart problems. Occasionally using one probably isn't a big deal, but taking them everyday can't be good long term.
my experience on it was that it acted like caffeine- gave me a buzz and energy, so I can see how students would use this stuff for that same benefit. not sure about the "making smarter" bit... but able to stay awake definitely helps power through too many hours of work.

my gbs who are truly adhd- they all say that the drugs give them the opposite reaction. they are buzzing and jumpy all the time- the drug makes them settled, calm and thus, more focused.

 
I'm ADHD - Inattentive Subtype. Was diagnosed like 18 monthsish ago.

I take Straterra. It is the only non-stimulant available to treat ADHD. It works 24/7, unlike Adderall. And its non-addictive.

Its not quite as powerful though. But it has made a big difference for me. GL

 
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I'm ADHD - Inattentive Subtype. Was diagnosed like 18 monthsish ago.

I take Straterra. It is the only non-stimulant available to treat ADHD. It works 24/7, unlike Adderall. And its non-addictive.

Its not quite as powerful though. But it has made a big difference for me. GL
Thanks for sharing Hulk. I respect the hell outta you so this news is encouraging.

 
I'm ADHD - Inattentive Subtype. Was diagnosed like 18 monthsish ago.

I take Straterra. It is the only non-stimulant available to treat ADHD. It works 24/7, unlike Adderall. And its non-addictive.

Its not quite as powerful though. But it has made a big difference for me. GL
Thanks for sharing Hulk. I respect the hell outta you so this news is encouraging.
For me, the main purpose was to make myself a more bearable spouse. I've always been smart enough to cover for it (and my dyslexia) @ work. But it's helped there too.

 

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