***Official*** FFA iDating Thread (2 Viewers)

[krista4]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

 

[krista4]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

 

[larry_boy_44]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

where are you at?if NYC, I could understand that...Chicago? Not so much, IMO...

 

[krista4]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

where are you at?if NYC, I could understand that...Chicago? Not so much, IMO...

Huh? Ever been in traffic in Chicago? NFW would I do that to meet someone, in addition to the fact that there's nothing in the suburbs I'd ever want to do (with a tiny number of exceptions).

 

[Keys Myaths]

Emotional:

You are an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and you more powerfully than most. Your emotions are closer to the surface, and your feelings more obvious to you than is the case with most people. You've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for you, you greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with your emotions brings you.

Anger Management:

You may have a friend like Katie KaBoom or Bob the Bomb-Thrower, people who just can't manage their way through a disagreement without blowing up emotionally and sometimes blowing up a friendship. Maybe you grew up in a family or with a friend like this. Because they cannot control their anger their anger controls them; at times it seems that anger controls their lives, defining who will or will not be their friend or their partner, who will or will not remain their colleague at work, who will or will not put up with one more meal or one more evening littered with the debris of their explosive anger.

You've made the decision over and again: no matter how upset you get - and you do get upset - you will not revert to this kind of behavior. You've seen the damage, sometimes been part of it yourself perhaps, and you want no more of it. You know you're capable of angry expression; you can feel the rumble when someone crosses you, the heat rising when a discussion of differences slides into an argument. Maybe on occasion you've let your defenses down, shouted out "To hell with you' just like Katie or Bob would do, and then felt terrible in the aftermath. So you've learned: keep it under control so that your anger doesn't control you.

Emotional Strength:

Okay, so here's the situation. For months you've been part of a small group of friends who hang out together on weekends, sometimes have coffee or a quick drink after work during the week, and spent two different weekends away together during the past six months. And then you find out the rest of them are planning a weekend away and they haven't included you. When you ask, they're evasive; when they return, it's clear you've lost your place with them. You're not sure what happened, all you know is that you're no longer included.

Panic? Or tough it out? Which is your response? Does the stress of it get you so upset that you miss work for a couple of days, or are you there on Monday morning, dazed and confused buy nonetheless functional? Here's the part that's tricky: sometimes you respond to situations like this as if you're as tough as nails; "to hell with them", you say, and you make your way through the coming weeks into a new and better social situation. But sometimes you're just a wreck when people let you down; you feel like you're flat on your back, can't catch your breath, and you lay there in your misery longer than seems healthy.

Ease with others:

You're a worrier. Not a serious worrier, so much so that your life is confined by fear. You go places and mix with different kinds of people and try out new venues and follow your friends even when there destination would not have been your first choice, or even your second. You go. But you worry a bit. Then when you arrive and settle in the worry subsides, you breathe more easily and relax into the experience and enjoy it as much as anyone. It just takes you a little time to unwind.

It is most likely the case that you've always been like this. Each fall you wondered who would be in your class and whether they would like you and if you would get picked.... for whatever you wanted to get picked for. There may be a worrier in the generation above you: your mother or father or an aunt or grandfather. Regardless, there are plenty of life experiences that can reinforce this as well; friends betray us, or our family situation is an emotional mine-field, or some illness haunts a season of our lives. So we worry.

Yep, deadly accurate. I won't post any more, because it's getting long--but these are very much right on.

 

[krista4]

Emotional:You are an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and you more powerfully than most. Your emotions are closer to the surface, and your feelings more obvious to you than is the case with most people. You've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for you, you greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with your emotions brings you.Anger Management:You may have a friend like Katie KaBoom or Bob the Bomb-Thrower, people who just can't manage their way through a disagreement without blowing up emotionally and sometimes blowing up a friendship. Maybe you grew up in a family or with a friend like this. Because they cannot control their anger their anger controls them; at times it seems that anger controls their lives, defining who will or will not be their friend or their partner, who will or will not remain their colleague at work, who will or will not put up with one more meal or one more evening littered with the debris of their explosive anger.You've made the decision over and again: no matter how upset you get - and you do get upset - you will not revert to this kind of behavior. You've seen the damage, sometimes been part of it yourself perhaps, and you want no more of it. You know you're capable of angry expression; you can feel the rumble when someone crosses you, the heat rising when a discussion of differences slides into an argument. Maybe on occasion you've let your defenses down, shouted out "To hell with you' just like Katie or Bob would do, and then felt terrible in the aftermath. So you've learned: keep it under control so that your anger doesn't control you.Emotional Strength:Okay, so here's the situation. For months you've been part of a small group of friends who hang out together on weekends, sometimes have coffee or a quick drink after work during the week, and spent two different weekends away together during the past six months. And then you find out the rest of them are planning a weekend away and they haven't included you. When you ask, they're evasive; when they return, it's clear you've lost your place with them. You're not sure what happened, all you know is that you're no longer included.Panic? Or tough it out? Which is your response? Does the stress of it get you so upset that you miss work for a couple of days, or are you there on Monday morning, dazed and confused buy nonetheless functional? Here's the part that's tricky: sometimes you respond to situations like this as if you're as tough as nails; "to hell with them", you say, and you make your way through the coming weeks into a new and better social situation. But sometimes you're just a wreck when people let you down; you feel like you're flat on your back, can't catch your breath, and you lay there in your misery longer than seems healthy.Ease with others:You're a worrier. Not a serious worrier, so much so that your life is confined by fear. You go places and mix with different kinds of people and try out new venues and follow your friends even when there destination would not have been your first choice, or even your second. You go. But you worry a bit. Then when you arrive and settle in the worry subsides, you breathe more easily and relax into the experience and enjoy it as much as anyone. It just takes you a little time to unwind.It is most likely the case that you've always been like this. Each fall you wondered who would be in your class and whether they would like you and if you would get picked.... for whatever you wanted to get picked for. There may be a worrier in the generation above you: your mother or father or an aunt or grandfather. Regardless, there are plenty of life experiences that can reinforce this as well; friends betray us, or our family situation is an emotional mine-field, or some illness haunts a season of our lives. So we worry.Yep, deadly accurate. I won't post any more, because it's getting long--but these are very much right on.

Interesting stuff. Any idea what you're supposed to do with this information, or is it just supposed to be interesting (which it is)?

 

[Keys Myaths]

Emotional:You are an emotional person. In some ways, we are all emotional; we feel joy, anger, sadness and fear; some of us more powerfully than others - and you more powerfully than most. Your emotions are closer to the surface, and your feelings more obvious to you than is the case with most people. You've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for you, you greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with your emotions brings you.Anger Management:You may have a friend like Katie KaBoom or Bob the Bomb-Thrower, people who just can't manage their way through a disagreement without blowing up emotionally and sometimes blowing up a friendship. Maybe you grew up in a family or with a friend like this. Because they cannot control their anger their anger controls them; at times it seems that anger controls their lives, defining who will or will not be their friend or their partner, who will or will not remain their colleague at work, who will or will not put up with one more meal or one more evening littered with the debris of their explosive anger.You've made the decision over and again: no matter how upset you get - and you do get upset - you will not revert to this kind of behavior. You've seen the damage, sometimes been part of it yourself perhaps, and you want no more of it. You know you're capable of angry expression; you can feel the rumble when someone crosses you, the heat rising when a discussion of differences slides into an argument. Maybe on occasion you've let your defenses down, shouted out "To hell with you' just like Katie or Bob would do, and then felt terrible in the aftermath. So you've learned: keep it under control so that your anger doesn't control you.Emotional Strength:Okay, so here's the situation. For months you've been part of a small group of friends who hang out together on weekends, sometimes have coffee or a quick drink after work during the week, and spent two different weekends away together during the past six months. And then you find out the rest of them are planning a weekend away and they haven't included you. When you ask, they're evasive; when they return, it's clear you've lost your place with them. You're not sure what happened, all you know is that you're no longer included.Panic? Or tough it out? Which is your response? Does the stress of it get you so upset that you miss work for a couple of days, or are you there on Monday morning, dazed and confused buy nonetheless functional? Here's the part that's tricky: sometimes you respond to situations like this as if you're as tough as nails; "to hell with them", you say, and you make your way through the coming weeks into a new and better social situation. But sometimes you're just a wreck when people let you down; you feel like you're flat on your back, can't catch your breath, and you lay there in your misery longer than seems healthy.Ease with others:You're a worrier. Not a serious worrier, so much so that your life is confined by fear. You go places and mix with different kinds of people and try out new venues and follow your friends even when there destination would not have been your first choice, or even your second. You go. But you worry a bit. Then when you arrive and settle in the worry subsides, you breathe more easily and relax into the experience and enjoy it as much as anyone. It just takes you a little time to unwind.It is most likely the case that you've always been like this. Each fall you wondered who would be in your class and whether they would like you and if you would get picked.... for whatever you wanted to get picked for. There may be a worrier in the generation above you: your mother or father or an aunt or grandfather. Regardless, there are plenty of life experiences that can reinforce this as well; friends betray us, or our family situation is an emotional mine-field, or some illness haunts a season of our lives. So we worry.Yep, deadly accurate. I won't post any more, because it's getting long--but these are very much right on.

Interesting stuff. Any idea what you're supposed to do with this information, or is it just supposed to be interesting (which it is)?

I'm learning about myself, quite honestly. It's stuff I wouldn't have thought of on my own (the leader part--where I usually follow if there's a strong leader, and lead if there's not), and the descriptions are fascinating.

 

[larry_boy_44]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

where are you at?if NYC, I could understand that...Chicago? Not so much, IMO...

Huh? Ever been in traffic in Chicago? NFW would I do that to meet someone, in addition to the fact that there's nothing in the suburbs I'd ever want to do (with a tiny number of exceptions).

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

 

[Alias]

Words that describe me (from eHarmony) take it FWIW...

Agreeableness

* Fair

* Considered

* Collaborative

* Responsive

* Sensible

* Diplomatic

* Contemplative

* Indulgent

* Rational

Openness

* Original

* Inventive

* Thinker

* Brave

* Eccentric

* Avant-Garde

* Out-of-Touch

* Unique

Emotional Stability

* Adaptable

* Engaged

* Able to Cope

* Passionate

* Perceptive

* Flexible

* Receptive

* Aware

* Avid

Conscientiousness

* Spontaneous

* Intuitive

* Perceptive

* Natural

* Somewhat Disorganized

* Unpredictable At Times

Extraversion

* Friendly

* Gregarious

* Full of Life

* Unreserved

* Kindhearted

* Talkative

* Emotional

* Spontaneous

* Vigorous

 

[krista4]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

where are you at?if NYC, I could understand that...Chicago? Not so much, IMO...

Huh? Ever been in traffic in Chicago? NFW would I do that to meet someone, in addition to the fact that there's nothing in the suburbs I'd ever want to do (with a tiny number of exceptions).

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

 

[larry_boy_44]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

where are you at?if NYC, I could understand that...Chicago? Not so much, IMO...

Huh? Ever been in traffic in Chicago? NFW would I do that to meet someone, in addition to the fact that there's nothing in the suburbs I'd ever want to do (with a tiny number of exceptions).

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

 

[krista4]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

where are you at?if NYC, I could understand that...

Chicago? Not so much, IMO...

Huh? Ever been in traffic in Chicago? NFW would I do that to meet someone, in addition to the fact that there's nothing in the suburbs I'd ever want to do (with a tiny number of exceptions).

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

 

[larry_boy_44]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

where are you at?if NYC, I could understand that...

Chicago? Not so much, IMO...

Huh? Ever been in traffic in Chicago? NFW would I do that to meet someone, in addition to the fact that there's nothing in the suburbs I'd ever want to do (with a tiny number of exceptions).

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

make the guy come into the city lol

you're hot, you could totally pull that...

 

[krista4]

Mine is set at 30, 60 is like an hour plus away and I live in NYC, so I *shouldn't* have to go that far to land a date.

in WI where I'm at 60 miles away is like 45 minutes... :lead feet:

Yeah, I think that's the point. In a city you don't want to have to go that far away--traffic is bad plus why would you? I have a strict rule of not venturing to the suburbs for anything but work.

where are you at?if NYC, I could understand that...

Chicago? Not so much, IMO...

Huh? Ever been in traffic in Chicago? NFW would I do that to meet someone, in addition to the fact that there's nothing in the suburbs I'd ever want to do (with a tiny number of exceptions).

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

make the guy come into the city lol

you're hot, you could totally pull that...

Awww, now you're being all sweet and stuff.

 

[Leeroy Jenkins]

IF you thought it was a joke....Why give a real address?Not cash the check?Anyway...I'll stop as it really isn't that big of a deal.Just not my style.

I sent cash. Yes, that's stupid, but I didn't want Woz to have my real name and address.

Sorry...I'll stop now.Back to i.dating!

FWIW, it doesn't bother me at all that he took the money...I expected it and think that he should have. I do, however, have a problem with the fact that he acts like a total **** to me, but that's more because I've probably helped him out more than anyone else here, not because I sent him the money.

woah, guess here's a case of the internet medium not catching or relaying sarcasm krista, i take your shots at me as playful and that's how i intend my responses to be taken. think of how you joke around with your good guy friends...

No offense, but historically you havent been very good at sarcasm or being funny or having any tact. Sounds like you may have offended a supporter?

She's kinda playing both sides of the fence a bit though - using "Woz" as a verb and adjective and things of that nature. Considering she's been helpful and paid him $100 to stay, I don't think Woz is out of line for interpreting these as sarcastic and playful comments. So what exactly is wrong with throwing back a few of his own?

Nothing. He just isnt very good at it.

 

[larry_boy_44]

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???

and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

make the guy come into the city lol

you're hot, you could totally pull that...

Awww, now you're being all sweet and stuff.

so when do you want me to come by?

 

[krista4]

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???

and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

make the guy come into the city lol

you're hot, you could totally pull that...

Awww, now you're being all sweet and stuff.

so when do you want me to come by?

You're outside my "within the city limits" zone.

 

[larry_boy_44]

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???

and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

make the guy come into the city lol

you're hot, you could totally pull that...

Awww, now you're being all sweet and stuff.

so when do you want me to come by?

You're outside my "within the city limits" zone.

but, baby, I'm willing to make myself within city limits if that's what it takes...

 

[krista4]

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???

and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

make the guy come into the city lol

you're hot, you could totally pull that...

Awww, now you're being all sweet and stuff.

so when do you want me to come by?

You're outside my "within the city limits" zone.

but, baby, I'm willing to make myself within city limits if that's what it takes...

 

[larry_boy_44]

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???

and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

make the guy come into the city lol

you're hot, you could totally pull that...

Awww, now you're being all sweet and stuff.

so when do you want me to come by?

You're outside my "within the city limits" zone.

but, baby, I'm willing to make myself within city limits if that's what it takes...

see? Not only am I hot, but I'm funny, too...

 

[parasaurolophus]

what about people coming into the city?? Or going to the outskirt areas of the city???

and I've seen traffic in Chicago, you just have to be a little creative so you don't get stuck in it...

Of course, I'm also looking at it from a "I want to find someone for a serious long-term relationship" angle... and you seem to not be, so I guess the limits on what you are willing to do being lower than mine a bit makes sense...

Sorry, kiddo, I drive in it for hours every day. There is no creativity to be had in many spots. I have to drive from the city to the north suburbs and back for work. It's the bane of my existence. I would have 82.3% better quality of life without it.I suppose if you're going from one suburb to another, it might not be so bad.

You're right about not being willing to make the effort, but I also just hate the suburbs (no offense intended to Sister Havana--just my personal preference).

well, if you are in the North Suburbs for work, why not see if anyone interests you in the North Subarbs???? Then just don't go back into the city when you do things with the person from the North 'burbs... that was all i was saying...

Re-read bold above. My only goal when in the suburbs is to get back out of them.

make the guy come into the city lol

you're hot, you could totally pull that...

Awww, now you're being all sweet and stuff.

so when do you want me to come by?

You're outside my "within the city limits" zone.

but, baby, I'm willing to make myself within city limits if that's what it takes...

more for Larry

 

[strykerpks]

how many matches do you have at eHarmony? I have 24 and I close out like 5+ a day, might just be a lot of fish in NYC.

I usually get about 3-4 a day in Madison. Not bad, not great, but they do sometimes randomly match me with Chicago and Milwaukee, even though I tell it not to.

i need to get to madison over labor day I think.I will bring my blender.

PS Larry flirting with krista? Quality entertainment. PPS I go away for an afternoon and theres 3 pages? Sheesh, my eyes hurt.

 

[BassNBrew]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

 

[krista4]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

 

[larry_boy_44]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I hope not... that would make me hitting on you kinda icky...

 

[krista4]

My "five things I can't live without"--am I cheating?

1. Laughter

2. Music, movies, aural and visual stimulation

3. Cheese

4. Wine (I CAN live w/o but would prefer not to)

5. Passion

 

[BassNBrew]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I was attempting to make a joke about leaving/making a "mess" in the bedroom.

 

[krista4]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I hope not... that would make me hitting on you kinda icky...

You're bringing the funny today!

 

[krista4]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I was attempting to make a joke about leaving/making a "mess" in the bedroom.

Ah. Duh.

 

[larry_boy_44]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I hope not... that would make me hitting on you kinda icky...

You're bringing the funny today!

plus I'm hot... Plus I will be in Chicago when you want me there...I don't see the problem here...

:(

I'm even doing the first & last parts myself...

 

[krista4]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I hope not... that would make me hitting on you kinda icky...

You're bringing the funny today!

plus I'm hot... Plus I will be in Chicago when you want me there...I don't see the problem here...

:(

I'm even doing the first & last parts myself...

Psssstttt...I'm not a Christian.

 

[larry_boy_44]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I hope not... that would make me hitting on you kinda icky...

You're bringing the funny today!

plus I'm hot... Plus I will be in Chicago when you want me there...I don't see the problem here...



I'm even doing the first & last parts myself...

Psssstttt...I'm not a Christian.

I know...

 

[krista4]

Someone has requested "Fast Track"--not sure this is a good idea under the circumstances.

 

[BassNBrew]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I hope not... that would make me hitting on you kinda icky...

You're bringing the funny today!

plus I'm hot... Plus I will be in Chicago when you want me there...I don't see the problem here...



I'm even doing the first & last parts myself...

Psssstttt...I'm not a Christian.

I know...

Larry...how about cutting down on the clutter and taking this to a PM. TIA.

 

[larry_boy_44]

One of the questions from the "premium" personality profile:

I often leave a mess in my room.

What am I, 12????

I am 12?

I hope not... that would make me hitting on you kinda icky...

You're bringing the funny today!

plus I'm hot... Plus I will be in Chicago when you want me there...I don't see the problem here...



I'm even doing the first & last parts myself...

Psssstttt...I'm not a Christian.

I know...

Larry...how about cutting down on the clutter and taking this to a PM. TIA.

ur just jealous 'cuz she wnats me and not you...

 

[Bankerguy]

Krista......I need a profile review.Help!!

Sorry, forgot! Will do it right now!

Thanks girl!!

See edit above.

It's only a short 6 hour drive to my neck of the woods.You could be Mrs Bankerguy if you play your cards right.=joking=.......well only partly.

Suggested revisions sent!

On behalf of all the guys here I wanted to tell you that we all appreciate the help we get from you Krista.

 

[larry_boy_44]

So... Krista...

you up for some ???

I'll handle the before and after...

 

[parasaurolophus]

So... Krista...you up for some ???I'll handle the before and after...

i like how u threw the coffee in there.

 

[Woz]

Just wanted to say I saw that blonde's facebook and it turns out she put on about 40 lbs...

awesome. man, #### this

 

[Keys Myaths]

Just wanted to say I saw that blonde's facebook and it turns out she put on about 40 lbs...awesome. man, #### this

:(

 

[Kraft...]

My "five things I can't live without"--am I cheating?3. Cheese

 

[mr. furley]

Just wanted to say I saw that blonde's facebook and it turns out she put on about 40 lbs...awesome. man, #### this

and now you know why she's being coy

 

[Kraft...]

Just wanted to say I saw that blonde's facebook and it turns out she put on about 40 lbs...awesome. man, #### this

OUCH!. . . . I mean really OUCH!Sorry Bro, just not your year with the dating thing

 

[Kraft...]

Just wanted to say I saw that blonde's facebook and it turns out she put on about 40 lbs...awesome. man, #### this

and now you know why she's being coy

And why she's so slow

 

[larry_boy_44]

seriously, woz, meet her, see what she's like... there is more important #### than her gaining 40 lbs since she took the pics you saw of her...

how ####### shallow can you be? Or is the only thing you were interested in her looks and getting some secks from her?

(I thought you couldn't have secks with peeps you didn't care about...)

 

[Sister Havana]

My "five things I can't live without"--am I cheating?3. Cheese

I love cheese.

 

[mr. furley]

3. Cheese

yet you've never had cheese curds

 

[Keys Myaths]

3. Cheese

yet you've never had cheese curds

She's not the only one.

 

[larry_boy_44]

I think I got a date...

 

[Tremendous Upside]

I think I got a date...