Can we get past the blame part? Commish, I will never blame you if Trump wins. You didn't vote for him, so you'll have nothing to do with his victory.
But that being said, since you live in North Carolina, I really wish you would consider voting for Hillary. Your vote is relevant; mine is not. I'd gladly make a deal with you: if you vote for Hillary, I'll vote for Gary Johnson. Johnson is equally helped by a vote for him in California or North Carolina. But Hillary is helped so much more by your vote than mine.