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Here are more Eddie Vedder details. Back 30 years ago, I met a woman who told me the following. She was living in San Diego in 1988/1989/1990, and she claimed to have met Vedder after a gig for one of his various bands. He was a guitarist in Search and Destroy, The Butts, and Indian Style (who featured the future drummer for RATM and Audioslave). The woman said she started casually seeing Vedder . . . and he ended up needing someplace to crash. She let him stay with her as a short term thing. Vedder had a slew of Joe jobs over the years. She was a regular person with a regular job. She mentioned that the short-term thing turned into a longer term stint living together. She would leave in the morning to make money to pay their bills, and her expectation was that he would get another Joe job to help pay for rent and food. She would come home and hear him say that he never really got out looking for work that day, but he worked on some really cool chord progressions and beginnings of songs and lyrics.Wow, so much going on in these three lines.I am not an Uber fan of either band, but Pearl Jam has placed 69 different songs on global charts. Nirvana had 18. Different strokes for different folks, but I voted PJ.
Clearly, I never was a huge fan of Nirvana, as I once ended a conversation with Dave Grohl (before Nirvana hit it big) by telling him not to quit his day job because I didn’t think they’d make it in the music business.
I guess that’s not as bad as a woman I know that used to date and live with Eddie Vedder, who dumped him because he wasn’t contributing anything to their bills (and laughed at him when he said he was joining a band as their singer).
One day, she came home to find that a band called Bad Radio had asked Vedder to be their lead singer. She laughed at him and asked if they were aware that he couldn't sing. Here they are performing Better Man before Pearl Jam recorded it (a song Vedder wrote in high school in the early 80s). Eventually, she got tired of him being a free loader and kicked him out. They still bumped into each other on the San Diego music scene on occasion, and she last saw him after he had just recorded a demo for a new band out of Seattle called Mookie Blaylock. He had just recorded vocals for demos of Alive, Once, and Footsteps (1990), used as some of the demos that got them a record deal to make Ten in 1991. He moved to Seattle the following week. She said she didn't really regret what happened and how things turned out, as he wasn't her soul mate or the love of her life. She ended up giving up going to clubs and dating musicians, and she instead started hanging out with regular, non-creative people with more traditional careers.
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