We've been through this 100 times in this thread. We know you don't think they are babies that are being killed. They are just tubs of cellular goo that will magically turn into babies somewhere around the 20 week mark. Of course some differ on their opinion of the word baby, instead using the intake of oxygen into the lungs as the magical transforming point from lifeless, insignificant fetus to baby.
As opposed to at the moment a sperm enters an egg, despite the fact that somewhere between 40-60% of fertilized eggs don't even implant in the uterus?
And that they are still months away from having functional brains with firing neurons.
I've never understood why people insist on characterizing people who are pro-choice as all having the identical view that life is completely disposable until the moment of birth. There's a huge gray area in there. Most of us fall somewhere in the middle. regarding when, and in what circumstances, we consider abortion to be an acceptable practice. If you want to have a serious discussion and maybe even change minds, it's probably not a great idea to start by mischaracterizing and antagonizing the opinions you hope to change.
The life of an engineering project starts the moment the idea is conceptualized. It still has a long way to go ... buying land, detailed drawings, startup testing, ect. but to pick an arbitrary point months or years down the line as the "official start of the project" is artificial and silly. There is no gray area, the project starts the moment the idea is hatched.
Likewise, life starts at the moment of conception. All the information necessary to finish the baby project is combined at that time. In that regard it is much further along than the typical engineering project. Its silly and arbitrary to pick a point months down the line then say "OK now that X just happened it's now the official start of the baby project".
I'd say a baby "project" is a touch different from an engineering project. For one thing, I seldom hear about engineers who tell their friends they were surprised when they took a test and realized they were suddenly in an engineering project.
When two people decide to start a "baby project" I'd say that it starts when they start trying to conceive. The
baby, however, comes along at some other time.
At your engineering project example, if they're engineering a levee or a dam - when is it a levee or a dam? When the idea is conceptualized?