TobiasFunke said:
dgreen said:
TobiasFunke said:
Here's a nice read that I think is applicable given the recent turn this thread has taken.
Yeah, that's the article you posted earlier (with a quote) that led to the discussion of "fighting back". Then that led to basically discussing to who started it all and then things went in 50 different directions.
Christians might say the Gays started it with their parades and push for marriage. Gays might say Christians started it with their inconsistent treatment of homosexuality compared to other sins.
To me, it really doesn't matter who started it. Both sides really need to do a better job of understanding each other.
Yeah I know I posted it before, I just thought it was funny how many people were behaving exactly the way people in this thread have been behaving for the last page or so. Except that Toad guy. He's just awesome.
I embrace faith for the most part. You and I have talked about other religious topics. I'm not religious, but I mostly admire those who are, and I enjoy discussing it with them. I've read plenty of arguments here and in many other places about the position of those religions that condemn homosexuality or homosexual acts or whatever. And I've never found a single redeeming word in any of it. I think the attitudes of religions that condemn homosexuality (all of them, not just Christianity) are a disgrace. I think they're literally shaming young people to death and they don't seem to be the slightest bit repentant or sorry about it. I think they've chosen one particular "sin" and taken that cause to the public while mostly not bothering to crusade or even mention most of the thousands of other sins named in their religious texts. If you want to help me better understand where these people are coming from, I'm all ears. I don't condemn those religions entirely, but I absolutely condemn their position on this issue.
I hope the main thing I can shed some light on is the leap you, and others, are making about people's actions and attitudes towards others simply based on a comment like, "Yes, I think that's a sin."
Believing something is a sin doesn't necessarily lead to shaming others. Believing something is a sin doesn't require an organized attack by Christians or a lobbying effort. Yes, it clearly does for some people and, honestly, I can't help explain where they are coming from because that's not where I am. I believe if Jesus walked in on the situation you describe, he'd come down hard on those doing the shaming. There are several Biblical examples of Jesus displaying harsher words and judgment towards those throwing the stones than those being stoned.
So what does it mean if I say something is a sin? All it really means is that I think that's something God says not to do (or failing to do what he says to do). That's it. There's really no reason, on its own, to read more into it than that. I'm not trying to hide any deeper feelings by labeling something as a "sin". Me saying "X is a sin" is not a way to hide from wanting to say "X is absolutely filthy and I am so much better than anyone who does X and God hates anyone who does X more than me because I don't do X."
Claiming something is a sin does not say anything about what I think that person's worth is or how I think that person should be treated or whether I think their sin is worse than someone else's sin. The assumption is that believing homosexuality is a sin automatically indicates that the person looks down upon homosexuals. But, that assumption is wrong for many people. I'd guess most of the Christians here who would say they think homosexuality is a sin would also defend the person being shamed and not join those doing the shaming.
People don't like to hear the tired line of "love the sinner, hate the sin" but that is the position. It is possible to think something is a sin and have that not affect how you feel about the person. In fact, as you know, it happens all the time. As you say, many Christians appear to be a-okay with many sins and the people who commit those sins. Unfortunately, many Christians have picked out homosexuality as a "special" sin. My only advice to them would be that they need to listen to and try to understand the other side. They then need to worry more about their own actions and their impacts than the actions of others. Whatever they do, they should do it in love. If they are not capable of discussing homosexuality and acting in love at the same time, then I'd suggest they back away and stop discussing homosexuality.
All that to say, some of your assumptions about people may be wrong. (Just like a Christians assumption about a homosexual may be wrong.) Saying something is a sin doesn't necessarily lead to the conclusions that are usually reached.