Unexpected Roommates (1 Viewer)

[General Malaise]

How long is your wife willing to tolerate this BS? Seems to me that you're already at the end of your rope.

It's going to end soon.MIL is serious about calling DCFS. Apparently the Grand Parents are offered custody of the kids.......she would take them in a heartbeat

Be aware DCFS doesn't ask questions, they just take the kids. If DCFS comes to your house, there is a chance they will take all the kids in the house, not just hers. I've heard stories of DCFS goign to the wrong house by accident and taking the kids. Kids didn't get returned for 45 days(even though it was their fault).

Really? Wouldn't they have their pants sued off?

 

[Hastur]

How long is your wife willing to tolerate this BS? Seems to me that you're already at the end of your rope.

It's going to end soon.MIL is serious about calling DCFS. Apparently the Grand Parents are offered custody of the kids.......she would take them in a heartbeat

Be aware DCFS doesn't ask questions, they just take the kids. If DCFS comes to your house, there is a chance they will take all the kids in the house, not just hers. I've heard stories of DCFS goign to the wrong house by accident and taking the kids. Kids didn't get returned for 45 days(even though it was their fault).

Really? Wouldn't they have their pants sued off?

You would think...Google "DCFS horror stories". You will be shocked.

 

[Leviathan]

Bump

Update on the job search.

 

[chet]

Update

 

[Oh Yes!]

Update

i had a burrito from Chipotle the other day with the corn salsa.

 

[Wrigley]

I guess it's Friday, right?

Nothing has really changed. She still goes out, pawning the kids off to whomever will watch them. Recently the wife and I have taken the stance that she's going to do whatever she wants, so we're more inclined to watcher her kids. More for their sake, than hers. They need some stability in their lives, and we're doing our best to try and give it to them.

As stated before, she watches our twin girls a couple days a week. Recently she's started hinting that she would like to be paid for her services.....YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!!!!! She's nuts if she thinks I'll give her a dime. Next time she asks for $$$ I'm going to flip out the mortgage, electric, gas, water bill and ask her to pay one of them.

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

 

[Bogeys]

I guess it's Friday, right?

Nothing has really changed. She still goes out, pawning the kids off to whomever will watch them. Recently the wife and I have taken the stance that she's going to do whatever she wants, so we're more inclined to watcher her kids. More for their sake, than hers. They need some stability in their lives, and we're doing our best to try and give it to them.

As stated before, she watches our twin girls a couple days a week. Recently she's started hinting that she would like to be paid for her services.....YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!!!!! She's nuts if she thinks I'll give her a dime. Next time she asks for $$$ I'm going to flip out the mortgage, electric, gas, water bill and ask her to pay one of them.

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

of SIL doing the P90X is some skimpy workout clothes...or naked of course.That is what would make it a true Friday updated thread.

 

[NCCommish]

I guess it's Friday, right?

Nothing has really changed. She still goes out, pawning the kids off to whomever will watch them. Recently the wife and I have taken the stance that she's going to do whatever she wants, so we're more inclined to watcher her kids. More for their sake, than hers. They need some stability in their lives, and we're doing our best to try and give it to them.

As stated before, she watches our twin girls a couple days a week. Recently she's started hinting that she would like to be paid for her services.....YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!!!!! She's nuts if she thinks I'll give her a dime. Next time she asks for $$$ I'm going to flip out the mortgage, electric, gas, water bill and ask her to pay one of them.

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

In shape and not smoking she'll be easier to pawn off. I'd be supportive personally.

 

[BroncoFreak_2K3]

I guess it's Friday, right?

Nothing has really changed. She still goes out, pawning the kids off to whomever will watch them. Recently the wife and I have taken the stance that she's going to do whatever she wants, so we're more inclined to watcher her kids. More for their sake, than hers. They need some stability in their lives, and we're doing our best to try and give it to them.

As stated before, she watches our twin girls a couple days a week. Recently she's started hinting that she would like to be paid for her services.....YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!!!!! She's nuts if she thinks I'll give her a dime. Next time she asks for $$$ I'm going to flip out the mortgage, electric, gas, water bill and ask her to pay one of them.

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

Sorry, can't add much other to say that it's always so amazing how much people take advantage of others. Family seems to be worse because they think because they are related they can get with that much more. You and your family are great peopleto be putting up withall this crap. Just hope everything works out for the better for everyone ASAP. Keep up the good work and try to stay as positive as you can gb.

 

[comfortably numb]

I guess it's Friday, right?

Nothing has really changed. She still goes out, pawning the kids off to whomever will watch them. Recently the wife and I have taken the stance that she's going to do whatever she wants, so we're more inclined to watcher her kids. More for their sake, than hers. They need some stability in their lives, and we're doing our best to try and give it to them.

As stated before, she watches our twin girls a couple days a week. Recently she's started hinting that she would like to be paid for her services.....YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!!!!! She's nuts if she thinks I'll give her a dime. Next time she asks for $$$ I'm going to flip out the mortgage, electric, gas, water bill and ask her to pay one of them.

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

Sorry, can't add much other to say that it's always so amazing how much people take advantage of others. Family seems to be worse because they think because they are related they can get with that much more. You and your family are great peopleto be putting up withall this crap. Just hope everything works out for the better for everyone ASAP. Keep up the good work and try to stay as positive as you can gb.

I have always been this kind of person to put up with these things.As I get older I am starting to wonder at what time to you go from being "great people" for putting up with it, to being "bad" for enabling as being part of the problem and not to the solution?

I don't mean "bad" that they are bad people, just i guess opposite of being great for putting up with it.

I guess there is some level of patience and empathy you should show, but there comes a time where you becomes part of the overall problem?

 

[Smack Tripper]

I guess it's Friday, right?

Nothing has really changed. She still goes out, pawning the kids off to whomever will watch them. Recently the wife and I have taken the stance that she's going to do whatever she wants, so we're more inclined to watcher her kids. More for their sake, than hers. They need some stability in their lives, and we're doing our best to try and give it to them.

As stated before, she watches our twin girls a couple days a week. Recently she's started hinting that she would like to be paid for her services.....YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!!!!! She's nuts if she thinks I'll give her a dime. Next time she asks for $$$ I'm going to flip out the mortgage, electric, gas, water bill and ask her to pay one of them.

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

In shape and not smoking she'll be easier to pawn off. I'd be supportive personally.

my thoughts exactly. She really only has 2-3 years to find a man, you need to be a partner in this to get her out of the. Mid 30's chicks with three kids have limited appeal.

 

[Jaysus]

what was she wearing during the P90X workout?

 

[Lieutenant Dan]

what was she wearing during the P90X workout?

 

[Joe Summer]

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

What, you don't think the P90X and quitting smoking is a good start?

 

[Wrigley]

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

What, you don't think the P90X and quitting smoking is a good start?

She hasn't quit yet, and it's been a whopping 3 days on P90XAs I said before, I hope this gives her a more positive outlook......I'm just not sure she can keep it up.

We're being as supportive as we possibly can.

 

[General Malaise]

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

What, you don't think the P90X and quitting smoking is a good start?

She hasn't quit yet, and it's been a whopping 3 days on P90XAs I said before, I hope this gives her a more positive outlook......I'm just not sure she can keep it up.

We're being as supportive as we possibly can.

Can we be a little more supportive with some visual evidence? Maybe offer to take before/after pics of her on P90X and tell her there's a bunch of dudes on a fantasy football message board rooting her on...some of us actually still have our hair.

 

[Snickers]

Of course there is nobody like her on government assistance, those folks are all motivated to improve their lot in life.

 

[Please See Mine]

Of course there is nobody like her on government assistance, those folks are all motivated to improve their lot in life.

It's like you're saying what we're all thinking.I have a question, though.Which one of those pics is supposed to be new?

 

[chet]

Have her join one of the sugar daddy websites.

 

[Giant Wooden Badger]

Time to start posting P90X progress pics, IMO.

 

[chet]

Time to start posting P90X progress pics, IMO.

very

 

[NCCommish]

Of course there is nobody like her on government assistance, those folks are all motivated to improve their lot in life.

It's like you're saying what we're all thinking.I have a question, though.

Which one of those pics is supposed to be new?

No not all of us

 

[Wrigley]

Of course there is nobody like her on government assistance, those folks are all motivated to improve their lot in life.

It's like you're saying what we're all thinking.I have a question, though.

Which one of those pics is supposed to be new?

Neither are very new(about a year old)But I'm reluctant to look for pictures on my home pc, as I don't want my wife knowing that I'm posting pics of her sister here.

 

[sbonomo]

On a side note. I had to stop by the house in the middle of the day recently, and I found my SIL doing, of all things, P90X in my living room. Mind you, this girl hasn't worked out in any capacity since she played high school sports. I asked her what she was doing, and she replied that she would like to stop smoking too....WHAT??? I've never heard her speak about quitting...it was always just part of her life. I like it too much to quit I'm hoping that working out has a positive effect on her outlook on life(I'm sure I'll be wrong)

Overall we're pretty fed up with the situation. She still has no accountability for her actions, and doesn't seem very inclined to do much about it.

What, you don't think the P90X and quitting smoking is a good start?

She hasn't quit yet, and it's been a whopping 3 days on P90XAs I said before, I hope this gives her a more positive outlook......I'm just not sure she can keep it up.

We're being as supportive as we possibly can.

Can we be a little more supportive with some visual evidence? Maybe offer to take before/after pics of her on P90X and tell her there's a bunch of dudes on a fantasy football message board rooting her on...some of us actually still have our hair.

this guy knows things!

 

[squidrope]

Of course there is nobody like her on government assistance, those folks are all motivated to improve their lot in life.

It's like you're saying what we're all thinking.I have a question, though.

Which one of those pics is supposed to be new?

Neither are very new(about a year old)But I'm reluctant to look for pictures on my home pc, as I don't want my wife knowing that I'm posting pics of her sister here.

Honest but answer

 

[chet]

Of course there is nobody like her on government assistance, those folks are all motivated to improve their lot in life.

It's like you're saying what we're all thinking.I have a question, though.

Which one of those pics is supposed to be new?

Neither are very new(about a year old)But I'm reluctant to look for pictures on my home pc, as I don't want my wife knowing that I'm posting pics of her sister here.

Come on. If you get caught, justify it by saying that you were updating the folks (yes, use that word) who advised you on how to handle your SIL.Think outside the box, son.

 

[Osaurus]

Nice update.

 

[Oh Yes!]

we're going bowling tonight!

 

[Tom Hagen]

we're going bowling tonight!

You and the SIL? Take some pics.

 

[popeye]

Apparently Soothsayer is having problems with squirrels. You two could compare notes.

 

[Please See Mine]

Of course there is nobody like her on government assistance, those folks are all motivated to improve their lot in life.

It's like you're saying what we're all thinking.I have a question, though.

Which one of those pics is supposed to be new?

No not all of us

 

[Dungeon Master]

Maybe offer to take before/after pics of her on P90X and tell her there's a bunch of dudes on a fantasy football message board rooting her on...some of us actually still have our hair.

And others of us can actually go out in the sun!

 

[SecondCity34]

It's almost the end of October. Is she packing up her stuff yet?

 

[Limp Ditka]

Potential SIL sighting in Joliet. Was she at Heroes West last night?

 

[Oh Yes!]

Potential SIL sighting in Joliet. Was she at Heroes West last night?

very possible. i love that bar btw. the mark macon bacon burger is fantastic.

 

[Limp Ditka]

Potential SIL sighting in Joliet. Was she at Heroes West last night?

very possible. i love that bar btw. the mark macon bacon burger is fantastic.

They make a fine burger. Have to remind myself to stay away from the 1#ers though. That's too damn much....And those waffles fries. I don't think one's ever survived a table I was sitting at.

 

[chet]

update?

 

[Wrigley]

Potential SIL sighting in Joliet. Was she at Heroes West last night?

It's a bar right? Not much new to report...shes' still here.Had a job, lost a job in less than a week. Claims she lost the job because of her boyfriends ex(who also works at same place)Wife and I are ready to move out ourselves.

 

[Wrigley]

Couple quick updates

She's still here. :shootmenow:

Apparently we're finally starting to get through to her. She's recently taken on more hours at "work". She's an underwriter for an insurance company, and her manager has agreed to up her hours from 10/week to 30/week. It's not much, but it's a start.....this, of course, comes at an expense to us too. We've now lost our sitter(two days a week). So our girls will now be watched by my wife's cousin 5 days a week($30 a day-still cheap as hell)

We've told her that with the extra hours she'll be working that she will be expected to pay rent....we have yet to come up with a number. At first she thought it was an attack on her because she was no longer watching our girls. WTF? YOU LIVE HERE FOR FREE!!!! Apparently she doesn't realize it cost $$$$ to feed, clean, house her kids...... She has no clue.

She also has an interview for bartender position at a local restaurant/bar(girls wear close to nothing)....this job would be perfect for her.

An interesting twist to this drama is that the husband has been in contact with the SIL. He's talking about moving back to Illinois, with hope of trying to save the marriage. She really has no intention of making amends, as she's getting pretty hot and heavy with her new boy toy.. Her kids have asked Santa to please bring back dad to them. :heartbreaking:

I've also recently learned that the SIL has been talking to the husbands step brother. The step brother has offered to pay the SIL for the seex. Huh? Wife thinks the sister may have already taken him up on this. At least she said she wouldn't put her sister past this.

She is a real piece of work......she's got a major case of the crazies.

Anyone want to take her off my hands?

 

[slayer666]

Anyone want to take her off my hands?

Not a chance, I'd kick her ### out.

 

[SecondCity34]

Couple quick updates

She's still here. :shootmenow:

Apparently we're finally starting to get through to her. She's recently taken on more hours at "work". She's an underwriter for an insurance company, and her manager has agreed to up her hours from 10/week to 30/week. It's not much, but it's a start.....this, of course, comes at an expense to us too. We've now lost our sitter(two days a week). So our girls will now be watched by my wife's cousin 5 days a week($30 a day-still cheap as hell)

We've told her that with the extra hours she'll be working that she will be expected to pay rent....we have yet to come up with a number. At first she thought it was an attack on her because she was no longer watching our girls. WTF? YOU LIVE HERE FOR FREE!!!! Apparently she doesn't realize it cost $$$$ to feed, clean, house her kids...... She has no clue.

She also has an interview for bartender position at a local restaurant/bar(girls wear close to nothing)....this job would be perfect for her.

An interesting twist to this drama is that the husband has been in contact with the SIL. He's talking about moving back to Illinois, with hope of trying to save the marriage. She really has no intention of making amends, as she's getting pretty hot and heavy with her new boy toy.. Her kids have asked Santa to please bring back dad to them. :heartbreaking:

I've also recently learned that the SIL has been talking to the husbands step brother. The step brother has offered to pay the SIL for the seex. Huh? Wife thinks the sister may have already taken him up on this. At least she said she wouldn't put her sister past this.

She is a real piece of work......she's got a major case of the crazies.

Anyone want to take her off my hands?

More pics expected if this happens......

 

[sbonomo]

Couple quick updates

She's still here. :shootmenow:

Apparently we're finally starting to get through to her. She's recently taken on more hours at "work". She's an underwriter for an insurance company, and her manager has agreed to up her hours from 10/week to 30/week. It's not much, but it's a start.....this, of course, comes at an expense to us too. We've now lost our sitter(two days a week). So our girls will now be watched by my wife's cousin 5 days a week($30 a day-still cheap as hell)

We've told her that with the extra hours she'll be working that she will be expected to pay rent....we have yet to come up with a number. At first she thought it was an attack on her because she was no longer watching our girls. WTF? YOU LIVE HERE FOR FREE!!!! Apparently she doesn't realize it cost $$$$ to feed, clean, house her kids...... She has no clue.

She also has an interview for bartender position at a local restaurant/bar(girls wear close to nothing)....this job would be perfect for her.

An interesting twist to this drama is that the husband has been in contact with the SIL. He's talking about moving back to Illinois, with hope of trying to save the marriage. She really has no intention of making amends, as she's getting pretty hot and heavy with her new boy toy.. Her kids have asked Santa to please bring back dad to them. :heartbreaking:

I've also recently learned that the SIL has been talking to the husbands step brother. The step brother has offered to pay the SIL for the seex. Huh? Wife thinks the sister may have already taken him up on this. At least she said she wouldn't put her sister past this.

She is a real piece of work......she's got a major case of the crazies.

Anyone want to take her off my hands?

Please post recent pic for consideration.

 

[Leviathan]

How much longer are you going to put up with this? Seriously. Have you and your wife agreed to a date for when she needs to be gone. Granted, Christmas is right around the corner and you don't want to come across as a Scrooge; but you've already been quite generous. You have the patience of a saint.

 

[encaitar]

Anyone want to take her off my hands?

For a day?

 

[humpback]

Couple quick updates

She's still here. :shootmenow:

Apparently we're finally starting to get through to her. She's recently taken on more hours at "work". She's an underwriter for an insurance company, and her manager has agreed to up her hours from 10/week to 30/week. It's not much, but it's a start.....this, of course, comes at an expense to us too. We've now lost our sitter(two days a week). So our girls will now be watched by my wife's cousin 5 days a week($30 a day-still cheap as hell)

We've told her that with the extra hours she'll be working that she will be expected to pay rent....we have yet to come up with a number. At first she thought it was an attack on her because she was no longer watching our girls. WTF? YOU LIVE HERE FOR FREE!!!! Apparently she doesn't realize it cost $$$$ to feed, clean, house her kids...... She has no clue.

She also has an interview for bartender position at a local restaurant/bar(girls wear close to nothing)....this job would be perfect for her.

An interesting twist to this drama is that the husband has been in contact with the SIL. He's talking about moving back to Illinois, with hope of trying to save the marriage. She really has no intention of making amends, as she's getting pretty hot and heavy with her new boy toy.. Her kids have asked Santa to please bring back dad to them. :heartbreaking:

I've also recently learned that the SIL has been talking to the husbands step brother. The step brother has offered to pay the SIL for the seex. Huh? Wife thinks the sister may have already taken him up on this. At least she said she wouldn't put her sister past this.

She is a real piece of work......she's got a major case of the crazies.

Anyone want to take her off my hands?

More pics expected if this happens......

Or if it doesn't, whatever......

 

[Maik Jeaunz]

Couple quick updates

She's still here. :shootmenow:

Apparently we're finally starting to get through to her. She's recently taken on more hours at "work". She's an underwriter for an insurance company, and her manager has agreed to up her hours from 10/week to 30/week. It's not much, but it's a start.....this, of course, comes at an expense to us too. We've now lost our sitter(two days a week). So our girls will now be watched by my wife's cousin 5 days a week($30 a day-still cheap as hell)

We've told her that with the extra hours she'll be working that she will be expected to pay rent....we have yet to come up with a number. At first she thought it was an attack on her because she was no longer watching our girls. WTF? YOU LIVE HERE FOR FREE!!!! Apparently she doesn't realize it cost $$$$ to feed, clean, house her kids...... She has no clue.

She also has an interview for bartender position at a local restaurant/bar(girls wear close to nothing)....this job would be perfect for her.

An interesting twist to this drama is that the husband has been in contact with the SIL. He's talking about moving back to Illinois, with hope of trying to save the marriage. She really has no intention of making amends, as she's getting pretty hot and heavy with her new boy toy.. Her kids have asked Santa to please bring back dad to them. :heartbreaking:

I've also recently learned that the SIL has been talking to the husbands step brother. The step brother has offered to pay the SIL for the seex. Huh? Wife thinks the sister may have already taken him up on this. At least she said she wouldn't put her sister past this.

She is a real piece of work......she's got a major case of the crazies.

Anyone want to take her off my hands?

what's the going rate?

 

[gandalas]

Couple quick updates

She's still here. :shootmenow:

Apparently we're finally starting to get through to her. She's recently taken on more hours at "work". She's an underwriter for an insurance company, and her manager has agreed to up her hours from 10/week to 30/week. It's not much, but it's a start.....this, of course, comes at an expense to us too. We've now lost our sitter(two days a week). So our girls will now be watched by my wife's cousin 5 days a week($30 a day-still cheap as hell)

We've told her that with the extra hours she'll be working that she will be expected to pay rent....we have yet to come up with a number. At first she thought it was an attack on her because she was no longer watching our girls. WTF? YOU LIVE HERE FOR FREE!!!! Apparently she doesn't realize it cost $$$$ to feed, clean, house her kids...... She has no clue.

She also has an interview for bartender position at a local restaurant/bar(girls wear close to nothing)....this job would be perfect for her.

An interesting twist to this drama is that the husband has been in contact with the SIL. He's talking about moving back to Illinois, with hope of trying to save the marriage. She really has no intention of making amends, as she's getting pretty hot and heavy with her new boy toy.. Her kids have asked Santa to please bring back dad to them. :heartbreaking:

I've also recently learned that the SIL has been talking to the husbands step brother. The step brother has offered to pay the SIL for the seex. Huh? Wife thinks the sister may have already taken him up on this. At least she said she wouldn't put her sister past this.

She is a real piece of work......she's got a major case of the crazies.

Anyone want to take her off my hands?

May have missed all this in the post, but what is the Husband's story? Respectable or not? If he actually is a decent person and has a respectable job, could it be possible the kids would be better off with him?

 

[Warsteinner]

I'd definitely pay for some secks with her. She's much better than your typical backpage skanks.

 

[skillz]

We've told her that with the extra hours she'll be working that she will be expected to pay rent....

I am surprised she didn't respond by quitting her job or working 10 hours/week again when you told her this so she could go back to living at your house rent-free. Or maybe she hasn't thought all that through yet You should really start a St. Louis Bob type poll where people can guess the actual date she finally leaves your house.

 

[ditka...mike ditka]

Couple quick updatesShe's still here. :shootmenow:Apparently we're finally starting to get through to her. She's recently taken on more hours at "work". She's an underwriter for an insurance company, and her manager has agreed to up her hours from 10/week to 30/week. It's not much, but it's a start.....this, of course, comes at an expense to us too. We've now lost our sitter(two days a week). So our girls will now be watched by my wife's cousin 5 days a week($30 a day-still cheap as hell)We've told her that with the extra hours she'll be working that she will be expected to pay rent....we have yet to come up with a number. At first she thought it was an attack on her because she was no longer watching our girls. WTF? YOU LIVE HERE FOR FREE!!!! Apparently she doesn't realize it cost $$$$ to feed, clean, house her kids...... She has no clue.She also has an interview for bartender position at a local restaurant/bar(girls wear close to nothing)....this job would be perfect for her.An interesting twist to this drama is that the husband has been in contact with the SIL. He's talking about moving back to Illinois, with hope of trying to save the marriage. She really has no intention of making amends, as she's getting pretty hot and heavy with her new boy toy.. Her kids have asked Santa to please bring back dad to them. :heartbreaking: I've also recently learned that the SIL has been talking to the husbands step brother. The step brother has offered to pay the SIL for the seex. Huh? Wife thinks the sister may have already taken him up on this. At least she said she wouldn't put her sister past this. She is a real piece of work......she's got a major case of the crazies. Anyone want to take her off my hands?

I'll give it a try. I live in the area, and always end up with the crazies anyway. If I can do you a favor while just continuing my normal dating habits, why not. Ill be at Mahoney's (wicker park) Saturday night. Have her meet me there.