Unexpected Roommates (1 Viewer)

[T Bell]

Just like day one. It's always somebody else's fault.

I have a bad feeling that's how she views her kids, too.

The father(he's never been a dad) hasn't paid a dime in over 7 years....so of course she's got that to complain about.

This has been her fallback complaint since I can remember

How / why isn't this guy behind bars too? People like this make me irate. Does he have any other kids that he's not providing for?

He's not in prison because it's not a crime to not pay, at least not until he's violating court orders to do so. Custody and support are civil matters, which is to say need to be brought to the court's attention in this case by mom/SIL... which, I believe, is the problem. She's obviously not using all of her legal means to force this guy to pay.

 

[Wrigley]

Update: She's still in the clink. Being bonded out today, only to be shipped over to a different county(WILL) to face another warrant(failing to appear)

Being told she's been pulled over 3 times for driving on a suspended license.......could be looking at another 30 days(without bond).

I've heard the Will county is not going to be a pleasant experience. Not going to be a very Merry Christmas for her.

:good:

Wow. Hopefully this will be the kick in pants she needs to get herself straightened out.

I have a feeling it won't be.

I agree. She's an entitled little princess. This is just going to get spun in her mind as her getting screwed over by the courts.

Very likely how she'll perceive it.

Just like day one. It's always somebody else's fault.

Nobody can change her but her. And some people just don't change.

Has CPS gotten involved with the kids yet? I'd say she's nearing that territory.

Wife seems to think the Grandmother may eventually make a play for custody.

At this point I hope she does

It's not that simple. If the grandmother is serious she should get some legal advice. In AZ, it's near impossible for a grandmother to get "custody" without CPS first getting involved.

I considered calling CPS on her myself when she lived with me.

 

[jomar]

I bet she'd be pretty grateful to somehow who bailed her out, eh? just how grateful do you think she'd be?

 

[Big Cat]

Why the hell would she not have a court order for child support in place?

 

[St. Louis Bob]

Damn, sorry to hear this GB.

 

[Insein]

Why the hell would she not have a court order for child support in place?

Cause some women are just too stupid or lazy for words. My half sister has 3 kids from 2 different guys that she is no longer with and doesn't ever bother to file a court order for child support.

 

[Limp Ditka]

Just like day one. It's always somebody else's fault.

I have a bad feeling that's how she views her kids, too.

The father(he's never been a dad) hasn't paid a dime in over 7 years....so of course she's got that to complain about.

This has been her fallback complaint since I can remember

How / why isn't this guy behind bars too? People like this make me irate. Does he have any other kids that he's not providing for?

He's not in prison because it's not a crime to not pay, at least not until he's violating court orders to do so. Custody and support are civil matters, which is to say need to be brought to the court's attention in this case by mom/SIL... which, I believe, is the problem. She's obviously not using all of her legal means to force this guy to pay.

JHC

 

[Wrigley]

Why the hell would she not have a court order for child support in place?

Cause some women are just too stupid or lazy for words. My half sister has 3 kids from 2 different guys that she is no longer with and doesn't ever bother to file a court order for child support.

I'm assuming this. I've done the leg work for all kinds of government assistance for her.......she's useless.

 

[Zow]

Just like day one. It's always somebody else's fault.

I have a bad feeling that's how she views her kids, too.

The father(he's never been a dad) hasn't paid a dime in over 7 years....so of course she's got that to complain about.

This has been her fallback complaint since I can remember

How / why isn't this guy behind bars too? People like this make me irate. Does he have any other kids that he's not providing for?

He's not in prison because it's not a crime to not pay, at least not until he's violating court orders to do so. Custody and support are civil matters, which is to say need to be brought to the court's attention in this case by mom/SIL... which, I believe, is the problem. She's obviously not using all of her legal means to force this guy to pay.

JHC

Debtor's prisons aren't exactly constitutional.

 

[Zow]

Why the hell would she not have a court order for child support in place?

Cause some women are just too stupid or lazy for words. My half sister has 3 kids from 2 different guys that she is no longer with and doesn't ever bother to file a court order for child support.

In a lot of states the Department of Economic Security will get involved too to enforce payments. Legal aid offices may be available to give you a free lawyer too to help.

It really isn't all that hard to get a child support order (just how much is a somewhat different story) and there are lots of incentives in place for someone to pay.

 

[Wrigley]

SIL called the wifey and wants to come over to take her grocery shopping

She's not doing this out of the kindness of her heart(doesn't have one) she wants us to pay her to use her link card

$.50 on the $1 seems about right

I shouldn't feel bad for doing this, right?

I mean, if it's not us, I'm sure she would find someone else.

Seems we only hear from her when she needs something(same as day one)

:hateher:

 

[belljr]

link card?

I'm guessing she just wants cash and is trying to provide a "service"?

 

[sbonomo]

This has been a really good friday........Any chance for updated pics? I am sure she is starting to look very haggard at this point...

 

[Brady Marino]

Makes sense for all involved.

 

[Johnny Rock]

Why doesn't she buy groceries for her kid rather than converting it into cash? Enabling probably isn't helping.

 

[Wrigley]

Why doesn't she buy groceries for her kid rather than converting it into cash? Enabling probably isn't helping.

This would make sense, right? She needs cash to pay off her phone, get beer, and cigs

Point is moot, she never showed up.....wife told her she didn't have the time or patience to deal with hear.

Seems she's seen the light