nirad3
Footballguy
I'm kinda in this camp. Pre-kids, definitely. For the past couple years I went out. Last year I treated myself to dinner/football and then hit up my usual dive. It was boring, so I started investigating what else what going on. Found that a few girls in my college Facebook group were meeting at a bar about 20 minutes away, so I hopped in an Uber (an expensive one at that) and met up with them. They ended up leaving well before midnight and it really wasn't all that fun so I left too. Ended up ringing in the new year sitting in an Uber on the way home in the rain. Super depressing.Pre-kids yes, post-kids no.
Loved going out NYE when I wasn't married, absolutely zero desire to go back out since.
This year I met a buddy for a nice meal, ended up running into a bunch of his neighbor friends so it was more like a dinner party. Had a couple of drinks, went to the dive bar and had one more... but looked at the time (just after 8pm) and figured there'd be no way I lasted 4 hours at the bar, so just went home. Layed on the couch for a bit and just went to bed, asleep well before midnight. The boy tried waking me up to go do sparklers (a NYE tradition in our household) but I just grunted and went back to sleep.
Probably won't be going out next NYE unless I have a date.