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A-List Celebrity To Be Outed As A Sexual Predator (2 Viewers)

New York AG files suit against Weinstein
 

“[Weinstein]'s drivers in both New York City and Los Angeles were required to keep condoms and erectile dysfunction injections in the car, in order to provide them to [Weinstein] as needed,” the lawsuit states.

“Two [company] employee witnesses described having to procure [Weinstein]'s erectile dysfunction shots, one of whom received a [company] bonus for obtaining them and was at times directed by [Weinstein] to administer the injections,” it goes on to state.

“Another [company] witness described how she had to ensure [Weinstein had an adequate supply of them in his travel bag — referred to within the company as his ‘go bag’ — at all times.”
:X

 
Chris Hardwick taking a turn now.

Apparently his ex-girlfriend sometimes didn't want to have sex.  But she did it anyway to keep him happy.

Also, as a recovering alcoholic he "forbid" her from drinking.  Drinking was a deal-breaker for him.

 
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Chris Hardwick taking a turn now.

Apparently his ex-girlfriend sometimes didn't want to have sex.  But she did it anyway to keep him happy.

Also, as a recovering alcoholic he "forbid" her from drinking.  Drinking was a deal-breaker for him.
Can tell just looking at him that he's a monster

 
Chris Hardwick taking a turn now.

Apparently his ex-girlfriend sometimes didn't want to have sex.  But she did it anyway to keep him happy.

Also, as a recovering alcoholic he "forbid" her from drinking.  Drinking was a deal-breaker for him.
Which of us hasn’t had a woman sleep with us reluctantly?

 
Chris Hardwick taking a turn now.

Apparently his ex-girlfriend sometimes didn't want to have sex.  But she did it anyway to keep him happy.

Also, as a recovering alcoholic he "forbid" her from drinking.  Drinking was a deal-breaker for him.
It's so unfair that he's losing jobs and money for these unproven accusations.

 
Chris Hardwick taking a turn now.

Apparently his ex-girlfriend sometimes didn't want to have sex.  But she did it anyway to keep him happy.

Also, as a recovering alcoholic he "forbid" her from drinking.  Drinking was a deal-breaker for him.
Yeah, based on what I’ve read so far I’m no comfortable putting him in the category of some of these other guys.  Being a controlling ####### is different than being a sexual predator.  Her comments about letting him have sex are troubling but I’d like some clarification on what she means.  I’m fine with AMC giving him a leave of absence while they investigate.

 
Chris Hardwick taking a turn now.

Apparently his ex-girlfriend sometimes didn't want to have sex.  But she did it anyway to keep him happy.

Also, as a recovering alcoholic he "forbid" her from drinking.  Drinking was a deal-breaker for him.
JFC, this is now falling under the same category as sexual assault and rape type situations? She had sex with him when she wasn’t in the mood and he didn’t let her drink? Did he tie her up to make her stay his girlfriend? I hope there’s way more than just this because this one is ridiculous. I’m pretty sure every long term sexual relationship has had both parties have sex when they weren’t really in the mood.

 
JFC, this is now falling under the same category as sexual assault and rape type situations? She had sex with him when she wasn’t in the mood and he didn’t let her drink? Did he tie her up to make her stay his girlfriend? I hope there’s way more than just this because this one is ridiculous. I’m pretty sure every long term sexual relationship has had both parties have sex when they weren’t really in the mood.
Im waiting for the mental abuse from men movement in 2025.

"and i didnt really want to go see a broadway play with her mom on Master's final round sunday but i did it anyway cause i didn't want to hear her #### for the next 3 months. It's been hard holding this in for 11 years but its time i speak up so other men know they don't have to suffer this emotional abuse any longer"

#mentoo

#itsourtime

#ihopeshedoesntreadthis

 
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Im waiting for the mental abuse from men movement in 2025.

"and i didnt really want to go see a broadway play with her mom on Master's final round sunday but i did it anyway cause i didn't want to hear her #### for the next 3 months. It's been hard holding this in for 11 years but its time i speak up so other men know they don't have to suffer this emotional abuse any longer"

#mentoo
Yeah, this is just getting ridiculous. If you didn’t want to have sex, then don’t. If you have to relent to stay in a relationship then you are either in a relationship for another reason (like dating a celebrity) or you may want to leave. Coming out years later with something like this is ridiculous. Unless there’s more to this, #### like this really insults the women who had to go things like Harvey Weinstein.

 
Yeah, based on what I’ve read so far I’m no comfortable putting him in the category of some of these other guys.  Being a controlling ####### is different than being a sexual predator.  Her comments about letting him have sex are troubling but I’d like some clarification on what she means.  I’m fine with AMC giving him a leave of absence while they investigate.
I was expected to be ready for him when he came home from work.

How did this happen? At the beginning of our relationship, I was quite ill often due to my diet, something I’ll get to in a bit. One night he initiated, and I said, “I’m so sorry, can we not tonight? I’m feeling really sick.” He responded, “I just want to remind you, the reason my last relationship didn’t work out was because of the lack of sex.” It was a veiled threat. I succumbed.

Every night, I laid there for him, occasionally in tears. He called it “starfishing”. He thought the whole idea was funny. To be fair, I did go along with it out of fear of losing him. I’m still recovering from being sexually used (not in a super fun way) for three years.
I'm pretty comfortable saying #### Chris Hardwick :shrug:

 
Assuming it went down the way she describes in that quote, I'm comfortable saying Hardwick is a jerk, but the rest is on her.  She basically is saying she allowed him to F her because she didn't want to lose him...for 3 years!  Come on.  You don't want to lose someone who is a controlling jerk and treats you like a play toy?  Reject his advance if you aren't in the mood.  If he forces further, then he is a criminal.  If he leaves you over it, then you didn't have much of a relationship anyway.  Move on.

 
Assuming it went down the way she describes in that quote, I'm comfortable saying Hardwick is a jerk, but the rest is on her.  She basically is saying she allowed him to F her because she didn't want to lose him...for 3 years!  Come on.  You don't want to lose someone who is a controlling jerk and treats you like a play toy?  Reject his advance if you aren't in the mood.  If he forces further, then he is a criminal.  If he leaves you over it, then you didn't have much of a relationship anyway.  Move on.
That's not really how emotional abuse works. Did you guys actually read what she wrote?

 
That's not really how emotional abuse works. Did you guys actually read what she wrote?
No...I only read the small quote you posted above.  Reading through the whole story does paint a bigger picture, and I'll agree with you when you say #### Chris Hardwick.  But it still seems she could have avoided this situation from the beginning.  I think she has her own issues that allowed her to accept this kind of relationship from the start.  Clearly Hardwick exploited those issues.  

 
No...I only read the small quote you posted above.  Reading through the whole story does paint a bigger picture, and I'll agree with you when you say #### Chris Hardwick.  But it still seems she could have avoided this situation from the beginning.  I think she has her own issues that allowed her to accept this kind of relationship from the start.  Clearly Hardwick exploited those issues.  
For me, even though that's a lot of psycho controlling behaviour... the alleged blacklisting is the worst part for me. Yeah she was weak, in a bad place and he took advantage. But she says no and walks and that's it- that level of control was always there waiting for her when she was ready. The blacklisting is completely out of her control and even more ####ed up imo.

 
No...I only read the small quote you posted above.  Reading through the whole story does paint a bigger picture, and I'll agree with you when you say #### Chris Hardwick.  But it still seems she could have avoided this situation from the beginning.  I think she has her own issues that allowed her to accept this kind of relationship from the start.  Clearly Hardwick exploited those issues.  
Agree - I only read what was in the initial post and the first hit on a google search.  Which highlights another issue unrelated to the #metoo movement but just getting part of a story when reading online.  Hardwick seems like a huge ####### but I still see a distinction between that and a sexual predator.  Both are horrible and deserve our scorn.  The former absolutely deserves jail time - this with Hardwick, I’m honestly not sure but would lean towards no until I read more.  

As an aside, I’ve never understood the mindset of one of these guys who is so controlling.  Is it a power thing? Insecurity?  I just don’t know what the payoff is for that person. Sounds like a horrible way to live and even worse for the people you do that to.

 
For me, even though that's a lot of psycho controlling behaviour... the alleged blacklisting is the worst part for me. Yeah she was weak, in a bad place and he took advantage. But she says no and walks and that's it- that level of control was always there waiting for her when she was ready. The blacklisting is completely out of her control and even more ####ed up imo.
That’s the power that backs up the control.  

40 year old celebrity with 25 year old podcaster.  

 
That’s the power that backs up the control.  

40 year old celebrity with 25 year old podcaster.  
Henry - as one of our resident legal experts is there anything in this Hardwick story that seems criminal?  Guy is a douchenozzle but curious if it rises to anything beyond that.

 
Henry - as one of our resident legal experts is there anything in this Hardwick story that seems criminal?  Guy is a douchenozzle but curious if it rises to anything beyond that.
I dont think the accuser is saying otherwise. Shes just saying she was in an mentally abusive relationship.

 
What's the purpose on publicly coming out on these matters?

If Chris Hardwick was Frank O Brien, Assistant Manager at Footlocker would this woman post on twitter? Take a full page ad in local paper?

I get confronting your abuser or talking to your close friends or family about this but what is the general reasoning behind;  I need to let the world know i was in a bad relationship so here are all the details. 

 
That's how I took it, and I'm fine with Chris Hardwick being publicly shunned.  If half of what she describes really happened, he's a horrible person.
And if it's all lies? 

Not fair...just not fair. People already assume everything is true and immediately call Hardwick an ####### (@Northern Voice).

I say we wait until there is some sort of evidence (aside from verbal allegations from an ex) before we start forming negative opinions on people.

 
And if it's all lies? 

Not fair...just not fair. People already assume everything is true and immediately call Hardwick an ####### (@Northern Voice).

I say we wait until there is some sort of evidence (aside from verbal allegations from an ex) before we start forming negative opinions on people.
His response is terrible, it doesn't address half the issues she raises. He is an #######, there's no reason not to believe her and it's a terrible case to take a "all the men being persecuted" stand on. 

 
I wasn't familiar with this term "starfishing" so I took to teh googles.  Guess what?  There are TWO definitions and I'm guessing Hardwick's ex did NOT mean the second one.  :oldunsure:

 
It's a shame that people are focusing on Hardwick's sexual demands. The real story here is the mental and emotional abuse -- it sounds like textbook controlling behavior.

 
Exactly. She knew what was up in the first 2 weeks of the relationship.
Thats where i'm having an issue with this. His rules (as crazy as they were) were nothing illegal or anything...just "I want sex" and "I dont want you around other men" type stuff. If that didn't set off red flags within the 1st 2 weeks, then thats on her.  Even after he said to here "my last relationship ended b/c of lack of sex" then that was her door to say "well, I'm not into this, so bye" 

And IDK his career timeline, but ti seems like he was just 'a podcaster' when they started dating, not the mega celeb he is now. So it wasn't all bc she was star struck. 

there really seems to be a blurred line on who's responsibly it is to end things. Dude was a sex freak...ok, but he was't having here go have sex with livestock or while they were on a cross country bank robbing spree against her will. Women push for equal power but then stories like this come out where "I said b/c i was an emotional wreck" and it casts a shadow on that. 

And as someone mentioned before, if Steve the associate accountant at some local widget company was as freaky leaky controlling as him, his career wouldn't be in jeopardy because of it. I'm far from a celebrity worshiper, but these public lynchings at the very mention of something being wrong is out of control. 

 
I wasn't familiar with this term "starfishing" so I took to teh googles.  Guess what?  There are TWO definitions and I'm guessing Hardwick's ex did NOT mean the second one.  :oldunsure:
I did the Google thing to look it up. Um, I didn't know that was a thing, nor have I tried it, can't see it working, yet am intrigued. Not sure what kind of satisfaction would come from it though.

 
And if it's all lies? 

Not fair...just not fair. People already assume everything is true and immediately call Hardwick an ####### (@Northern Voice).

I say we wait until there is some sort of evidence (aside from verbal allegations from an ex) before we start forming negative opinions on people.
People don't care if it isn't true. They don't care about anyone's reputation. They just want to see another person trashed. Makes them feel better about themselves. 

 
People don't care if it isn't true. They don't care about anyone's reputation. They just want to see another person trashed. Makes them feel better about themselves. 
Yes I want to see people who emotionally abuse and treat other people like their private property "trashed". For the record I feel pretty similar about people who want to blame the victim...

 
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Yes I want to see people who emotionally abuse and treat other people like their private property "trashed". For the record I feel pretty similar about people who want to blame the victim...
Do you at least agree that it's harder to feel sorry for her after he laid out his "rules" and flaws after 2 weeks into the relationship?

She chose to stick around.

 
Yes I want to see people who emotionally abuse and treat other people like their private property "trashed". For the record I feel pretty similar about people who want to blame the victim...
Dude, she specifically stated in her article that within 2 weeks he was giving her rules.  She signed up for whatever "abuse" you think he did to her.  2 weeks in and yet she stays.  Thats 100% all on her.  Like the Aziz story its total BS that someones rep is just drug through the mud in the name of a scorned woman.  Its so ridiculous that it has gotten to this point.

 

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