you wanted the official NOT to throw the flag even though the player who drew the flag said he deserved the flag
IMO, you are making way more out of this "admission" than it deserves. I just outlined that the refs hadn't thrown a flag for an in-play infraction since the first quarter. If we surveyed the other players on the field that played significant snaps and asked them if they had committed a penalty at some point in the game, they would have said yes and could have pointed out which plays without even thinking much about it. But yet none of those plays were penalized . . . as evidenced by the clear lack of penalties called.
I don't have the time or the access to tape of the game to go and comb through the video to find what should have been penalties on other plays but weren't. My point still stands that even without that visual evidence, the sheer fact that NO PENALTIES were called would reflect that
the refs were focused on NOT throwing flags that day. I'm sorry . . . there is no way in a normal game that they could go 60+ minutes of game action without calling a single penalty other than illegal procedure or offsides. That just doesn't happen. Then to call what amounted to a ticky-tack foul in the final 2 minutes of overtime seemed out of place. IMO, at that point in the game, a defender would have had to have mauled a receiver or dragged him to get a call in that situation where it was obvious that the defender was beaten and trying not to give up a TD. But that's just my value judgement of how late game situations should be called.
But we live in an imperfect world. Receivers get grabbed coming off the LOS on practically every play. If the ref on that particular play felt that that DB's actions were more egregious than the actions and contact of all the other DBs on 65 other passing plays, so be it. I still look at it that play and think that James Bradbury got ticketed for doing 56 mph in a 55-mph zone when there were other cars on that day that went zipping by at 85 or 90.