This topic really pushes my buttons. I could give you a few dozen similar stories of where some "big name" store screwed me over. But the fact of the matter is that it's nobody's fault but OUR OWN. The mom and pop stores are gone because we sold our souls to the "big corporations". About 10 years back my sister owned a very profitable small electronics store. Profitable that is, until "Best Buy" and "Circuit City" came to town. They were out of business within a year because they just couldn't compete with the big guys. Saw the same thing happen to our small town video store - "Hollywood Video" came into town and sold video rentals for $1. The "mom and pop" video store went out of business in 3 months and then Hollywood changed their video rentals to $3. This has happened all across America. So what do we have now? Nothing but the same old stores EVERYWHERE you go. The malls look almost identical everywhere you go - Red Lobster, Outback Steakhouse, Radio Shack, Best Buy, Wal-Mart (the WORST of them all). Personal service has been replaced with "corporate policies" that take common sense and throw it out the door because when you enter a store now, the "owner" is no longer there. The "owner" is some big, fat, rich, CEO who sets "corporate policies" and only looks at numbers (instead of customers) to determine how successful his business is.I'm not saying that you can't go to Olive Garden for dinner or Home Depot once in a while but when you constantly give your money to these big "super saver stores" and then expect fantastic customer service - Sorry your living in a dream world. WE made this bed, guess what? WE have to lie in it also. Maybe when we are all handing out friggin "smiley" stickers at Wal-Mart for minimum wage, then maybe somebody will get it... doubt it though......
Well what was your sister's price structure? What was her return policy? Our days of wishing for mom and pop's ignore the many problems in those stores. And in my experience, for every good mom and pop that goes under, you had three knuckleheads that were unwilling to adjust to the big corporate monster in their midst. I know they can better afford loss leaders and other gimmicks to bring foot traffic into the store, but most mom and pops do have the advantage of being the established vendor in town. That is unless they've already pissed off the local base and driven them away.
Mom and Pops need to bring something to the table other than being local. I can try to patronize them all I want, but if I can't get a new release for a month, and I'll pay three times as much for it whe I get it, well life isn't short and it isn't a charity. Most have turned to porno, and that would be fulfilling a need not met by the big guys.
As for the other Mom and Pops, I'll support them the best I can, but business is Darwinian. If you can't compete, don't look for a consumer subsidity of mercy.