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Can we discuss pet peeves here? (6 Viewers)

Repeatedly parking in front of your neighbor’s house. Yay or nay?

Live in the suburbs, houses all have carports or garages. Same neighbor parks outrigger canoe on trailer + truck on street in front of his house and another neighbor.
I know HOAs get a bad rap, but this is the kind of situation where I'm glad to have one.  People shouldn't be routinely parking on the streets, and in particular they need to find someplace to put their trailer and outdoor equipment.  It's one thing when you have family visiting from out of town and you have a few extra cars that can't all fit on your driveway.  It's another thing when you just don't have your #### together.  

 
Repeatedly parking in front of your neighbor’s house. Yay or nay?

Live in the suburbs, houses all have carports or garages. Same neighbor parks outrigger canoe on trailer + truck on street in front of his house and another neighbor.
hell no....  As Ivan mentioned above....

I mean if its an occasional thing like going to use it this weekend and getting it ready sure..... but all the time nope.

My neighbor across the street used to park in front of my house and it drove me insane :lol:

 
Apologies if this has been discussed before, but I’m curious to hear people’s thoughts. Which bugs you more:

1) The people who drive all the way up to the front of a long line of exiting traffic only to cut in at the last moment

OR

2) The person in front of you in that long line of exiting traffic who allows people to cut in at the last moment
It depends on 1 is a zipper merge or not.  

Assuming not a zipper 1 still worse than 2

 
hell no....  As Ivan mentioned above....

I mean if its an occasional thing like going to use it this weekend and getting it ready sure..... but all the time nope.

My neighbor across the street used to park in front of my house and it drove me insane :lol:
It only bugs me if their space is still open.

 
belljr said:
bigbottom said:
Apologies if this has been discussed before, but I’m curious to hear people’s thoughts. Which bugs you more:

1) The people who drive all the way up to the front of a long line of exiting traffic only to cut in at the last moment

OR

2) The person in front of you in that long line of exiting traffic who allows people to cut in at the last moment
It depends on 1 is a zipper merge or not.  

Assuming not a zipper 1 still worse than 2


This. Also assuming #2 is only letting in one person.  More than one and they start becoming the bigger problem for me.

 
People that drive with their brights on. 


I don't see the problem with this.  I often drive with my brights on at night, as long as there isn't someone in front of me or approaching in the other direction.

How about people who act like they don't know what you obviously really mean when you say something that could be taken a different way?  ;)  Those people are really annoying.  

 
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How about people who act like they don't know what you obviously really mean when you say something that could be taken a different way?  Those people are really annoying.
Dezbelief side eyes kid #1.

 
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I don't see the problem with this.  I often drive with my brights on at night, as long as there isn't someone in front of me or approaching in the other direction.
Read a story a few years ago where a guy flashed his lights on an oncoming car because he thought that car had their bright lights on, but didn't.  That oncoming car was a cop and he pulled the guy over.  Then somehow there was a confrontation and the guy who flashed his lights went after the cop's gun.  There was a scuffle and the cop ended up shooting him dead.  Moral of the story, don't flash your lights at another car.

 
belljr said:
It depends on 1 is a zipper merge or not.  

Assuming not a zipper 1 still worse than 2




This. Also assuming #2 is only letting in one person.  More than one and they start becoming the bigger problem for me.
Yeah not a Zipper merge. See, I’m torn. Obviously #1 is a jerk, and that of course annoys me. #2 isn’t a jerk at all, but they are enabling the jerk. #1 would happen a whole lot less often if the rest of us who follow basic protocol banded together to ensure that the #1s of the world were not rewarded for their jerky behavior. So ultimately I find myself working to thwart #1, but it’s #2 that probably ends up irking me more (and, yes, particularly so if they are letting in multiple cars).

 
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Yeah not a Zipper merge. See, I’m torn. Obviously #1 is a jerk, and that of course annoys me. #2 isn’t a jerk at all, but they are enabling the jerk. #1 would happen a whole lot less often if the rest of us who follow basic protocol banded together to ensure that the #1s of the world were not rewarded for their jerky behavior. So ultimately I find myself working to thwart #1, but it’s #2 that probably ends up irking me more (and, yes, particularly so if they are letting in multiple cars).
Make no mistake #2 is not off the hook -  im just more annoyed with jerk #1.....

I used to joke I wish I was filthy rich because then I would teach people "valuable road lessons" and not care about the cost of tickets, repairs etc   You want to try to make the turn after it was already red and we have a green light - meet my bumper

 
Repeatedly parking in front of your neighbor’s house. Yay or nay?

Live in the suburbs, houses all have carports or garages. Same neighbor parks outrigger canoe on trailer + truck on street in front of his house and another neighbor.
Nay. Neighbors have 4 cars and constantly jockey them around and park in front of my house all the time. They also used to use my driveway as their own turn around leaving tread marks all over my sidewalk/bonnet. I think they got the hint about not doing it when I put green traffic cones across my bonnet. They still park in front of my house all the time though. It’s annoying. 

 
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Yeah not a Zipper merge. See, I’m torn. Obviously #1 is a jerk, and that of course annoys me. #2 isn’t a jerk at all, but they are enabling the jerk. #1 would happen a whole lot less often if the rest of us who follow basic protocol banded together to ensure that the #1s of the world were not rewarded for their jerky behavior. So ultimately I find myself working to thwart #1, but it’s #2 that probably ends up irking me more (and, yes, particularly so if they are letting in multiple cars).
If there is that big of a line of cars in 1 lane and not the other, it sounds like it should turn into or should have already turned into a zipper merge.

 
Yeah not a Zipper merge. See, I’m torn. Obviously #1 is a jerk, and that of course annoys me. #2 isn’t a jerk at all, but they are enabling the jerk. #1 would happen a whole lot less often if the rest of us who follow basic protocol banded together to ensure that the #1s of the world were not rewarded for their jerky behavior. So ultimately I find myself working to thwart #1, but it’s #2 that probably ends up irking me more (and, yes, particularly so if they are letting in multiple cars).
#1 is 100% to blame.

Emotionally I feel like you do about #2, but the last thing you want to do is create an accident just to be right or to prove a point. Better to let someone in who is a jerk than to play police officer and someone gets hurt or major property damage occurs.

 
Nay. Neighbors have 4 cars and constantly jockey them around and park in front of my house all the time. They also used to use my driveway as their own turn around leaving tread marks all over my sidewalk/bonnet. I think they got the hint about not doing it when I put green traffic cones across my bonnet. They still park in front of my house all the time though. It’s annoying. 
WTF is a "bonnet"?  I thought they were to be worn on the head.

 
hell no....  As Ivan mentioned above....

I mean if its an occasional thing like going to use it this weekend and getting it ready sure..... but all the time nope.

My neighbor across the street used to park in front of my house and it drove me insane :lol:
It’s all the time and irritates the f out of me.
 

Tbh, having cycled for years and almost getting the “door prize” on multiple occasions, I don’t like street parking period. I guess it’s ok in cities, but this is the suburbs and he has a two car garage. I’m not sure what that’s being used for, but it’s likely storage for other cr@p. 
 

Mailmen must really get pissed when they can’t access mailboxes blocked by parked vehicles. But it’s not against the law, so there’s not really much I can do.

 
bigbottom said:
Apologies if this has been discussed before, but I’m curious to hear people’s thoughts. Which bugs you more:

1) The people who drive all the way up to the front of a long line of exiting traffic only to cut in at the last moment

OR

2) The person in front of you in that long line of exiting traffic who allows people to cut in at the last moment
Don’t ever drive in HI.

Although it’s becoming more and more like the continental US, “island style” is extremely deferential. In general, people allow merging regardless of the circumstances, including occasional abrupt stops on busy thoroughfares to let vehicles in from a side street.

 
I know HOAs get a bad rap, but this is the kind of situation where I'm glad to have one.  People shouldn't be routinely parking on the streets, and in particular they need to find someplace to put their trailer and outdoor equipment.  It's one thing when you have family visiting from out of town and you have a few extra cars that can't all fit on your driveway.  It's another thing when you just don't have your #### together.  


Bingo.  HOAs can be a pain but it's nice not to have to deal with a trailer or a boat parked in my neighborhood.  Shoot, our HOA will send out a nasty gram for too many weeds in your front yard.  

 
People who wall mount TVs too high unnecessarily.

I get when it's over a fireplace mantle...not much you can do there.   But when it's just on a blank wall and it's hung 8 ft high and extreme angled down, just annoys me.   Hang it where it's supposed to be at roughly eye level when sitting on the couch/chair.

On a similar note...people who hang art too high.    Rule of thumb is to have the top third of the piece (just above center) be 5 ft (60") from the floor.

 
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offdee said:
People who wall mount TVs too high unnecessarily.

I get when it's over a fireplace mantle...not much you can do there.   But when it's just on a blank wall and it's hung 8 ft high and extreme angled down, just annoys me.   Hang it where it's supposed to be at roughly eye level when sitting on the couch/chair.

On a similar note...people who hang art too high.    Rule of thumb is to have the top third/middle of the piece be 5 ft (60") from the floor.
The first part is a big peeve of mine.  I don't want to stare up at the ceiling.  Just hang the TV where we can all watch it.  And not scrinched up in a corner, either.  

But hanging art that low means I'd have to have an eyeball in my navel to see it.  The height I hang it at is determined by the size of the piece, it's location, and the context.  I'm 5'8", which is a good average height to go with.  I usually place the art so that the top third line is at about my eye level, but it does vary.  Also, we have ten foot ceilings.  Art hung too low would look very silly.

 
But hanging art that low means I'd have to have an eyeball in my navel to see it.  The height I hang it at is determined by the size of the piece, it's location, and the context.  I'm 5'8", which is a good average height to go with.  I usually place the art so that the top third line is at about my eye level, but it does vary.  Also, we have ten foot ceilings.  Art hung too low would look very silly.
I think you're agreeing with me, without even realizing it. I wrote: Rule of thumb is to have the top third of the piece be 5 ft (60") from the floor.  If you're 5'8", then your eye level for the top third of the piece is right around 60" (5 ft)

Nobody goes right up next to any art 6 inches from your nose to view it, so the eyeball at your naval comment doesn't work....you're always at a distance, sitting on chair/couch which is what makes the 60" from floor appropriate.   I'm 6'2" and have all my art hung at the appropriate height and can view all perfectly.   

And it also doesn't matter how high your ceilings are...the 60" from floor rule still applies and actually helps accentuate tall ceilings which is a desirable design aesthetic.  By hanging art higher just because you have the ceiling height is basically contradicting your previous agreement about hanging TV's too high being a pet peeve.

**IMPORTANT NOTE**  So, no confusion, the 60" from the floor rule is NOT  for the top of the art....it's the middle of the top third quadrant (so just above the center point)

 
Never knowing what medical care will cost before I make a decision on whether to purchase it.

Going to the hospital ER and receiving separate bills from the hospital and the hospital physicians.  Then finding out that the hospital never gave my insurance info to the hospital physicians.

 
Doesn't anyone just order regular coffee anymore?  They hold up the line ordering these drinks that have very little coffee in them.
First week in NYC (1999), stop by what would become my regular bodega. In line waiting to order my bagel in coffee. In my mind, this is like Soup Nazi in Seinfeld: out the order in, slide to the left toward the cashier. The two guys in front of me order “coffee regular.” Got it!

My expectation: black coffee

My reality: only in New York, coffee regular means a bunch of milk and 2-3 healing teaspoons of sugar. What the af.

Didn’t make that mistake again.

:lol:

 
First week in NYC (1999), stop by what would become my regular bodega. In line waiting to order my bagel in coffee. In my mind, this is like Soup Nazi in Seinfeld: out the order in, slide to the left toward the cashier. The two guys in front of me order “coffee regular.” Got it!

My expectation: black coffee

My reality: only in New York, coffee regular means a bunch of milk and 2-3 healing teaspoons of sugar. What the af.

Didn’t make that mistake again.

:lol:
When I got here in 86, that was called "sweet and light". "Black", "sweet", "light" we're the options. But you went for either of those last two at your own peril...as you say- the sugar dispenser would pour endlessly and they'd leave half the cup for the milk and sugar 

I think you're agreeing with me, without even realizing it. I wrote: Rule of thumb is to have the top third of the piece be 5 ft (60") from the floor.  If you're 5'8", then your eye level for the top third of the piece is right around 60" (5 ft)

Nobody goes right up next to any art 6 inches from your nose to view it, so the eyeball at your naval comment doesn't work....you're always at a distance, sitting on chair/couch which is what makes the 60" from floor appropriate.   I'm 6'2" and have all my art hung at the appropriate height and can view all perfectly.   

And it also doesn't matter how high your ceilings are...the 60" from floor rule still applies and actually helps accentuate tall ceilings which is a desirable design aesthetic.  By hanging art higher just because you have the ceiling height is basically contradicting your previous agreement about hanging TV's too high being a pet peeve.

**IMPORTANT NOTE**  So, no confusion, the 60" from the floor rule is NOT  for the top of the art....it's the middle of the top third quadrant (so just above the center point)
Yeah...I was taught in arch school 5'-2" was our standard for eye level...at that point for window heights with same rationale.

Finding spots for art in homes is part of my job- My 1% of the 1% residential clients are literal collectors (like, have their own actual museums to hang some of their massive collections of stuff that scares me to be too close to) and my most successful boss (this guy) told me more than once- you think we make our money on "this stuff" (pointing to the gajillion dollar houses I was working on)....no- it's "that stuff" (pointing to his own massive collection of art in the office he bought and sold) .

As a standard, you guys are both saying the same thing and are both right- top third at eye level. Some times the actual artist may want a piece hung a specific way, and typically we get art consultant/hangers who combine pieces to put some lower or higher. Ceiling heights are irrelevant in the equation for single pieces, other than providing the opportunity to size up and allowing easier vertical stacking for multiple.

 
When I got here in 86, that was called "sweet and light". "Black", "sweet", "light" we're the options. But you went for either of those last two at your own peril...as you say- the sugar dispenser would pour endlessly and they'd leave half the cup for the milk and sugar 
Why a “regular coffee” means coffee with cream and sugar

(aka coffee regular depending on which neighborhood)

This has been explained to me scores of times. Still doesn’t make sense to my Midwestern mind.

 
sweet and light must been a morningside heights bodega/coffee cart thing.

eta: or maybe it just shifted over time to "regular"
Oh, I’ve heard sweet & light used.

FiDi & Brooklyn Heights/Boerum Hill/Cobble Hill were overwhelmingly “coffee regular” places.

In bodegas. When we still had them. Both of the local places which were my corner of the block go-to places for a decade are gone. Replaced by an Aussie pottery store and a trust fund kid with their own clothing label.

 
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Oh, I’ve heard sweet & light used.

FiDi & Brooklyn Heights/Boerum Hill/Cobble Hill were overwhelmingly “coffee regular” places.

In bodegas. When we still had them. Both of the local places which were my corner of the block go-to places for a decade are gone. Replaced by an Aussie pottery store and a trust fund kid with their own clothing label.
oh... floppinho and I are out in SF to visit my mom. as punishment, she took us to the ballet where she's a regular and knows all the people who sit around her. started talking to another old couple- asked where he grew up... "a quiet part of NY". I was thinking upstate somewhere like the Finger Lakes- "Manhattan Beach". That's where you are, right?

what's Layne-ita's plan for HS?

 
**IMPORTANT NOTE**  So, no confusion, the 60" from the floor rule is NOT  for the top of the art....it's the middle of the top third quadrant (so just above the center point)
I got that.  It is way too low.  I have that line at about 5'6", depending on furniture placement and other factors.

At least things aren't all lined up so the tops are at the same level.  Mr R had an odd idea that way.

 
I got that.  It is way too low.  I have that line at about 5'6", depending on furniture placement and other factors.

At least things aren't all lined up so the tops are at the same level.  Mr R had an odd idea that way.
Well, from a professional design perspective you’re just wrong. 

 
sweet and light must been a morningside heights bodega/coffee cart thing.

eta: or maybe it just shifted over time to "regular"


i've been here my whole life, imported coffee for 30 some odd years, been in and outta thousands of bodegas & cafes over the past 45+ years ... and i never once heard "sweet & light" - never. 

it's "light & sweet", and, if you think that's nipicking, then ya just don't know. 

btw, do yourselves a favor and grab a con leche some day soon. 

:bye:

 
You also have 7 visible cords coming down from it too, don't you?
This drives me nuts. Everytime I see this in someones house I just want to grab a fish tape from my toolbox and hide that #### in the wall via a junction box down low. 

 

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