This one is for
@Instinctive and others a few pages back, maybe a couple months they were railing about all the tipping so I wanted to share
-I go to order a rather high end iPhone case for around $80-$100, I'm sure if some one posts the name it will ring a bell. I go to checkout online and put in all my information when suddenly I am prompted to "show my support for the team" that is putting my little package together, basically the shipping clerk because I haven't spoken to a single person from the company
It was like $5-$10 they wanted me to throw on top like a tip, this took off during the pandemic when everyone was suddenly a front line worker. I was stunned they would even suggest for me to do such a thing
-I hit cancel or opted not to go thru with the order and decided to just buy one of these
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DGFPC2GR/ref=twister_B0DGKKRWBG?_encoding=UTF8&th=1 for about $30 instead, wood look with a rosy faded American flag on the back and get more compliments on it than I would have expected.
I just felt icky when they prompted me for more money on a product that was pretty expensive to begin with
Ryan London was the name come to think of it
-They make you feel like these folks are just working for pennies in a sweat shop which might not be far off the truth but I think all of that should be included into whatever price I pay
Idk how I feel that my brand may be "the guy who generally thinks tipping is overdone..." but I think maybe I love it xD
This wasn't a dining experience or take out food or...I have had men working extremely hard on my house over the last month, I personally handed most of the workers operating under the contractor's license, I tipped almost all of them cash out of my pocket when they completed different parts of the renovation, this was above what they were getting paid, it felt right
But asking me to throw in extra money to an online order that involved no humans through the entire process just felt cheap and unprofessional by the company, I exercised my right to stop the order immediately and I never followed up with the company, why waste my time? They clearly show where they side and it's not with the consumer so I pushed off and bought off Amazon
I believe in tipping, I do it often but not for what i was trying to buy online
For the record, my stance is:
1. if it's just the expected standard, it doesn't accomplish anything. Tipping is for excellent service. So just making it normal everywhere is moronic.
2. Tips for just doing the freaking job are total crap. Tipping takeout food, a delivery driver, etc...like I paid you for delivery. Just price it correctly. Or...your job is to make the food. I paid you to make it. Price it correctly.
3. Even tipping for caddies annoys the **** out of me. Like...if the "standard tip is $80 here" then just pay your ****ing caddies $80 more/round, charge me for it, and then at the end if my caddy was awesome I can add more on top. If the caddy literally did their job, carried the bags, and was kind, I don't see how that's above and beyond. Now, say the guy is funny, is giving great reads, sharing good course knowledge, etc...making the experience great - that deserves a tip! Anything else like this - say, valet parking - if I just had to wait and you brought the car and my mirrors have been moved or my seat has been moved, that's not above and beyond. That's doing the bare minimum job of valet parking a car. Or an uber driver - if it takes the same estimated time or longer, idk why I'd tip you. If you were willing to do some sort of driving I would do personally but is probably a bit aggressive, but saved me time, that's worthy of a tip.
4. At any repeat interaction, I'm WAY more likely to tip and not be that annoyed. Anyone working at a hotel I stay in 50+ nights/year. Anyone at a CC you frequent. Bartender at the place you're a regular. All inclusive resort on day 1, and again on your last day. Etc.
5. Doing a great job of providing service (like your example above) is exactly what tipping is for. Rewarding outstanding service. Period. That is tipping in its purest form.