Yeah I do. Two parts really. The first was economic. The ACA especially and what is has to done to small business owners and self employed people. Because it is killing us. I spend more on health insurance now by almost double than before it was passed and now spend more annually than I made at my first job after my masters program. That increase cost for people that have a small business or who are self employed has crushed the family budget because at the same time general wages for everyone else aren't really going up so there are less clients to hire that small business. Or if they do, they want the service for lower prices. So the small business gets hit on both ends. It causes the small business owner to work harder for less or the same money. That means he is home less. Focused less on his family. And on his kids. It stops family fun times, or at least lessens them. Vacations become pie in the sky dreams that you can see on facebook and pinterest but your husband can't afford to do it.
It's an admirable law. It really is. But it hit us right after we thought we were finally going to get some relief from the collapse of '08 and instead it knocked us right back down again. Wives see what the business struggling does to their husbands and in turn their families. And unlike men who can't always connect dot A to dot B, women can. And they know. In our social circle which is rather large the overwhelming majority of the families have a small business husband. Most have stay at home wives. Those wives see the family budget getting mutilated and can directly see the ACA doing it. Or their husbands talk about it. I know I do. I have to make enough in a year to pay two secretaries an annual salary just to make sure my kids have health insurance and we are also forced to get them dental insurance that we don't need.
There are of course other things than the ACA doing this. But that is a clear focal point. Overall, the economic issues for these families though aren't going away. And don't just look at the white collar guys in that group - the blue collar guys are worse off. They don't get paid nearly what they should anymore.
The second issue beyond economic is social. Our kids are growing up too fast. They are being bombarded with social changes that most women aren't ready to talk to their kids about. This is massively evident in my social circles. The moms talk constantly about the social issues of the day and how to deal with them with their kids. There is no filter anymore from news and society through the parent to the child. There just isn't. And the changes in society which ultimately might be necessary, are scary as hell when you feel like you are losing control of your family in the process. I know my wife suffers that a lot. My son comes home from school with projects to deal with issues that she can barely wrap her head around. It's too much too fast, in the middle of the economic issues above. It's creating a stress that they just don't need or want right now.
Now, that one is a little more selfish than the first, but it also results in the same blowback I wrote about above. If you keep pushing and pushing and pushing and the person you are pushing isn't willing to go at some point they are going to actively push back. And I think that is what these women are doing. At least now. I still think Trump was the very worst messenger for the message but he was the only one saying it. These women like my wife see society just rushing head without thinking at all and they are pushing back, hard.
There are other ones. But I'd be willing to bet these are in the top set of issues for the general group. I could be wrong. All I have to go by is the groups of women I know. And that makes anything I say society-oriented biased. But these election results don't lie. When women won't vote for the first women president there is a reason. One is clearly she is just hated by a lot of people no matter her gender. But if you are looking for other potential "real" reasons, I'd bet these are some of the main ones.
But that is also why I don't think this is watershed change in all politics that some are saying. I think this was a lot of pent up frustration all hitting at the exact same time. The perfect storm of political backlash. I doubt it lasts. But I was clearly wrong about this election so what the hell do I know.