People who want to win so badly they'd force a guy to keep the wrong player picked by mistake in a draft are people I'd never want to be in a league with. I'm sure some mistake scenarios exist that would be harder to navigate and correct, but this is an incredibly easy fix and there's absolutely no reason to not swap the player for the right guy. If I saw this go down IRL in one of my leagues, even if it was against someone else and not myself, I'd 100% walk out on the league immediately. Something like this is just a symptom of an underlying problem that I could pretty much guarantee would suck any and all fun out of it for me.
I voted the opposite way, but if it is at the expense of the league I would absolutely reverse it.
My perspective,I suppose, comes from me accepting accountability for my actions and I would expect no one to reverse it if I made that mistake myself. This has been shaped through a few things in life that perhaps isn't reasonable, but that is why I voted that way.
Appreciate you putting your name on one of the non-majority votes here and giving an explanation; courageous thing to do after a full page of dissenting opinions. I think most of the strength of the stance I took in my post were if it was a 12 man league where the majority were firmly in the "No! The pick is the pick and that's final!" I wouldn't be so quick to up and quit if it was just some general discussion on it; but ultimately I would hope it would land on letting the guy switch his pick to who he actually meant to pick.
I do 100% get what you're saying in the end of your post and honestly often feel similarly. I'm big on personal accountability in particular. And this is probably diverging too much from the original topic; but over the past year or so I've started to realize that just because I hold myself to certain high standards,
I really need to curtail how much I put that on others. IME, it's often just led to unproductive frustration. It's not often what we'd consider a "fair" way to go through life; but meeting people where they are currently rather than expecting them all to meet me where I'm at (or even half way) just tends to yield better results. All that being said, it's still a newer thing for me and I still fail at it on the regular lol. Circling back, I can say I'd probably be more likely to live with me picking the wrong person and having a league stick it to me on my mistake, than watching someone else get it stuck to them. Almost like the "you can call me whatever you want, but don't talk like that to my friend" kind of a thing.