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Found this in my wife's chat log (1 Viewer)

Why would anyone tell a significant other about this place? Boggles my mind.
:sadbanana: My wife "knows" about it, but she's never read any posts. All she knows is that it's some "stupid football site."
What was your line going to be when we met up?
"I'm meeting one of the dorks from the stupid football site."
I introduced GM as, "One of the guys from one of those football leagues I'm in." He didn't become, "One of those dorks" until after she met him.
 
Every time someone sends some gold to her tavern mailbox, you're going to wonder what she did to earn it.

 
Why would anyone tell a significant other about this place? Boggles my mind.
:unsure: My wife "knows" about it, but she's never read any posts. All she knows is that it's some "stupid football site."
What was your line going to be when we met up?
"This is Mr. Pickles... from the internet."
I leave for a month or two and my material gets jacked :unsure:
And this time it's actually your material.
 
Better get here before the little one arrives...
:rolleyes:
Ummmm...PM, please.ETA: Oh geez, I mean furley's little one. :unsure:
Furley is having a kid?
this is certainly a disappointmentwas a time when you and i were pretty close. what happened?
ideadness happens to the best of us. when did this take place?
rumor has it some time in December of 07. still not 100% sure how it works.i understand a baby will make an appearance here in about 2 months.

 
We have the guest bedroom primped and ready for you. What's the holdup?Better get here before the little one arrives...
"we"? does this mean what i think it means?
What do you think it means?
mFF?
:hifive: But it's OK as long as your balls don't touch.
 
We have the guest bedroom primped and ready for you. What's the holdup?Better get here before the little one arrives...
"we"? does this mean what i think it means?
What do you think it means?
mFF?
:hifive: But it's OK as long as your balls don't touch.
IN
 
We have the guest bedroom primped and ready for you. What's the holdup?Better get here before the little one arrives...
"we"? does this mean what i think it means?
What do you think it means?
I think he was suggesting a FBG is living at your place. :unsure: Which is crazy of course. :rolleyes:

 
Better get here before the little one arrives...
:confused:
Ummmm...PM, please.ETA: Oh geez, I mean furley's little one. :lmao:
Furley is having a kid?
this is certainly a disappointmentwas a time when you and i were pretty close. what happened?
ideadness happens to the best of us. when did this take place?
rumor has it some time in December of 07. still not 100% sure how it works.i understand a baby will make an appearance here in about 2 months.
holy #### dude. gllllll. praying for you.
 
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.
There's nothing wrong with feeling so underappreciated in a stale marriage that you have to find sexual validation with a complete strangers; human beings are not built for long-term relationships and needs like this will arise.That being said, be more careful with your chat logs in the future.
You are a moron. No one cares if you think its wrong or not. Except maybe her so she can use it against her husband.
 
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.
lol. sure honey. You can lie to your husband, and he'll probably give you the benefit of the doubt, but your full of #### and you know it.
yup. These two things tell me she is full of shiz:
There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while.
Whatever. So you resolve that by flirting with another guy? Way to go about saving your marriage.
Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile.
Lady, you are one seriously immature female. You shouldn't even have kids. If you are jumping at the chance for someone else to make you smile then you are a disaster waiting to happen. Guess what? Its not your husbands job to make you smile. Its your job to make you smile. Not to mention that from the chat log, if saying "true" and "ok" to you is what makes you smile then it shouldn't be that hard and you shouldn't have been that desperate. I suggest you get YOURSELF into counseling. Marriage counseling can fix a marriage but individual counseling is what you need. Sounds to me like the majority of the problems are with you and some serious selfishness and immaturity. Go see a shrink.
 
Kovax said:
This is Mrs. Crimson Hawk. I've read all your replies....and they ARE justified. My chat looked EXACTLY like I was going to run off and have an affair. I WASN'T but it sure looked that way and I regret hurting my husband. And, yes, I would care if my husband cheated on me. it would hurt like hell. His asking women on dates hurt me terribly. Someone asked...if you've been married 17 years and she hasn't cheated in 17 years then who did she sleep with before the wedding. For the record....we've been married 13 years and but have been together a total of 17 years. I have never, and never will, cheat. Also, we have 3 kids. As for the trip. I really was going to see a new friend (a girl if you're wondering). But only with his permission. When he said he didn't want me to go I canceled the trip.And, just because I play Wow doesn't make me a skank...I'm actually very pretty.But, I did flirt HEAVILY and I took it way too far. I have admitted this to hubby, I have apologized for hurting him, and I am willing to work things out with him...if he will. I've got too much time invested in our relationship to throw it all away on a one night stand. There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while. Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile. It was VERY wrong of me and I regret it terribly. Not because I got caught....that's not it at all. I regret hurting my husband and our marriage by taking things too far in chat. And I am very willing to take counseling if that's what it takes to make our marriage better. And, I'm not laying blame....no one made me do this...I flirted like that of my own free will. My rocky marriage is no excuse for what I did.I know how my chat sounded...it did sound like I was going to run off to some other guy. Hubby said the evidence was damning. But I really wasn't going to. I know in my heart that nothing would have ever happened even if none of you (or hubby) believe me. The way I feel about my husband would have prevented me from doing anything with another man. I love him too much to actually cheat. Think what you will of me. Thanks for listening.
lol. sure honey. You can lie to your husband, and he'll probably give you the benefit of the doubt, but your full of #### and you know it.
yup. These two things tell me she is full of shiz:
There is a Lot more to this story than was posted. Things haven't been the best between us for a while.
Whatever. So you resolve that by flirting with another guy? Way to go about saving your marriage.
Neither of us have cheated....but I've not been happy and I jumped at the chance for someone to make me at least smile.
Lady, you are one seriously immature female. You shouldn't even have kids. If you are jumping at the chance for someone else to make you smile then you are a disaster waiting to happen. Guess what? Its not your husbands job to make you smile. Its your job to make you smile. Not to mention that from the chat log, if saying "true" and "ok" to you is what makes you smile then it shouldn't be that hard and you shouldn't have been that desperate. I suggest you get YOURSELF into counseling. Marriage counseling can fix a marriage but individual counseling is what you need. Sounds to me like the majority of the problems are with you and some serious selfishness and immaturity. Go see a shrink.
You are calling her immature? Ahh gotta love the holier than thou in internet. Her response, if real, is very natural and happens in many man t man t marriages... Most of which have the cheating to go along with the desire.People on this board act as if they are above what being human is. We are faulted. Well, everyone except some posters in the FFA that is.
 

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