I picked up the Kiplinger's yesterday, and found this article in it.
The Financial Pros and Cons of Getting Married Later in Life
Some compelling reasons to do a fake marriage, and not as many for getting real married. Problem is that we actually want to be real married! (Not for religious reasons at all - just feel that is the form that fits what we're up to in our lives together).
We'll have to file all of this under "stuff I didn't think about before popping the question".
Interested to hear if there are any FBGs in similar situations & how you have handled it?
Our main concern is not that we'll split up (as referenced by the above poster), but rather that our estates go where we want them to go (and that each person's estate be protected from being bled dry from mandated long term care for the other). Small possibility of that happening, I know - but it is a real concern for us. My grandmother had much of her $$$ used to pay for my grandfather's nursing home care. And my fiance is Canadian - so she already thinks the cost of health care here in the US is ridiculous. Her plan if needing nursing home care would simply be to move back to Canada.