I cant stand my girlfriends mothers cooking (1 Viewer)

[MC Gas Money]

If im doing things all wrong then someone please tell me what I should do and I will follow it.

I live within my means. Ive tried over a dozen different careers. I went to school and got a CDL license last month and going to try something else.

Realky what am I supposed to do with multiple health problens and no resources?

 

[Captain Quinoa]

Bang her daughter

 

[Captain Quinoa]

Sorry

 

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I'm curious about this blood that keeps being mentioned for. From what I understand you suffer from nervous tics.

 

[MC Gas Money]

I paid with blood and tears not money.

Should we just gas the disabled?

Blood and tears? For tourettes? Tell me more about your hardships, Joseph Merrick.

Do you have muscular spasms in your neck, shoulders and arms?

Trouble stuttering? Depression from being an outcast because of all that? Inability to calm down and sleep?

 

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Sorry

JFC :spitscoffee:

 

[MC Gas Money]

I'm curious about this blood that keeps being mentioned for. From what I understand you suffer from nervous tics.

Its a metaphor.

 

[MC Gas Money]

Not all tourettes is verbal.

And if you think thats all it is where would those people earn a living?

 

[MC Gas Money]

There is judgement but no practical advice.

Where does a person with disabilities work?

 

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I paid with blood and tears not money.

Should we just gas the disabled?

Blood and tears? For tourettes? Tell me more about your hardships, Joseph Merrick.

Do you have muscular spasms in your neck, shoulders and arms?

Trouble stuttering? Depression from being an outcast because of all that? Inability to calm down and sleep?

Dude nobody's saying you got a bum deal... but you're overdramatizing the hell out of it. The sense of entitlement isn't doing you any favors and it's now spilling over into your personal life with looking down on a woman who's providing you a roof over your head and food 30% of the week.

Quit smoking. Stay away from drugs. Surround yourself with better people (ie not a halfway house). Find work and get your #### in gear. Sitting there feeling sorry for yourself is only going to perpetuate your situation.

 

[matttyl]

I paid with blood and tears not money.

Should we just gas the disabled?

Blood and tears? For tourettes? Tell me more about your hardships, Joseph Merrick.

Do you have muscular spasms in your neck, shoulders and arms?

Trouble stuttering? Depression from being an outcast because of all that? Inability to calm down and sleep?

I good friend of mine has all of the above (well, without the depression as he's learned to deal with it). He's also a Boston Marathon qualifier, and has owned 2 of his own businesses.

 

[Cliff Clavin]

Not all tourettes is verbal.

And if you think thats all it is where would those people earn a living?

Ruth from this documentary seems to do just fine.

 

[Steve Tasker]

blue magic / DSP?????

That was my second guess after azcards. Dammit.

 

[Zow]

Is this a new Blue Magic alias?

 

[MC Gas Money]

I paid with blood and tears not money.

Should we just gas the disabled?

Blood and tears? For tourettes? Tell me more about your hardships, Joseph Merrick.

Do you have muscular spasms in your neck, shoulders and arms?Trouble stuttering? Depression from being an outcast because of all that? Inability to calm down and sleep?

Dude nobody's saying you got a bum deal... but you're overdramatizing the hell out of it. The sense of entitlement isn't doing you any favors and it's now spilling over into your personal life with looking down on a woman who's providing you a roof over your head and food 30% of the week.

Quit smoking. Stay away from drugs. Surround yourself with better people (ie not a halfway house). Find work and get your #### in gear. Sitting there feeling sorry for yourself is only going to perpetuate your situation.

Entitled to what? Survival? Of course.

I dont look down on her mother. Her mother is a saint, that is why I dont want to hurt her feelings.

I dont do drugs anymore. I cant afford anywhere except a halfway house so I cant surround myself with better people. I smoke a few hand rolled cigarettes a day, my only frivilous expense, can I have that pleasure at least? Maybe it would be better for ne to due a little younger.

Where does someone with dusabilities work? How do they take care of themselves?

 

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Yep... BlueMagic/DSP. He's trying to play it off like it's a "friend of BM/DSP"

 

[Zow]

There is judgement but no practical advice.

Where does a person with disabilities work?

Advice: Spell "judgment" without an "e" between "g" and "m".

 

[TheIronSheik]

Link

YWIA

 

[MC Gas Money]

I paid with blood and tears not money.

Should we just gas the disabled?

Blood and tears? For tourettes? Tell me more about your hardships, Joseph Merrick.

Do you have muscular spasms in your neck, shoulders and arms?Trouble stuttering? Depression from being an outcast because of all that? Inability to calm down and sleep?

I good friend of mine has all of the above (well, without the depression as he's learned to deal with it). He's also a Boston Marathon qualifier, and has owned 2 of his own businesses.

Apparently has a very good family and didnt sufferbthe psychological damage

 

[MC Gas Money]

One person with tourettes did well in life.

Bill Gates is the richest man in the world. If he could why cant everyone be?

 

[TheIronSheik]

In all seriousness, I don't think the job part is what is the issue. Life is tough. For everyone. I get that.

The problem here is that your GF's parents didn't invite you to eat at their place. And on top of that, you want to complain about it. I'm sure they want their daughter to move out on her own by age 30. So it probably pisses them off to no end when she invites you over for dinner. Now they're paying for her and you to live at their place. They deserve some time to be alone. THAT'S the big issue here.

 

[Andy Dufresne]

Yeah, I'm starting to think she cooks terrible food on purpose.

 

[MC Gas Money]

In all seriousness, I don't think the job part is what is the issue. Life is tough. For everyone. I get that.

The problem here is that your GF's parents didn't invite you to eat at their place. And on top of that, you want to complain about it. I'm sure they want their daughter to move out on her own by age 30. So it probably pisses them off to no end when she invites you over for dinner. Now they're paying for her and you to live at their place. They deserve some time to be alone. THAT'S the big issue here.

Ok ill break it off with her

 

[MC Gas Money]

Yeah, I'm starting to think she cooks terrible food on purpose.

And then cry about it?

Nobody else has a problem.

Im not complaining to her either. The point of this thread was a solution without complaining to her.

As for the mooching I do help around the house and backyard. They are in their 60's and I help with any physical tasks I can. I bring some stuff from the market every weekend too.

 

[Andy Dufresne]

Yeah, I'm starting to think she cooks terrible food on purpose.

And then cry about it?

Nobody else has a problem.

Im not complaining to her either. The point of this thread was a solution without complaining to her.

As for the mooching I do help around the house and backyard. They are in their 60's and I help with any physical tasks I can. I bring some stuff from the market every weekend too.

"Why won't he take a freaking HINT!?"

 

[Peyton Marino]

well at least you picked a good time to become a truck driver.

 

[Politician Spock]

Im 30 and so is she.

Yeah she lives with her parents and we are planning to get a place together as soon as we can.

/thread

Her parents own a home. Why would she move out if she didnt have to?

Here is a LINK to a fantastic reason.

 

[TheIronSheik]

In all seriousness, I don't think the job part is what is the issue. Life is tough. For everyone. I get that.

The problem here is that your GF's parents didn't invite you to eat at their place. And on top of that, you want to complain about it. I'm sure they want their daughter to move out on her own by age 30. So it probably pisses them off to no end when she invites you over for dinner. Now they're paying for her and you to live at their place. They deserve some time to be alone. THAT'S the big issue here.

Ok ill break it off with her

Is that what you got out of what I said?

What I said was that just because your GF lives at home does not mean her parents want the two of you staying at their house and eating all of their food. If you have a place, she should be going to your place. If you go to her place, you two should be eating out, even if you eat out at Subway. Her parents should not be supporting BOTH of you. Is that really too hard to understand?

 

[Zow]

Since this can't be real...

Please...PLEASE... in the name of Western Civilization...

Do not procreate.

It is real but I have no plans to procreate.What is so unreal about poverty? Am I on BeverlyHillsGuys.com?

Where are you posting from? The library?

Phone

You live in poverty but pay for a smartphone?

You can get a smartphone for under $50. They dont really make dumbphones anymore.

I can confirm this. Lots of people below the poverty line have smartphones.

 

[MC Gas Money]

Only person who gave any good advice on here was offdee.

Everything else is just throwing me under the bus for being disabled. You dislike me for it but are so interested in my life.

If you dont want me collecting whopping checks of $800 a month of "your" money than give me some suggestions how to help myself. Putting me down wont help. I feel down as far as I could go.

I need real practical advice. I need a MB mentor.

 

[MC Gas Money]

well at least you picked a good time to become a truck driver.

Sarcasm?

 

[MC Gas Money]

In all seriousness, I don't think the job part is what is the issue. Life is tough. For everyone. I get that.

The problem here is that your GF's parents didn't invite you to eat at their place. And on top of that, you want to complain about it. I'm sure they want their daughter to move out on her own by age 30. So it probably pisses them off to no end when she invites you over for dinner. Now they're paying for her and you to live at their place. They deserve some time to be alone. THAT'S the big issue here.

Ok ill break it off with her

Is that what you got out of what I said? What I said was that just because your GF lives at home does not mean her parents want the two of you staying at their house and eating all of their food. If you have a place, she should be going to your place. If you go to her place, you two should be eating out, even if you eat out at Subway. Her parents should not be supporting BOTH of you. Is that really too hard to understand?

We cant do that yet. I want nothing more than to have a place with her but until then what am I supposed to do? Not see her at all?

 

[humpback]

I pay for my housing.

 

[TheIronSheik]

In all seriousness, I don't think the job part is what is the issue. Life is tough. For everyone. I get that.

The problem here is that your GF's parents didn't invite you to eat at their place. And on top of that, you want to complain about it. I'm sure they want their daughter to move out on her own by age 30. So it probably pisses them off to no end when she invites you over for dinner. Now they're paying for her and you to live at their place. They deserve some time to be alone. THAT'S the big issue here.

Ok ill break it off with her

Is that what you got out of what I said? What I said was that just because your GF lives at home does not mean her parents want the two of you staying at their house and eating all of their food. If you have a place, she should be going to your place. If you go to her place, you two should be eating out, even if you eat out at Subway. Her parents should not be supporting BOTH of you. Is that really too hard to understand?

We cant do that yet. I want nothing more than to have a place with her but until then what am I supposed to do? Not see her at all?

Can't do what? Did you not say you have a place? And you have a job as a truck driver, so I assume you guys can afford $10 for you both to eat at Subway. What am I missing?

 

[MC Gas Money]

In all seriousness, I don't think the job part is what is the issue. Life is tough. For everyone. I get that.

The problem here is that your GF's parents didn't invite you to eat at their place. And on top of that, you want to complain about it. I'm sure they want their daughter to move out on her own by age 30. So it probably pisses them off to no end when she invites you over for dinner. Now they're paying for her and you to live at their place. They deserve some time to be alone. THAT'S the big issue here.

Ok ill break it off with her

Is that what you got out of what I said? What I said was that just because your GF lives at home does not mean her parents want the two of you staying at their house and eating all of their food. If you have a place, she should be going to your place. If you go to her place, you two should be eating out, even if you eat out at Subway. Her parents should not be supporting BOTH of you. Is that really too hard to understand?

We cant do that yet. I want nothing more than to have a place with her but until then what am I supposed to do? Not see her at all?

Can't do what? Did you not say you have a place? And you have a job as a truck driver, so I assume you guys can afford $10 for you both to eat at Subway. What am I missing?

Im in a halfway house. Cant have guests.

I dont have the job yet. I have to get the tow license

 

[TheIronSheik]

In all seriousness, I don't think the job part is what is the issue. Life is tough. For everyone. I get that.

The problem here is that your GF's parents didn't invite you to eat at their place. And on top of that, you want to complain about it. I'm sure they want their daughter to move out on her own by age 30. So it probably pisses them off to no end when she invites you over for dinner. Now they're paying for her and you to live at their place. They deserve some time to be alone. THAT'S the big issue here.

Ok ill break it off with her

Is that what you got out of what I said? What I said was that just because your GF lives at home does not mean her parents want the two of you staying at their house and eating all of their food. If you have a place, she should be going to your place. If you go to her place, you two should be eating out, even if you eat out at Subway. Her parents should not be supporting BOTH of you. Is that really too hard to understand?

We cant do that yet. I want nothing more than to have a place with her but until then what am I supposed to do? Not see her at all?

Can't do what? Did you not say you have a place? And you have a job as a truck driver, so I assume you guys can afford $10 for you both to eat at Subway. What am I missing?

Im in a halfway house. Cant have guests.

I dont have the job yet. I have to get the tow license

OK. So she can't come over to your place. But you can still pay for food. You're very good at making excuses. Maybe find a job where you can do that.

You're in a halfway house, you have no job, your GF's parents are nice enough to feed you...

And your only thought is "How do I tell her I don't like the food?" You wonder why people are giving you a hard time? It's because you are ungrateful. Plain and simple.

 

[Gr00vus]

So this is the alias of that mentally unstable death metal wannabe singer kid who got run out of here earlier this year, right?

No but im a good friend of his if you have any questions.He misses you guys a lot.

So, yes, then.

I said I know him very well. That is all.Btw he wasbt run out he asked to be removed. There is a difference.

 

[Gr00vus]

Tell the mom you'd like to prepare/bring a dish to contribute to the dinner. Bring/buy said dish (and by dish I mean food). Makes you look good (considerate, can cook, etc.) and there will be at least one thing in the meal you can eat.

Ask if you can help out with the cooking there. If yes, suggest trying out some new recipes which you assist in preparing.

I.e. figure out ways to contribute to the solution, don't just complain about the problem.

 

[Politician Spock]

Only person who gave any good advice on here was offdee.

Everything else is just throwing me under the bus for being disabled. You dislike me for it but are so interested in my life.

If you dont want me collecting whopping checks of $800 a month of "your" money than give me some suggestions how to help myself. Putting me down wont help. I feel down as far as I could go.

I need real practical advice. I need a MB mentor.

Here's some real practical advice: Don't search for real practical advice on the internet.

 

[GOB]

You have your CDLs or what? I will get you a job but only if you let me sleep with your gf's mom. I like a woman who over does the meat.

 

[MC Gas Money]

I try to contribute but the woman runs her kitchen like stalin. I once made salsa when she was out and everyone liked it.

Im not trying to be ungrateful to her. I appreciate her very much but I seriously cant eat the food. Im going to take offdees advice.

I cant affird to take her out to eat yet. Ive bought takeout a few times. She tries to buy stuff but I wont let her spend money on me. I was upset she even got me a luxery birthday present

 

[MC Gas Money]

You have your CDLs or what? I will get you a job but only if you let me sleep with your gf's mom. I like a woman who over does the meat.

Yes but I cant arrange this

 

[MC Gas Money]

Tell the mom you'd like to prepare/bring a dish to contribute to the dinner. Bring/buy said dish (and by dish I mean food). Makes you look good (considerate, can cook, etc.) and there will be at least one thing in the meal you can eat.

Ask if you can help out with the cooking there. If yes, suggest trying out some new recipes which you assist in preparing.

I.e. figure out ways to contribute to the solution, don't just complain about the problem.

This is what ive been trying for months.

 

[Politician Spock]

I was upset she even got me a luxery birthday present

A bottle of Old Spice?

 

[TheIronSheik]

Why are you in a halfway house? I can't imagine it would be easy to find a job doing commercial driving when you're in a halfway house.

 

[MC Gas Money]

I was upset she even got me a luxery birthday present

A bottle of Old Spice?

Close. A bottle of cool water

 

[MC Gas Money]

Why are you in a halfway house? I can't imagine it would be easy to find a job doing commercial driving when you're in a halfway house.

Its all I can afford that isnt a honeless shelter. You dont have to be an ex con to live in one. They only care if you can pay.

Why would it prevent a driving job?

 

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Tell the mom you'd like to prepare/bring a dish to contribute to the dinner. Bring/buy said dish (and by dish I mean food). Makes you look good (considerate, can cook, etc.) and there will be at least one thing in the meal you can eat.

Ask if you can help out with the cooking there. If yes, suggest trying out some new recipes which you assist in preparing.

I.e. figure out ways to contribute to the solution, don't just complain about the problem.

 

[JohnnyU]

I dont want to eat anything this woman makes.

Might be a problem in the whole relationship thing.

I love my gf. I cant leave her because I hate her mothers cooking.

I know from another thread you're a smoker. If you would simply quit smoking your taste buds might like her cooking. Is your gf also a smoker? Does she like her mom's cooking?

 

[MC Gas Money]

I dont want to eat anything this woman makes.

Might be a problem in the whole relationship thing.

I love my gf. I cant leave her because I hate her mothers cooking.

I know from another thread you're a smoker. If you would simply quit smoking your taste buds might like her cooking. Is your gf also a smoker? Does she like her mom's cooking?

This isnt the issue