I was waiting for a good time in the thread to mention this (didn't want to interfere with write-ups and discussions right after a new playlist was posted), and the two Tweedy posts in a row made me think this is the time to do it.
Jeff Tweedy recently played at my wedding reception.
OK, OK, not
exactly. Let me back up.
OH and I decided a couple of months ago to get a marriage license. We didn't have in mind a particular day or place to do it, but figured we'd get married again. Kinda thought we'd do the same as last time and get married by the judge at the county clerk's office. Then I thought, hey we have a lot of friends around here, and surely one or more of them are ordained to perform weddings. OH reached out to his friend group and learned his friend Scott could perform the marriage. As to timing, we were already planning to go to the Letters to Santa Charitable Gala on November 23, and since Scott was on the board of the organization, we asked if he'd be there. Might as well do it when we were going to be in the same place anyway.
Backing up once again, Letters to Santa is the brainchild of Steve Albini and his wife Heather Whinna. Each year they deliver to needy families in the Chicago area Christmas gifts and a no-strings-attached $10,000 each. It was inspired by Heather having seen at the post office that they received letters to Santa, mostly not from children but from adults reaching out as a last gasp for help. Heather, Steve, and a bunch of others (including for many years Jeff Tweedy) just show up out of the blue and deliver all of this on Christmas Day. If you watched Ted Lasso, you'll see that they used this in the show!
More about Letters to Santa.
Heather was formerly the manager at Second City, and until recently they would do a 24-hour improv marathon as their big fundraiser. A couple of years ago, due to issues with Second City, they changed that to a gala with various performers, this year at the Brookfield Zoo. The show this year featured a whole lot of Jeff Tweedy and the Second City case, along with performances by Kim Deal and Fred Armisen. Once OH's friend Scott agreed to do the wedding at the Gala, we went through several iterations of what was going to happen. At one point, I foolishly agreed that we could have the ceremony
during the show, as a fundraiser/improv. Luckily, later that plan was changed, which was a relief because it would have been really embarrassing. Instead, we held the ceremony at the event just before the official show started. Since OH's friend Scott had previously been a Second City guy, we agreed to do the ceremony as an improv.
And thus, this became our wedding reception.
No, you needn't watch all three hours of this, but I highly recommend the highly touching video talk by Steve (RIP)
here, the truly hilarious bit by Fred Armisen
here, and of course any/all of the Jeff Tweedy and Kim Deal parts (they came and went throughout the show and also did one song together). Not going to link any Tweedy in case it would spoiler Dr. O's list.