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I'll tell you what happened. We all graduated out of elementary school.whatever happened to "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me."
You don't still believe words can never hurt, do you?
I'll tell you what happened. We all graduated out of elementary school.whatever happened to "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me."
Very much agree“Freedom of Speech” is a mostly misunderstood concept that has very little, if nothing, to do with this situation.Does a free speech absolutist think it's ok to follow people to continually harass them?to be fair, I never argued that what the kid did is right although I think that a free speech absolutist could argue that he has the right to say what he did. My argument is that a 36 year old should have acted like a 36 year old and not reacted to a blatantly false statement.Whatever happened to don't follow people and purposely instigate them with personal insults in a harassing manner?whatever happened to "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me."
Welcome to 2024, where a 36 year old man can act 20 years younger
If I am not mistaken, Freedom of Speech in the US only protects you from the Government not being able to arrest you for what you say.Very much agree“Freedom of Speech” is a mostly misunderstood concept that has very little, if nothing, to do with this situation.Does a free speech absolutist think it's ok to follow people to continually harass them?to be fair, I never argued that what the kid did is right although I think that a free speech absolutist could argue that he has the right to say what he did. My argument is that a 36 year old should have acted like a 36 year old and not reacted to a blatantly false statement.Whatever happened to don't follow people and purposely instigate them with personal insults in a harassing manner?whatever happened to "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me."
Welcome to 2024, where a 36 year old man can act 20 years younger
Yeah, people don't seem to understand what freedom of speech means. At all.If I am not mistaken, Freedom of Speech in the US only protects you from the Government not being able to arrest you for what you say.Very much agree“Freedom of Speech” is a mostly misunderstood concept that has very little, if nothing, to do with this situation.Does a free speech absolutist think it's ok to follow people to continually harass them?to be fair, I never argued that what the kid did is right although I think that a free speech absolutist could argue that he has the right to say what he did. My argument is that a 36 year old should have acted like a 36 year old and not reacted to a blatantly false statement.Whatever happened to don't follow people and purposely instigate them with personal insults in a harassing manner?whatever happened to "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me."
Welcome to 2024, where a 36 year old man can act 20 years younger
There is no protection, under the Freedom of Speech amendment, if you say things to other citizens.
Too many people confuse the protection from being arrested by the government into thinking they are consequence free in what ever they say.
I used the"be nice" clip when I was an Crisis Intervention instructor at the hospital. Classes of about 25. There was always about 2-3 people who enjoyed the clip, so well worth it.We could all learn something from a great man....
" I want you to be nice until it's time to not be nice." - Dalton
It also means a more general concept of not getting punched or having your phone smashed for things that you say. People seem to not understand that.
And an open beer in the same hand as the 12 pack. Multi-talentedI'd be ok with any human reacting how Kelce did.
The fact that it was Kelce while holding a 12 pack makes it funny.
Brightened my day.
The first amendment protects the college student because Penn State is (obviously) a state actor. It lacks any legal basis for punishing the student.It also means a more general concept of not getting punched or having your phone smashed for things that you say. People seem to not understand that.
"Freedom of Speech" does not mean consequence free speech in all instances.
If some one calls someone else a "f@gg@t" it's not their "Freedom of Speech" that protects them from physical harm, it's the assault laws against physical confrontation where there's no physical provocation to defend oneself from.
How does the First Amendment protect the college student in this instance?
well, yes, but that wasn't the real issue being discussed - it was in regard to Kelce's actions.The first amendment protects the college student because Penn State is (obviously) a state actor. It lacks any legal basis for punishing the student.
Can Penn State not punish (Suspend/Expel) the student? Kansas just suspended a lecturer for comments made during a class.The first amendment protects the college student because Penn State is (obviously) a state actor. It lacks any legal basis for punishing the student.It also means a more general concept of not getting punched or having your phone smashed for things that you say. People seem to not understand that.
"Freedom of Speech" does not mean consequence free speech in all instances.
If some one calls someone else a "f@gg@t" it's not their "Freedom of Speech" that protects them from physical harm, it's the assault laws against physical confrontation where there's no physical provocation to defend oneself from.
How does the First Amendment protect the college student in this instance?
But I agree with you on the general point. "Freedom of speech" has never meant that you get to get up in another grown man's face and hurl fighting words without consequences. A smashed phone or a bloody nose is 100% fine here. I would much rather live in a world where Jason Kelce resolves this problem with low-key violence versus (a) a world where we're all expected to put up with geeks shoving phones in our faces when we're just trying to mind our own business or (b) a world where this all gets adjudicated after the fact by an HR lady. I absolutely do wish to apply such a rule universally, in a Kantian sense.
Penn State is bound by the first amendment. There is no "hate speech" exception to the first amendment, and nobody would seriously argue that the student was engaged in illegal harassment in the Title IX sense. This is the sort of low-level interpersonal conflict that we don't need HR or Student Affairs to navigate.Can Penn State not punish (Suspend/Expel) the student? Kansas just suspended a lecturer for comments made during a class.The first amendment protects the college student because Penn State is (obviously) a state actor. It lacks any legal basis for punishing the student.It also means a more general concept of not getting punched or having your phone smashed for things that you say. People seem to not understand that.
"Freedom of Speech" does not mean consequence free speech in all instances.
If some one calls someone else a "f@gg@t" it's not their "Freedom of Speech" that protects them from physical harm, it's the assault laws against physical confrontation where there's no physical provocation to defend oneself from.
How does the First Amendment protect the college student in this instance?
But I agree with you on the general point. "Freedom of speech" has never meant that you get to get up in another grown man's face and hurl fighting words without consequences. A smashed phone or a bloody nose is 100% fine here. I would much rather live in a world where Jason Kelce resolves this problem with low-key violence versus (a) a world where we're all expected to put up with geeks shoving phones in our faces when we're just trying to mind our own business or (b) a world where this all gets adjudicated after the fact by an HR lady. I absolutely do wish to apply such a rule universally, in a Kantian sense.
There is no "hate speech" exception to the first amendment
This is actually the part that bothers me. Drinking on the job and open container on campus.And an open beer in the same hand as the 12 pack. Multi-talentedI'd be ok with any human reacting how Kelce did.
The fact that it was Kelce while holding a 12 pack makes it funny.
Brightened my day.
Some jobs don't have rules against drinking on the job.This is actually the part that bothers me. Drinking on the job and open container on campus.And an open beer in the same hand as the 12 pack. Multi-talentedI'd be ok with any human reacting how Kelce did.
The fact that it was Kelce while holding a 12 pack makes it funny.
Brightened my day.
Are we ok with doxxing the student? Serious interest in the answers. I get that he was a douche nozzle but how far is acceptable in this day and age for us, the mob, to intervene in this? I see people advocating for him to be expelled and proffering this incident might hamper his job prospects but is that a fair consequence based solely on the fact that in this day and age everything is recorded for posterity?
Also, young people, particularly guys, can be waaayyy stoopider when young, many of us grow out of it.
Doxed or appropriately called out for being a homophobic vile instigator? I'd want to know what type of a person he was if I were a prospective employer. He's presumably 18+, probably closer to 21. Plenty old enough to know better than to antagonize someone by calling their family a homophobic slur. He's lucky he has his teeth, maybe that's what he was hoping for. A paycheck. I think some swift justice in the form of his reputation being destroyed (largely by his own doing) is good enough.Are we ok with doxxing the student? Serious interest in the answers. I get that he was a douche nozzle but how far is acceptable in this day and age for us, the mob, to intervene in this? I see people advocating for him to be expelled and proffering this incident might hamper his job prospects but is that a fair consequence based solely on the fact that in this day and age everything is recorded for posterity?
Also, young people, particularly guys, can be waaayyy stoopider when young, many of us grow out of it.
I get it, but when your drinking on the job employee smashes someone's property, the company has to own that.Some jobs don't have rules against drinking on the job.This is actually the part that bothers me. Drinking on the job and open container on campus.And an open beer in the same hand as the 12 pack. Multi-talentedI'd be ok with any human reacting how Kelce did.
The fact that it was Kelce while holding a 12 pack makes it funny.
Brightened my day.
Some campuses sell beer on campus.
Some people got their jobs partly because of their boozed up personality.
I understand the desire for justice but I'm not sure the swift part isn't also the lingering part. I am grateful there weren't cameras around in my younger days when me and my friends said and did some really inappropriate stuff.Doxed or appropriately called out for being a homophobic vile instigator? I'd want to know what type of a person he was if I were a prospective employer. He's presumably 18+, probably closer to 21. Plenty old enough to know better than to antagonize someone by calling their family a homophobic slur. He's lucky he has his teeth, maybe that's what he was hoping for. A paycheck. I think some swift justice in the form of his reputation being destroyed (largely by his own doing) is good enough.Are we ok with doxxing the student? Serious interest in the answers. I get that he was a douche nozzle but how far is acceptable in this day and age for us, the mob, to intervene in this? I see people advocating for him to be expelled and proffering this incident might hamper his job prospects but is that a fair consequence based solely on the fact that in this day and age everything is recorded for posterity?
Also, young people, particularly guys, can be waaayyy stoopider when young, many of us grow out of it.
really?Some jobs don't have rules against drinking on the job.
Last I checked it wasn't the kids profession to antagonize a stranger with gay slurs.This is the same, imo, as the paparazzi getting their camera busted by Brando or Penn. Feels good but in reality the wrong way to go.
True but it isn't Kelce's prerogative to smash a phone because he doesn't like the kids words. He committed assault, the kid committed idiocy.Last I checked it wasn't the kids profession to antagonize a stranger with gay slurs.This is the same, imo, as the paparazzi getting their camera busted by Brando or Penn. Feels good but in reality the wrong way to go.
I don't think he was really using the word in a homophobic way but more in the "school yard" teasing kind of way. Not saying it makes it right, but I keep seeing it referred to as a homophobic slur.Doxed or appropriately called out for being a homophobic vile instigator?
No. A smashed phone or a bloody nose is exactly the right amount of punishment for this sort of offense.Are we ok with doxxing the student? Serious interest in the answers. I get that he was a douche nozzle but how far is acceptable in this day and age for us, the mob, to intervene in this? I see people advocating for him to be expelled and proffering this incident might hamper his job prospects but is that a fair consequence based solely on the fact that in this day and age everything is recorded for posterity?
Also, young people, particularly guys, can be waaayyy stoopider when young, many of us grow out of it.
Was he "on the job" during this walk to the game? I don't think he was. I think this was off hours and had nothing to do with his job responsibilities. (I could be wrong though)I get it, but when your drinking on the job employee smashes someone's property, the company has to own that.
That's where I'm at; unless either party takes this the legal route then it starts and ends between them, imo. I will not be surprised, though, if the stupid kid decides to sue Kelce at which time all's fair as his name will be out there in public anyway. Based on the kids actions in the video he may be that dumb.No. A smashed phone or a bloody nose is exactly the right amount of punishment for this sort of offense.Are we ok with doxxing the student? Serious interest in the answers. I get that he was a douche nozzle but how far is acceptable in this day and age for us, the mob, to intervene in this? I see people advocating for him to be expelled and proffering this incident might hamper his job prospects but is that a fair consequence based solely on the fact that in this day and age everything is recorded for posterity?
Also, young people, particularly guys, can be waaayyy stoopider when young, many of us grow out of it.
Probably depends on your job and whether or not your fist fight reflects badly (and knowingly) on the company. There are many jobs where you are the publicly facing symbol of the company and any bad publicity negatively affects the company whether you are on the clock or not. So in some instances the employer could/should do something if you negatively impact the companies reputation.*If I'm off the clock and get in a fight should my employer suspend me?
I mean if he wants to get a job some day, it's probably not a great move to bring further attention to himself and get his name out there.if the stupid kid decides to sue Kelce at which time all's fair as his name will be out there in public anyway
"Freedom of Speech" does not mean consequence free speech in all instances.
Per who? This seems like a more philosophical approach than a legal analysis.Freedom of speech is not limited to First Amendment application.
People say this - and its true we do live in a litigious society - but, it would be a stretch for the kid to actually file a law suit here.if the stupid kid decides to sue Kelce at which time all's fair as his name will be out there in public anyway. Based on the kids actions in the video he may be that dumb.
Per who? This seems like a more theosophical approach than a legal analysis.Freedom of speech is not limited to First Amendment application.
We seem to be "arguing" two sperate things. All speech does have some consequences - whether those fall into a legal realm is another story.Watch the reactions to that statement and tell me if you don’t want some restraint in response to something like that. Or should all speech have consequences?
Joe reported he was there walking to the college gameday set.Was he "on the job" during this walk to the game? I don't think he was. I think this was off hours and had nothing to do with his job responsibilities. (I could be wrong though)I get it, but when your drinking on the job employee smashes someone's property, the company has to own that.
Maybe I'm confused but you seem to be arguing against your own point here.Per who? This seems like a more theosophical approach than a legal analysis.Freedom of speech is not limited to First Amendment application.
It is a philosophical approach. Freedom of speech means nothing without some sort of tacit social agreement about restraint of action by parties who claim to be aggrieved by certain concepts or words, especially when issues are hot-button and the parties are large ones (like ones that might go to war).
The kid was seriously wrong in this instance to do this, by the way. This isn’t a roundabout way of defending him. He was haranguing and following Kelce and recording him like Kelce was his journalistic subject or something.
Camera, meet smash. You can expect that. It still is probably a bad thing to encourage or laud.
We seem to be "arguing" two sperate things. All speech does have some consequences - whether those fall into a legal realm is another story.
I mean could someone sue @Joe Bryant for not letting us discuss politics here? Wouldn't that fall into your broad take on a Freedom of Speech?
So your stance would be different if the kid would have called his brother anything else? Ignore the idiot kid and move on with your life unless it’s a gay slur then it’s time to jump into action?Again and this is the last time I’ll write it. Maybe.My only observation is how smart was it for Kelce (as a well known celebrity) to just be walking through a large crowd without some form of bodyguard or even a handler to help defuse this kind of situation.
Dude is a grown *** man with millions of dollars who lives in the public eye. All he has to do was ignore the lil doosh
Maybe people don't want to ignore hatred, bigotry, racism, homophonia, etc....maybe some people are tired of hearing the "F" word or the "N" word hurled their way. We get it, you're a grown up. It rolls off your back. Maybe try wearing the sneakers of somebody else to see how they feel about it?
FWIW, I’m not sure Jason Kelce has had the f (he’s married with children) or n (he’s pretty white) word hurled his way very often
So maybe not "technically on the job" but drinking before "work" might not be allowed.....or maybe it is allowed in this type atmosphere/job dutyJoe reported he was there walking to the college gameday set.Was he "on the job" during this walk to the game? I don't think he was. I think this was off hours and had nothing to do with his job responsibilities. (I could be wrong though)I get it, but when your drinking on the job employee smashes someone's property, the company has to own that.
Maybe I'm confused but you seem to be arguing against your own point here.Per who? This seems like a more theosophical approach than a legal analysis.Freedom of speech is not limited to First Amendment application.
It is a philosophical approach. Freedom of speech means nothing without some sort of tacit social agreement about restraint of action by parties who claim to be aggrieved by certain concepts or words, especially when issues are hot-button and the parties are large ones (like ones that might go to war).
The kid was seriously wrong in this instance to do this, by the way. This isn’t a roundabout way of defending him. He was haranguing and following Kelce and recording him like Kelce was his journalistic subject or something.
Camera, meet smash. You can expect that. It still is probably a bad thing to encourage or laud.
The point though is people brought up "Freedom of Speech" as if this kid can say anything he wants with no consequences - that's a bastardization of the concept,
My original comment was a reaction to people brining up the concept of "Freedom of Speech" as if it was applicable in this situation.You’re worried (I think) about free speech and state actors.
I think society self-policing decorum and decency is exactly what society is meant to do.Per who? This seems like a more theosophical approach than a legal analysis.Freedom of speech is not limited to First Amendment application.
It is a philosophical approach. Freedom of speech means nothing without some sort of tacit social agreement about restraint of action by parties who claim to be aggrieved by certain concepts or words, especially when issues are hot-button and the parties are large ones (like ones that might go to war).
The kid was seriously wrong in this instance to do this, by the way. This isn’t a roundabout way of defending him. He was haranguing and following Kelce and recording him like Kelce was his journalistic subject or something.
Camera, meet smash. You can expect that. It still is probably a bad thing to encourage or laud.
Neufchâtel, Fontina and camembert?So your stance would be different if the kid would have called his brother anything else? Ignore the idiot kid and move on with your life unless it’s a gay slur then it’s time to jump into action?Again and this is the last time I’ll write it. Maybe.My only observation is how smart was it for Kelce (as a well known celebrity) to just be walking through a large crowd without some form of bodyguard or even a handler to help defuse this kind of situation.
Dude is a grown *** man with millions of dollars who lives in the public eye. All he has to do was ignore the lil doosh
Maybe people don't want to ignore hatred, bigotry, racism, homophonia, etc....maybe some people are tired of hearing the "F" word or the "N" word hurled their way. We get it, you're a grown up. It rolls off your back. Maybe try wearing the sneakers of somebody else to see how they feel about it?
FWIW, I’m not sure Jason Kelce has had the f (he’s married with children) or n (he’s pretty white) word hurled his way very often
I do think if he'd called him a douchebag or something he'd not have gotten the same kind of reaction.
It seems like there are three words (N word, F word, C word) that are a step above the rest in terms of how people react to it.
I think society self-policing decorum and decency is exactly what society is meant to do.