I think the more people talk about Big Gay and make light of people asked an innocent question, the less I respect them. I think that this sort of virtual mob, replete with death threats, arson threats, explicit gay penetration on their Yelp! page, etc. is disgusting and subhuman.
Sadly, and lost on many of the supporters of these actions within this very board, it actually solidifies the fears of those deeply concerned about their own religious freedom in running their business that the virtual mobs, media, and other institutions will stop at absolutely nothing to codify their agenda. In other words, the actions prove the very fear being made light of.
A couple was asked a question by a reporter. These past few days have showed us the response and the tactics used.
I think it's a joke. I have no trouble speaking out against "Big Gay." Mobs are mobs. Threats are threats. Organized thugs are organized thugs. It's sickening, disgusting, immoral, and shouldn't be given any heed in a representative democracy.
That's a bit over the top, but I largely agree with the general sentiment.
We all think that death threats, arson threats, and fake Yelp! reviews are wrong, I hope.
The more interesting question, IMO, is whether a boycott is appropriate. If the pizza place were actually discriminating, refusing to serve certain classes of people on stupid grounds, I think a boycott would absolutely be appropriate. Fight action with action, and a boycott would be an appropriate action in that case, both legally and morally.
But in this case, the pizza place didn't really discriminate against anybody. They said hypothetically that they would, but the hypothetical situation is very unlikely to come up -- and if it
did come up, it might force them to rethink their position and they may change their mind.
Should we boycott a pizza place because of the distasteful views of the owner, even if the pizza place itself never engages in discriminatory practices? I wouldn't boycott it, myself. I thought the Chick-Fil-A boycott was kind of lame; I thought the Dixie Chicks boycotts were kind of lame; and I generally think boycotting people based only on viewpoints that are not put into action are kind of lame.
I like it when good ideas prevail. But I think the best mechanism for consistently achieving that goal is to let people voice their ideas openly and honestly, and then debate those ideas on the merits. A boycott is sort of the opposite of that. A boycott is saying "you should not express your ideas or you will be financially harmed." People have the
right to boycott for any reason they want -- don't get me wrong. I just don't personally
agree with boycotts that are designed to suppress the expression of certain ideas rather than to refute them on their merits. Because when boycotts are designed to suppress certain ideas, the overall effect is not necessarily for
good ideas to prevail, but only for
popular ideas to prevail. The idea behind a free marketplace of ideas is not to declare winners based on the amount of economic force that can be mobilized in their favor, but to declare winners after a thorough hearing of both sides' best evidence and arguments.
One of the benefits of capitalism is that it brings people of different backgrounds, including ideological backgrounds, together to do business with one another. People who may not be predisposed to like each other very much based on their respective ethnicities, religions, what have you, have incentives to become business partners when one of them wants to sell a pizza and the other one wants to eat a pizza. The overall effect, ideally, is to increase familiarity with different types of people with different types of views, and thus to reduce ignorance and, ultimately, bigotry.
I think we do harm to that beneficial effect when we refuse to do business with people we disagree with. If the pizza place had actually refused service to gays, I'd blame it for thwarting the beneficial effect I mentioned, and I'd be on board with boycotting them. But if the pizza place hasn't actually acted in any discriminatory way, I blame the boycotters for the breakdown.
Boycotting (along with the more violent forms of protest) is an attempt to silence the other side as a substitute for a debate on the merits. As long as everyone is playing by the rules and not actually discriminating, I'd prefer to fight words with more words, not with an economic threat designed to make the other side shut up.
Of course, that's something that everyone can decide for himself. I'm just giving my own view.