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Can we discuss pet peeves here? (3 Viewers)

food trucks: they used to be a very good value before they became trendy. their cost of business has risen dramatically (especially food costs during covid).

They can still be fun, but i really don't seek them out any longer.
 
Drivers who don't follow the fundamental traffic rules, e.g. yielding to you when they have clear and explicit right of way, crossing over a double yellow line to get into the turn lane before it exists, parking on the wrong side of the road ...
Continuing to make a left turn on a green arrow after it goes from green to yellow to blank is my specific traffic pet peeve.
 
Drivers who don't follow the fundamental traffic rules, e.g. yielding to you when they have clear and explicit right of way, crossing over a double yellow line to get into the turn lane before it exists, parking on the wrong side of the road ...
Continuing to make a left turn on a green arrow after it goes from green to yellow to blank is my specific traffic pet peeve.
to............ blank??
 
Drivers who don't follow the fundamental traffic rules, e.g. yielding to you when they have clear and explicit right of way, crossing over a double yellow line to get into the turn lane before it exists, parking on the wrong side of the road ...
Continuing to make a left turn on a green arrow after it goes from green to yellow to blank is my specific traffic pet peeve.
to............ blank??
Meaning no arrow
 
People that get in the fifteen items or less aisle at the grocery store with 20 items and feel it's ok because they split it up in to two ten item checkouts.
 
People that get in the fifteen items or less aisle at the grocery store with 20 items and feel it's ok because they split it up in to two ten item checkouts.

Yikes, this would piss me off. But, I went exclusively to self-checkout 10+ years ago and lowered my blood pressure bigly. If I can't use a self-checkout I won't shop there.
 
I haven’t seen a 10 item or less line in a while. I think my grocery got rid of them when they added self checkout. Those come with their own set of pet peeves.
 
Drivers who don't follow the fundamental traffic rules, e.g. yielding to you when they have clear and explicit right of way, crossing over a double yellow line to get into the turn lane before it exists, parking on the wrong side of the road ...
Continuing to make a left turn on a green arrow after it goes from green to yellow to blank is my specific traffic pet peeve.
And on the other hand, it's bad enough when the driver in front of the left turn lane doesn't notice the arrow turn green, but then the next couple also seem surprised that it's their turn, leaving room for a car or two in between each, so 3 cars get through instead of 6 or 7...

...Which then makes those later extra few feel justified going through when they shouldn't.
 
One positive of the COVID era is most people becoming more aware of personal space. But do we really need 8 ft between people in line ffs..... I walked in and though the medication pickup was going to be forever but it is like 6; people..... Let's tighten it up a little here people
 
One positive of the COVID era is most people becoming more aware of personal space. But do we really need 8 ft between people in line ffs..... I walked in and though the medication pickup was going to be forever but it is like 6; people..... Let's tighten it up a little here people
Yes. Yes we do.

Especially in medication pickup.
Step off George!
 
This has been mentioned but two instances happened on my most recent flights.

Plane pulls into gate, seatbelt sign goes off, dude a couple rows behind me jumps up, grabs his bag, and gets a few rows in front of me until he is stopped by the line of people also trying to get off. I laugh it off and have a brief thought of “maybe he has a connecting flight he is rushing to grab”. I get off plane and that dude is just chilling at the gate sitting at a seat without a care in the world.

Second flight I am in aisle seat, middle is unoccupied, window is some middle aged woman. We land, get to gate, seatbelt sign goes off, she immediately unbuckles and stands up. I, on the other hand know that we are in row 19 and we aren’t going anywhere for a while. So i just stay seated, like a normal person. She huffs and eventually sits back down. About half the rows have deplaned and now she slides over to the middle seat looking annoyed. I stay seated. Now there are 3 rows to go and I am still seated for I can’t go anywhere and she stands up again and says “excuse me, i gotta grab my bag” :lmao: I said cool, where is it, I can grab it for you when we get up. She didn’t like that answer and sat back down.
 
Ovens that have timers that don't do seconds.

I think you are overestimating the preciseness of oven cooking.
I think he got his oven in 1952. I haven't seen an oven without seconds since the timer ceased to be an actual clock mechanism.
Ours only shows seconds when it is in the final minute. Otherwise, minutes only.
Ours shows seconds the entire time. You just can't enter seconds. It's a year old.
 
People who "love their dog like a member of the family", but can't be bothered to do the most basic things to protect its life.

In the past five years, I've potentially saved the lives of three dogs belonging to other people (and risked my life in the process once):
  • Went sprinting into oncoming traffic in a busy intersection to rescue my brother-in-law's new puppy, who he was convinced "is really smart and won't run into the street", even though everyone else implored him not to let her outside without a leash.
  • Found a tiny dog belonging to someone we don't know a few houses away in my backyard in a pouring rainstorm and followed it back home to make sure it didn't get run over as it wandered across the street.
  • Found a puppy wandering around the neighborhood and my daughter had to run into the street to stop an oncoming car that couldn't see it crossing the street. Eventually found where it lived by following it, where the owner was surprised to learn that the dog wasn't safely in their backyard (despite the fence obviously having large enough gaps for the dog to fit through).

The weirdest thing is that in all three cases, I barely got a 'thank you' - the owners seemed more annoyed than thankful.

I also routinely see people with small dogs leaning halfway out the wide open windows of their cars as they drive. If they have to swerve or slam on the breaks, those dogs are going straight out the window.

In general, I chalk all of this up to people falling for the fallacy that "since nobody got hurt or died the other five times I tried this, it's obviously safe".
I think you’re right, but wonder how often dogs are actually getting thrown from moving vehicles. Never seen or heard of it happening, nor seen the carcasses of ejected canines.

That doesn’t mean it never occurs, of course, but as common as unrestrained dogs are, it must not be very likely.
 
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Street parking in the suburbs. There’s a reason you have a garage, and it ain’t storing junk.

For reference, my neighbor parks his two boats, and the ginormous trucks used to haul them, on the street. One set is in front of his house, blocking his driveway. I’m OK with that. I’m less enthusiastic about the ones he parks in front of me and my neighbor’s property, across the street from his home.

The net effect is a narrow corridor, between boats and trucks, and three different mailboxes being blocked. And he only sporadically uses the boats, so suburbia has effectively become his dry dock.

I’ve considered reporting the boats as abandoned, as he technically shouldn’t park them on the street at all. And no vehicle can remain in the same spot for over 24 hours. But my wife, and not wanting a war with the neighbors, have kept my irritation internalized. 🤬
 
Street parking in the suburbs. There’s a reason you have a garage, and it ain’t storing junk.

For reference, my neighbor parks his two boats, and the ginormous trucks used to haul them, on the street. One set is in front of his house, blocking his driveway. I’m OK with that. I’m less enthusiastic about the ones he parks in front of me and my neighbor’s property, across the street from his home.

The net effect is a narrow corridor, between boats and trucks, and three different mailboxes being blocked. And he only sporadically uses the boats, so suburbia has effectively become his dry dock.

I’ve considered reporting the boats as abandoned, as he technically shouldn’t park them on the street at all. And no vehicle can remain in the same spot for over 24 hours. But my wife, and not wanting a war with the neighbors, have kept my irritation internalized. 🤬
This one is worth the fight.

With an anonymous phone call of course.
 
Street parking in the suburbs. There’s a reason you have a garage, and it ain’t storing junk.

For reference, my neighbor parks his two boats, and the ginormous trucks used to haul them, on the street. One set is in front of his house, blocking his driveway. I’m OK with that. I’m less enthusiastic about the ones he parks in front of me and my neighbor’s property, across the street from his home.

The net effect is a narrow corridor, between boats and trucks, and three different mailboxes being blocked. And he only sporadically uses the boats, so suburbia has effectively become his dry dock.

I’ve considered reporting the boats as abandoned, as he technically shouldn’t park them on the street at all. And no vehicle can remain in the same spot for over 24 hours. But my wife, and not wanting a war with the neighbors, have kept my irritation internalized. 🤬
He should have no idea who made the call. The police can't divulge that. And if he somehow finds out, so what? The dude is obviously a self-absorbed jerk, why would you are if you upset him a bit?
 
Street parking in the suburbs. There’s a reason you have a garage, and it ain’t storing junk.

For reference, my neighbor parks his two boats, and the ginormous trucks used to haul them, on the street. One set is in front of his house, blocking his driveway. I’m OK with that. I’m less enthusiastic about the ones he parks in front of me and my neighbor’s property, across the street from his home.

The net effect is a narrow corridor, between boats and trucks, and three different mailboxes being blocked. And he only sporadically uses the boats, so suburbia has effectively become his dry dock.

I’ve considered reporting the boats as abandoned, as he technically shouldn’t park them on the street at all. And no vehicle can remain in the same spot for over 24 hours. But my wife, and not wanting a war with the neighbors, have kept my irritation internalized. 🤬
He should have no idea who made the call. The police can't divulge that. And if he somehow finds out, so what? The dude is obviously a self-absorbed jerk, why would you are if you upset him a bit?
Well, my wife is extremely obliging, and attributes some of it to “island style”. She’s kinda right, as street parking is a hot commodity in some neighborhoods. Not ours though.

I don’t care if I upset him, but don’t really want to concern myself with potential retaliatory actions. You‘re right though - he’s clearly a d!ck, and deserves to be treated in kind.

I try to remind myself to take the high road, and not be petty, as ultimately it’s a minor nuisance. Still, I‘m very close to the anonymous police report…
 
Ovens that have timers that don't do seconds.

I think you are overestimating the preciseness of oven cooking.
I think he got his oven in 1952. I haven't seen an oven without seconds since the timer ceased to be an actual clock mechanism.
Ours only shows seconds when it is in the final minute. Otherwise, minutes only.
Ditto and it can be annoying. If you want to use the oven timer for something else, non oven related, and you put in:30 and hit start. It goes to 30 minutes. I mean whatever..use the microwave timer..but it is a legit pet peeve
 
BTW - I have no problem with that being a pet peeve - thats what the thread is about.

It just made me think about when the last time I actually did that
 
Street parking in the suburbs. There’s a reason you have a garage, and it ain’t storing junk.

For reference, my neighbor parks his two boats, and the ginormous trucks used to haul them, on the street. One set is in front of his house, blocking his driveway. I’m OK with that. I’m less enthusiastic about the ones he parks in front of me and my neighbor’s property, across the street from his home.

The net effect is a narrow corridor, between boats and trucks, and three different mailboxes being blocked. And he only sporadically uses the boats, so suburbia has effectively become his dry dock.

I’ve considered reporting the boats as abandoned, as he technically shouldn’t park them on the street at all. And no vehicle can remain in the same spot for over 24 hours. But my wife, and not wanting a war with the neighbors, have kept my irritation internalized. 🤬
He should have no idea who made the call. The police can't divulge that. And if he somehow finds out, so what? The dude is obviously a self-absorbed jerk, why would you are if you upset him a bit?
Well, my wife is extremely obliging, and attributes some of it to “island style”. She’s kinda right, as street parking is a hot commodity in some neighborhoods. Not ours though.

I don’t care if I upset him, but don’t really want to concern myself with potential retaliatory actions. You‘re right though - he’s clearly a d!ck, and deserves to be treated in kind.

I try to remind myself to take the high road, and not be petty, as ultimately it’s a minor nuisance. Still, I‘m very close to the anonymous police report…

One nice thing about living in an HOA.
 
Ovens that have timers that don't do seconds.

I think you are overestimating the preciseness of oven cooking.
It's more a habit thing. On the microwave I type 2:00 if I want two minutes. If I type 8:00 on the oven, same manufacturer, it is 8 hours.
How often do you cook something in the oven for 8 minutes?

The only thing I can think of is thin crust pizza on a stone at 500.
 
Street parking in the suburbs. There’s a reason you have a garage, and it ain’t storing junk.

For reference, my neighbor parks his two boats, and the ginormous trucks used to haul them, on the street. One set is in front of his house, blocking his driveway. I’m OK with that. I’m less enthusiastic about the ones he parks in front of me and my neighbor’s property, across the street from his home.

The net effect is a narrow corridor, between boats and trucks, and three different mailboxes being blocked. And he only sporadically uses the boats, so suburbia has effectively become his dry dock.

I’ve considered reporting the boats as abandoned, as he technically shouldn’t park them on the street at all. And no vehicle can remain in the same spot for over 24 hours. But my wife, and not wanting a war with the neighbors, have kept my irritation internalized. 🤬

Times like these make me appreciate the onerous HOA we have. This crap wouldn't survive a day without action from Karen and Chad in our HOA.

Also, isn't it illegal to block a mail box?
 
Found a new one and maybe it's been addressed here.

Our sons have flag football practice and games on Sunday. There is one field used for this and it gets very crowded on game day. Parking is tough to find and space to set up your chairs can be tight.

Yesterday, between games, there was a husband, wife and maybe a 10 year old girl all in folding chairs cheering on their 7ish year old son/brother. The games have about 10-15 minutes between them, so once a game is over, you pack up and let the new group of parents sit down. Not this family. They waited until their son talked to the coach, got his snack, came over with his snack, helped him open the snack all the while just camping out in their spots. Meanwhile, our game is about to begin and they are taking up about 15 feet or so with their chairs.

Finally, they get up and start to pack up at what I will generously call a glacial pace. Put things nicely into a some sort of bag, slowly begin to fold-up the chairs and have TWO people put the chairs in the chair bags. Just oblivious to the fact that other people would like to set up their chairs and watch their son play football. Finally, I had enough and just started setting up right next to them to send a message. The dad got a little huffy, but I ignored him.

Youth sport fan etiquette 101 -- Once your game is over, you pack up your stuff and you move immediately so others can set up and watch their game. It's just polite. The self absorbed oblivion that some of us wear on a daily basis has got to be a gigantic pet peeve of mine over all. Be aware of others. Be courteous. It's not hard.
 
Found a new one and maybe it's been addressed here.

Our sons have flag football practice and games on Sunday. There is one field used for this and it gets very crowded on game day. Parking is tough to find and space to set up your chairs can be tight.

Yesterday, between games, there was a husband, wife and maybe a 10 year old girl all in folding chairs cheering on their 7ish year old son/brother. The games have about 10-15 minutes between them, so once a game is over, you pack up and let the new group of parents sit down. Not this family. They waited until their son talked to the coach, got his snack, came over with his snack, helped him open the snack all the while just camping out in their spots. Meanwhile, our game is about to begin and they are taking up about 15 feet or so with their chairs.

Finally, they get up and start to pack up at what I will generously call a glacial pace. Put things nicely into a some sort of bag, slowly begin to fold-up the chairs and have TWO people put the chairs in the chair bags. Just oblivious to the fact that other people would like to set up their chairs and watch their son play football. Finally, I had enough and just started setting up right next to them to send a message. The dad got a little huffy, but I ignored him.

Youth sport fan etiquette 101 -- Once your game is over, you pack up your stuff and you move immediately so others can set up and watch their game. It's just polite. The self absorbed oblivion that some of us wear on a daily basis has got to be a gigantic pet peeve of mine over all. Be aware of others. Be courteous. It's not hard.
I haven't seen this addressed yet and being new to the flag football community, I am just noticing this as of recently. Happens here too.
 
Found a new one and maybe it's been addressed here.

Our sons have flag football practice and games on Sunday. There is one field used for this and it gets very crowded on game day. Parking is tough to find and space to set up your chairs can be tight.

Yesterday, between games, there was a husband, wife and maybe a 10 year old girl all in folding chairs cheering on their 7ish year old son/brother. The games have about 10-15 minutes between them, so once a game is over, you pack up and let the new group of parents sit down. Not this family. They waited until their son talked to the coach, got his snack, came over with his snack, helped him open the snack all the while just camping out in their spots. Meanwhile, our game is about to begin and they are taking up about 15 feet or so with their chairs.

Finally, they get up and start to pack up at what I will generously call a glacial pace. Put things nicely into a some sort of bag, slowly begin to fold-up the chairs and have TWO people put the chairs in the chair bags. Just oblivious to the fact that other people would like to set up their chairs and watch their son play football. Finally, I had enough and just started setting up right next to them to send a message. The dad got a little huffy, but I ignored him.

Youth sport fan etiquette 101 -- Once your game is over, you pack up your stuff and you move immediately so others can set up and watch their game. It's just polite. The self absorbed oblivion that some of us wear on a daily basis has got to be a gigantic pet peeve of mine over all. Be aware of others. Be courteous. It's not hard.
Our tournaments have a similar pace… 95% of the spectators are conscientious, but every once in a while we get one of these families.
 
People who "love their dog like a member of the family", but can't be bothered to do the most basic things to protect its life.

In the past five years, I've potentially saved the lives of three dogs belonging to other people (and risked my life in the process once):
  • Went sprinting into oncoming traffic in a busy intersection to rescue my brother-in-law's new puppy, who he was convinced "is really smart and won't run into the street", even though everyone else implored him not to let her outside without a leash.
  • Found a tiny dog belonging to someone we don't know a few houses away in my backyard in a pouring rainstorm and followed it back home to make sure it didn't get run over as it wandered across the street.
  • Found a puppy wandering around the neighborhood and my daughter had to run into the street to stop an oncoming car that couldn't see it crossing the street. Eventually found where it lived by following it, where the owner was surprised to learn that the dog wasn't safely in their backyard (despite the fence obviously having large enough gaps for the dog to fit through).

The weirdest thing is that in all three cases, I barely got a 'thank you' - the owners seemed more annoyed than thankful.

I also routinely see people with small dogs leaning halfway out the wide open windows of their cars as they drive. If they have to swerve or slam on the breaks, those dogs are going straight out the window.

In general, I chalk all of this up to people falling for the fallacy that "since nobody got hurt or died the other five times I tried this, it's obviously safe".
I think you’re right, but wonder how often dogs are actually getting thrown from moving vehicles. Never seen or heard of it happening, nor seen the carcasses of ejected canines.

That doesn’t mean it never occurs, of course, but as common as unrestrained dogs are, it must not be very likely.
Saw it once but it wasn't out a passenger area window. It was a dog that jumped/fell out of the bed of a truck. Morning commute, thick traffic. Probably going around 40 mph. Car slightly behind and on my left began beeping so I looked over and saw this dog, which was tied to the bed of a truck, bouncing on the road behind the truck on my left. When the driver finally braked, the dog's momentum carried it under the truck bumper. Didn't see anything after that as I was still moving.
Got shivers just remembering.
 
I need to know if this is just me being randomly angry or this annoys other.

Maybe I have ask me everything kind of vibe..... We are walking around with computer in your pocket.

Yet my wife, my parents, co workers just ask a thousand questions that would take 30 seconds to answer. What time is this? Do you know this? When is this? Like im the gate keeper of answers
10000%
I've been keeping count, and I'm pretty sure it's 7 days running where my wife will ask me what the weather is going to be like today. Each time she asks, I purposefully and obviously pick up my phone to go to the weather app and read it off to her. Today, I walked over and picked up HER phone, which was sitting on the counter in front of her and did the same thing. Passive aggressive much?
 
Street parking in the suburbs. There’s a reason you have a garage, and it ain’t storing junk.

For reference, my neighbor parks his two boats, and the ginormous trucks used to haul them, on the street. One set is in front of his house, blocking his driveway. I’m OK with that. I’m less enthusiastic about the ones he parks in front of me and my neighbor’s property, across the street from his home.

The net effect is a narrow corridor, between boats and trucks, and three different mailboxes being blocked. And he only sporadically uses the boats, so suburbia has effectively become his dry dock.

I’ve considered reporting the boats as abandoned, as he technically shouldn’t park them on the street at all. And no vehicle can remain in the same spot for over 24 hours. But my wife, and not wanting a war with the neighbors, have kept my irritation internalized. 🤬
The passive aggressive thing would be to park your least valuable vehicle in front of your house as often as possible. Also ask your neighbor to move his stuff when you attempt to do that, if their vehicles are there. Invent some kind of phantom driveway/garage repairs that never seem to complete as a reason why you need to park in front of your house.
 
Found a new one and maybe it's been addressed here.

Our sons have flag football practice and games on Sunday. There is one field used for this and it gets very crowded on game day. Parking is tough to find and space to set up your chairs can be tight.

Yesterday, between games, there was a husband, wife and maybe a 10 year old girl all in folding chairs cheering on their 7ish year old son/brother. The games have about 10-15 minutes between them, so once a game is over, you pack up and let the new group of parents sit down. Not this family. They waited until their son talked to the coach, got his snack, came over with his snack, helped him open the snack all the while just camping out in their spots. Meanwhile, our game is about to begin and they are taking up about 15 feet or so with their chairs.

Finally, they get up and start to pack up at what I will generously call a glacial pace. Put things nicely into a some sort of bag, slowly begin to fold-up the chairs and have TWO people put the chairs in the chair bags. Just oblivious to the fact that other people would like to set up their chairs and watch their son play football. Finally, I had enough and just started setting up right next to them to send a message. The dad got a little huffy, but I ignored him.

Youth sport fan etiquette 101 -- Once your game is over, you pack up your stuff and you move immediately so others can set up and watch their game. It's just polite. The self absorbed oblivion that some of us wear on a daily basis has got to be a gigantic pet peeve of mine over all. Be aware of others. Be courteous. It's not hard.
Did you explain your situation and ask them if they could shift their stuff away from the field boundary so you could set up for your kid's upcoming game?
 
Found a new one and maybe it's been addressed here.

Our sons have flag football practice and games on Sunday. There is one field used for this and it gets very crowded on game day. Parking is tough to find and space to set up your chairs can be tight.

Yesterday, between games, there was a husband, wife and maybe a 10 year old girl all in folding chairs cheering on their 7ish year old son/brother. The games have about 10-15 minutes between them, so once a game is over, you pack up and let the new group of parents sit down. Not this family. They waited until their son talked to the coach, got his snack, came over with his snack, helped him open the snack all the while just camping out in their spots. Meanwhile, our game is about to begin and they are taking up about 15 feet or so with their chairs.

Finally, they get up and start to pack up at what I will generously call a glacial pace. Put things nicely into a some sort of bag, slowly begin to fold-up the chairs and have TWO people put the chairs in the chair bags. Just oblivious to the fact that other people would like to set up their chairs and watch their son play football. Finally, I had enough and just started setting up right next to them to send a message. The dad got a little huffy, but I ignored him.

Youth sport fan etiquette 101 -- Once your game is over, you pack up your stuff and you move immediately so others can set up and watch their game. It's just polite. The self absorbed oblivion that some of us wear on a daily basis has got to be a gigantic pet peeve of mine over all. Be aware of others. Be courteous. It's not hard.
Did you explain your situation and ask them if they could shift their stuff away from the field boundary so you could set up for your kid's upcoming game?

No, I seethed silently behind them before sending a purpose pitch high and tight. I shouldn't have to explain etiquette 101 to people. This is common decency. We live in a society.
 

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