Caught wife texting another guy and hiding it - what's the play? (1 Viewer)

[SacramentoBob]

Only a matter of time before the Hennepin County prosecutor gets involved in this.

 

[Tick]

It's funny honestly, I'm advocating dumping a girl who cheats on you and all of you act like that's blasphemy.

I feel like a lot of you need to take a trip back to when you still had balls. You're a man. Anyone women who treads on you, treads on the king, treads on the bread winner needs to be put in her place.

One of the biggest problems I see with society is that we let women do whatever they want and nobody holds them accountable.

Her being your wife is even more reason to hold it against her, imo. If a girl cheats, find one that won't.

Lol, bread winner. You can buy a whole loaf with your days pay. Lol Lol Lol

You were young and poor once too my friend. That didn't make your opinion invalid. If I was your age and poor, then I'd have a problem.

I grew up very poor. And I've been very well off for over a decade. Never once have I referred to myself as the bread winner. It isn't 1950. Em, plenty of women make more money than you do, pull your head out of the sand.

I don't want to have to read the whole thread. How did Em get sand in his ###?

Do the opposite - read the thread up until the point where Em takes over.

 

[matuski]

Has Em denied he's popsecret?

Maybe Em will pop the secret soon that hes sleeping with this guy

Another anti gay remark. I am surprised because these same people are the ones that pretend to be pro gay marriage

I wonder if em watched the halftime show. They forced us to listen to a song about a girl kissing a girl and liking it.

 

[stlrams]

the way you're ok w the fact that she plowed this dude makes me think youve done the same at some point in your marriage.

correct

Absolutely not. Cheating is unacceptable for anyone in a marriage

 

[VA703]

did we get pics of his wife yet

 

[Bull Dozier]

It's funny honestly, I'm advocating dumping a girl who cheats on you and all of you act like that's blasphemy.

I feel like a lot of you need to take a trip back to when you still had balls. You're a man. Anyone women who treads on you, treads on the king, treads on the bread winner needs to be put in her place.

One of the biggest problems I see with society is that we let women do whatever they want and nobody holds them accountable.

Her being your wife is even more reason to hold it against her, imo. If a girl cheats, find one that won't.

Yes, this is totally one of the biggest problems we face today.

 

[popsecret]

It's funny honestly, I'm advocating dumping a girl who cheats on you and all of you act like that's blasphemy.

I feel like a lot of you need to take a trip back to when you still had balls. You're a man. Anyone women who treads on you, treads on the king, treads on the bread winner needs to be put in her place.

One of the biggest problems I see with society is that we let women do whatever they want and nobody holds them accountable.

Her being your wife is even more reason to hold it against her, imo. If a girl cheats, find one that won't.

Yes, this is totally one of the biggest problems we face today.

Well it is a problem when we are letting females take logically demanding or physically demanding positions from men(to be politically correct) when they are better suited for jobs that are emotionally demanding.

Before you science worshiping people trash me, remember I have science on my side

"male brains are typically stronger between the front and back regions. Men’s brains tend to perform tasks predominantly on the left-side, which is the logical/rational side of the brain"

"Women typically have a larger limbic system than men, which makes them more in touch and expressive with their emotions."

 

[Bull Dozier]

It's funny honestly, I'm advocating dumping a girl who cheats on you and all of you act like that's blasphemy.

I feel like a lot of you need to take a trip back to when you still had balls. You're a man. Anyone women who treads on you, treads on the king, treads on the bread winner needs to be put in her place.

One of the biggest problems I see with society is that we let women do whatever they want and nobody holds them accountable.

Her being your wife is even more reason to hold it against her, imo. If a girl cheats, find one that won't.

Yes, this is totally one of the biggest problems we face today.

Well it is a problem when we are letting females take logically demanding or physically demanding positions from men(to be politically correct) when they are better suited for jobs that are emotionally demanding.

Before you science worshiping people trash me, remember I have science on my side

"male brains are typically stronger between the front and back regions. Men’s brains tend to perform tasks predominantly on the left-side, which is the logical/rational side of the brain"

"Women typically have a larger limbic system than men, which makes them more in touch and expressive with their emotions."

Whether that is or is not a problem is a debateable idea. Whether it is one of the biggest problems currently facing society really isn't.

 

[matuski]

It's funny honestly, I'm advocating dumping a girl who cheats on you and all of you act like that's blasphemy.

I feel like a lot of you need to take a trip back to when you still had balls. You're a man. Anyone women who treads on you, treads on the king, treads on the bread winner needs to be put in her place.

One of the biggest problems I see with society is that we let women do whatever they want and nobody holds them accountable.

Her being your wife is even more reason to hold it against her, imo. If a girl cheats, find one that won't.

Yes, this is totally one of the biggest problems we face today.

Well it is a problem when we are letting females take logically demanding or physically demanding positions from men(to be politically correct) when they are better suited for jobs that are emotionally demanding.

Before you science worshiping people trash me, remember I have science on my side

"male brains are typically stronger between the front and back regions. Men’s brains tend to perform tasks predominantly on the left-side, which is the logical/rational side of the brain"

"Women typically have a larger limbic system than men, which makes them more in touch and expressive with their emotions."

Show your work.

 

[The Duff Man]

God help us all if the women ever own the jobs that are emotionally demanding...

 

[Spike]

It's funny honestly, I'm advocating dumping a girl who cheats on you and all of you act like that's blasphemy

That makes sense to me. It's your alternative proposal to instead stay in the relationship and cheat on her so you can get "even" that I think demonstrates pettiness and low character.

It's a messy situation but in the OP's situation where he doesn't know what really happened he may never have peace of mind. So for him, it may be best to assume the worst and fool around himself so even if he did get played... he'd know that he also got some honey himself."She screwed me over but little does she know I got me some too. I can more easily accept the situation and move on."

Right. Pettiness and low character.

But justified if his wife did boink this dude. Just because he doesn't know for a fact does not pardon her from what may have happened. Get what I'm saying?If she had sex with him, I'd assume he would want a divorce.

Since that's always going to be a question mark, he needs to justify it in some way.

It's not fair that he remained faithful and now has to wonder if his wife did something dumb that he would maybe consider divorcing her over. I know how I'd get even / feel more secure about the situation.

Remember, she was hiding this guy under the name "Katie".

Are you from this planet? Because it's possible she did something he should move forward under the assumption she did do something.

Wow.

 

[sbonomo]

How long until the em/pop duo get a perma ban?

 

[Osaurus]

How long until the em/pop duo get a perma ban?

No kidding

 

[SWC]

hey eminence and popsecret can you both just leave this one alone it was a pretty good thread and now you have just made it about you and put in a bunch of misoganist under tones i guess you got what you wanted so hey you win you win you win just leave it alone now and start another thread called ems thoughts on women or something thanks guys take that to the bank brohans

 

[popsecret]

SWC when you are modding this forum I will take into consideration what you think. Until then, please stop blaming us for people fixating on opinions different than theirs, as if their insecurity is our fault. You can take that to the bank brohan

 

[VA703]

OOF

 

[Eminence]

Yeah, you guys are goofy. While my opinion may not be popular, I have the right to my opinion.

Any of you could have easily ignored what I said and you know what? It would have been dead in the water. I don't have the power to hijack a thread.

That power belongs to the people. I voiced my opinion.

Period.

 

[Bucky86]

Yeah, you guys are goofy. While my opinion may not be popular, I have the right to my opinion.

Any of you could have easily ignored what I said and you know what? It would have been dead in the water. I don't have the power to hijack a thread.

That power belongs to the people. I voiced my opinion.

Period.

You're on your period?

 

[Slapdash]

Yeah, you guys are goofy. While my opinion may not be popular, I have the right to my opinion.

Any of you could have easily ignored what I said and you know what? It would have been dead in the water. I don't have the power to hijack a thread.

That power belongs to the people. I voiced my opinion.

Period.

You're on your period?

Good thing he knows what aisle the tampons are on

 

[SproutDaddy]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

 

[popsecret]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake.

Are you referring to bucky mocking the menstruation cycle? I didn't take it as childish as much as I took it as anti-female.

 

[mquinnjr]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

This is why you don't un-ban people.

 

[thayman]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

This is why you don't un-ban people.

 

[Eminence]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

This is why you don't un-ban people.

You guys are ridiculous. The entire thread is filled with posts mocking the original poster telling him to hide money and making jokes suggesting this guy boned his wife.

But my suggestion that since he will never know what truly happened, whether it was simply drinks or full blown sex that he should take the chance to cheat himself; is met with such disgust? Come on guys, have some fun...

 

[thayman]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

This is why you don't un-ban people.

You guys are ridiculous. The entire thread is filled with posts mocking the original poster telling him to hide money and making jokes suggesting this guy boned his wife.

But my suggestion that since he will never know what truly happened, whether it was simply drinks or full blown sex that he should take the chance to cheat himself; is met with such disgust? Come on guys, have some fun...

It's because not many people think much of you. You've shown too much of yourself, between crying about being cyber-bullied to threatening to kill yourself. I used to find you amusing until you started showing what a total racist you are.

It also doesn't help that you try to tell others how to live their lives all the while you can't even support yourself.

 

[popsecret]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

This is why you don't un-ban people.

You guys are ridiculous. The entire thread is filled with posts mocking the original poster telling him to hide money and making jokes suggesting this guy boned his wife.

But my suggestion that since he will never know what truly happened, whether it was simply drinks or full blown sex that he should take the chance to cheat himself; is met with such disgust? Come on guys, have some fun...

It's because not many people think much of you. You've shown too much of yourself, between crying about being cyber-bullied to threatening to kill yourself. I used to find you amusing until you started showing what a total racist you are.

It also doesn't help that you try to tell others how to live their lives all the while you can't even support yourself.

This forum is nothing but a bunch of social justice warriors, so that just shows how fake you all are if he was crying about being cyber-bullied and that makes you guys dislike him more

He isn't a racist, he posted a picture of himself with black friends, racists don't have black friends.

He has a job while going to school, for his age that is more than fine, and being he was cheated on it is more than appropriate for him to give his opinion on this thread.

Your post is filled with anger and I suggest you take a break from the internet.

Have a great day.

 

[thayman]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

This is why you don't un-ban people.

You guys are ridiculous. The entire thread is filled with posts mocking the original poster telling him to hide money and making jokes suggesting this guy boned his wife.

But my suggestion that since he will never know what truly happened, whether it was simply drinks or full blown sex that he should take the chance to cheat himself; is met with such disgust? Come on guys, have some fun...

It's because not many people think much of you. You've shown too much of yourself, between crying about being cyber-bullied to threatening to kill yourself. I used to find you amusing until you started showing what a total racist you are.

It also doesn't help that you try to tell others how to live their lives all the while you can't even support yourself.

This forum is nothing but a bunch of social justice warriors, so that just shows how fake you all are if he was crying about being cyber-bullied and that makes you guys dislike him more

He isn't a racist, he posted a picture of himself with black friends, racists don't have black friends.

He has a job while going to school, for his age that is more than fine, and being he was cheated on it is more than appropriate for him to give his opinion on this thread.

Your post is filled with anger and I suggest you take a break from the internet.

Have a great day.

Oh you silly troll you.

 

[Carolina Hustler]

Take a large file folder, or manila envelope, address it to yourself, staple a private investigators card to the front of it. Fill the folder or envelope with documents and maybe some photo paper. Then ask her to have a sit down, set this folder in front of you with a small tape recorder, and tell her you have been given some disappointing information by a private investigator you hired, and you'd like to give her an opportunity to come clean so that you can resolve the issue and move forward.

If she believes you have evidence of her cheating on the recorder, and in the folder, she may spill the beans at that point, if so, you have your answer, although she may just call your bluff..

If she has cheated, emotionally, or physically, the relationship is pretty much over. It will never be the same even if you could trust her not to do it again, which you can't.

 

[El Floppo]

ok. this thread now sucks.

 

[jon_mx]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

This is why you don't un-ban people.

You guys are ridiculous. The entire thread is filled with posts mocking the original poster telling him to hide money and making jokes suggesting this guy boned his wife.

But my suggestion that since he will never know what truly happened, whether it was simply drinks or full blown sex that he should take the chance to cheat himself; is met with such disgust? Come on guys, have some fun...

It's because not many people think much of you. You've shown too much of yourself, between crying about being cyber-bullied to threatening to kill yourself. I used to find you amusing until you started showing what a total racist you are.

It also doesn't help that you try to tell others how to live their lives all the while you can't even support yourself.

This forum is nothing but a bunch of social justice warriors, so that just shows how fake you all are if he was crying about being cyber-bullied and that makes you guys dislike him more

Th

He isn't a racist, he posted a picture of himself with black friends, racists don't have black friends.

He has a job while going to school, for his age that is more than fine, and being he was cheated on it is more than appropriate for him to give his opinion on this thread.

Your post is filled with anger and I suggest you take a break from the internet.

Have a great day.

No way this isn't em. Some people think it is someone trolling em, but this is 100 percent pure em which no one else could duplicate.

 

[tommyboy]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

 

[SIDA!]

You can take that to the bank brohan

 

[SIDA!]

Imagine if Em was here during the Russian Mail Order Bride draft. Him or Tim would have derailed it.

 

[Tom Servo]

How long until the em/pop duo get a perma ban?

Not soon enough.

 

[PIK95]

How long until the em/pop duo get a perma ban?

Not soon enough.

Are they real? I seriously thought they were schtick they are so bad. So many threads ruined....

 

[matuski]

I've witnessed a great deal of childish #### on this board over the past 12+ years, but this takes the cake. Hard to believe this person isn't an adolescent.

It was once funny to see how someone could possibly be this clueless and stupid. I think now everyone is just tired of the nonsense.

This is why you don't un-ban people.

You guys are ridiculous. The entire thread is filled with posts mocking the original poster telling him to hide money and making jokes suggesting this guy boned his wife.

But my suggestion that since he will never know what truly happened, whether it was simply drinks or full blown sex that he should take the chance to cheat himself; is met with such disgust? Come on guys, have some fun...

It's because not many people think much of you. You've shown too much of yourself, between crying about being cyber-bullied to threatening to kill yourself. I used to find you amusing until you started showing what a total racist you are.

It also doesn't help that you try to tell others how to live their lives all the while you can't even support yourself.

This forum is nothing but a bunch of social justice warriors, so that just shows how fake you all are if he was crying about being cyber-bullied and that makes you guys dislike him more

He isn't a racist, he posted a picture of himself with black friends, racists don't have black friends.

He has a job while going to school, for his age that is more than fine, and being he was cheated on it is more than appropriate for him to give his opinion on this thread.

Your post is filled with anger and I suggest you take a break from the internet.

Have a great day.

Em stop. You did what you did and nobody buys the alias game.

Most of us can spot you from a mile away.

 

[SacramentoBob]

Was this ever resolved or did Eminence run the OP off?

 

[Jayrok]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

 

[SacramentoBob]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

What's stopping you from moving on anyway?

 

[Jayrok]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

What's stopping you from moving on anyway?

Family, money.. different things. I don't want to go through the financial hit of divorce. She has never worked during our marriage, outside of a few years as a sub-teacher. Stayed home to raise the kids. Kids are grown/gone now so it's just us. We married so so young, but we've been together forever. I will always take care of her financially. It just seems best to stay together (one mortgage payment, etc.) Just not happy.

 

[Bull Dozier]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

What's stopping you from moving on anyway?

Family, money.. different things. I don't want to go through the financial hit of divorce. She has never worked during our marriage, outside of a few years as a sub-teacher. Stayed home to raise the kids. Kids are grown/gone now so it's just us. We married so so young, but we've been together forever. I will always take care of her financially. It just seems best to stay together (one mortgage payment, etc.) Just not happy.

This sounds like a conversation worthy of its own thread.

 

[Keerock]

So how are the walls?

 

[Jayrok]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

What's stopping you from moving on anyway?

Family, money.. different things. I don't want to go through the financial hit of divorce. She has never worked during our marriage, outside of a few years as a sub-teacher. Stayed home to raise the kids. Kids are grown/gone now so it's just us. We married so so young, but we've been together forever. I will always take care of her financially. It just seems best to stay together (one mortgage payment, etc.) Just not happy.

This sounds like a conversation worthy of its own thread.

Well, it's a long story but I could probably sum it up... no marriage or relationship is perfect. People make mistakes. I will say this, though.. as a 50 year old who has been married for over 30 of those years, I have experienced a lot of things and might have some advice for some younger guys out there.

 

[Gianni Verscotchie]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

What's stopping you from moving on anyway?

Family, money.. different things. I don't want to go through the financial hit of divorce. She has never worked during our marriage, outside of a few years as a sub-teacher. Stayed home to raise the kids. Kids are grown/gone now so it's just us. We married so so young, but we've been together forever. I will always take care of her financially. It just seems best to stay together (one mortgage payment, etc.) Just not happy.

Can't you just "make her disappear"?

 

[Stinkin Ref]

A little background here, wife of 22 years who never gave any hint of cheating. At 11:30 Christmas eve, a text comes from Katie. The next day I ask who is Katie, she tells me its coworker from NY. When I ask why CT #, she goes on to tell me its really a divorce guy she works with that going thru a tough time. I ask to see text but they're all deleted and when I ask that we can recover deleted texts she refuses saying I would get wrong message. She has hid her phone, changed the passcode, deleted everything from ipad, and deleted all recent phone #'s. She indicates nothing ever happen outside of having a few drinks one night at a work function....

while this is back on the front page........update?

 

[Joe Summer]

Just have an affair.

 

[Jayrok]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

What's stopping you from moving on anyway?

Family, money.. different things. I don't want to go through the financial hit of divorce. She has never worked during our marriage, outside of a few years as a sub-teacher. Stayed home to raise the kids. Kids are grown/gone now so it's just us. We married so so young, but we've been together forever. I will always take care of her financially. It just seems best to stay together (one mortgage payment, etc.) Just not happy.

Can't you just "make her disappear"?

no, never never.

 

[Captain Quinoa]

So how are the walls?

soaked?

 

[Captain Quinoa]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

What's stopping you from moving on anyway?

Family, money.. different things. I don't want to go through the financial hit of divorce. She has never worked during our marriage, outside of a few years as a sub-teacher. Stayed home to raise the kids. Kids are grown/gone now so it's just us. We married so so young, but we've been together forever. I will always take care of her financially. It just seems best to stay together (one mortgage payment, etc.) Just not happy.

I know a guy you could talk to. Good friend of mine. Very helpful in these situations. Goes by the name of The Lord. Give him a call.

 

[Jayrok]

After 20 yrs of marriage, im not sure it would bother me if my wife cheated on me. I guess it would depend on whether it was a one time mistake or an ongoing affair. If it was the latter, it would cost me half, but id just divorce her and move on. If it was a one off, i think id just move on

After 30 yrs of marriage, I sometimes wish she would so that I could move on. It sucks to be unhappy at home.

What's stopping you from moving on anyway?

Family, money.. different things. I don't want to go through the financial hit of divorce. She has never worked during our marriage, outside of a few years as a sub-teacher. Stayed home to raise the kids. Kids are grown/gone now so it's just us. We married so so young, but we've been together forever. I will always take care of her financially. It just seems best to stay together (one mortgage payment, etc.) Just not happy.

I know a guy you could talk to. Good friend of mine. Very helpful in these situations. Goes by the name of The Lord. Give him a call.

Oh we've seen him for counseling for the longest time. Seems lately he hasn't been taking my calls. Talked to a few representatives of his but nothing positive came from that either.